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Why don’t women like nice guys?


Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:11 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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When you're dealing with OPINIONS, everyone IS right. Some of us are just righter than others.

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Dec 29, 2007 @ 9:35 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
zena343


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Obviously everyone's opinon of a nice guy is different...........the thing is we want a NICE GUY........who we are attracted to!!
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Dec 29, 2007 @ 9:37 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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Absolutely!
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Dec 30, 2007 @ 10:51 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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that's right ZENA...it has to be a nice guy we think is hot...not a dork
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Dec 30, 2007 @ 3:42 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
Natgoat


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Some women wouldn't know a Nice Guy . . if he bit her on the @$$ . . !!
...But . . a Nice Guy has better Taste ..than to bite Some women
. . . ANYwhere . . !!
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Dec 30, 2007 @ 8:10 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
ynot7769


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Dec 30, 2007 @ 9:22 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
sumdaysoon


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some guys don't have a fucking clue either...........
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Dec 31, 2007 @ 12:43 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
alybai42


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*Flashes all the men my bewbies*
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Dec 31, 2007 @ 1:24 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
Natgoat


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..Oh, GAWD!!!..

I'm BLIND!!!
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Jan 8, 2008 @ 3:36 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
Playguy40


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I'm a nice guy but I bite.
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Jan 8, 2008 @ 5:15 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
RamzalElric


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Hate to bust everyone's bubble .. but mischief is right.. we don't like pussy bois.. we like the ones who challenge us.. whether it be physically, emotionally or spiritually.

It's true, sadly. And most of the time, it ends up as a physical or emotional challenge that most females would go for. But here's the catch, with that step, they open up a real bad can of worms. One that will lead to them stuck with a complete douchebag who finds superiority over said female and feels that he can say whatever he wants to her while her opinion is worth less then a Canadian nickel in NYC. Then, she eventually reaches a breaking point where she's hurt by said possible douchebag and wants to leave him but because she feels she loves him (When, all she loves is the challenge) she doesn't and lives a life or longer term of being with someone who makes her feel stupid.

It's no secret, it's been happening since mankind became able to call themselves "mankind". Most women love a dominating force that won't just go with the tide. I remember that in a book, there's a part where the main character happens to fall into a timewarp and end up back to when his ex-girlfriend dumped him. (Yes, it was a sci-fi book :P) He remembered that moment and thought "Oh yeah. This is the night that she called off the relationship." And before she had the chance to, he told her something along the lines of "Uh-huh. It's not working for us. Yeah, whatever you say. Either way, that's cool, you're picking up the check right? Later" and the next thought of the woman was something along the lines of "... Hm... Now I want him again."

Also:

Nice guys quit trying, and they get classified as "friends."


And every one knows women don't have sex with their friends unless they're drunk or in a fit of emotional distress. "Friends with benefits" means women having sex with real men they know they'll never conquer.

And by that logic, every guy who has a picture of his cock on this site must remove any signs of insisting that they are real men. Because if they were--by your logic--they would not need to be on this site doing so because they would have found a girl near by them by going about the usual tactics they use already.
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Jan 8, 2008 @ 10:12 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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I can't say I agree entirely. I don't like being challenged. I mean, it's really a moot effort on their part when you know you're always right anyway. LOL.

Be that as it may...for me, anyway...I do like a nice guy. But I think some people equate being nice with being a pushover. A man can be very nice and not be a pushover. He can be nice and still exude the confidence it takes to attract me. Intelligence goes a very long way with me, but not humble intelligence, not haughty intelligence. Pretentiousness is annoying. Be all that you can be, yes, but be who you are, not who you want to be but can't be.

This is one lady who does NOT like "bad" boys. I have no use for them whatsoever.

And sending me a picture of, or describing your penis for me, will only likely make me laugh, point and say, "Hey! That looks like a penis, only smaller!"

Only men, not boys, realize they have so much more to offer a woman than what's dangling from betwixt their legs.
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 12:01 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
SxzeNewMe


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I'm a nice guy but I bite.

Playguy, you can bite me anytime you want!
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 1:41 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
alybai42


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I'm a nice guy but I bite.

Do you bite hard
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 2:46 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
aspiringwriter


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Intelligence goes a very long way with me, but not humble intelligence, not haughty intelligence.


is the first "not", a typo?

worth less then a Canadian nickel in NYC.
Awesome phrase, I'm stealing it.
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 4:25 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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Yes it is, but no way to edit. Bummer.
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 5:06 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
aspiringwriter


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random theory I just came up with and thought I'd try out:
bad boys represent a sort of instant gratification, nice guys are percieved as a longer term reward. women of the more verucca salt ("I want a golden goose, and I want it now") or spoiled princess type go for the bad boy. women trying a more long term strategy to the whole dating, etc thing want a nice guy.

also, I'd assume women with more expirence have probably realized that nice guys aren't always strictly vanilla, and vice versa. hmm, ironically, the bad boy type men that I know, I find really boring and the women that (at least superficially) seemed like bad girls are amongst the more interesting.

I just noticed this whole post has kind of a reverse e.e. cummings thing going on. I also just noticed that I apparently get really nerdy when I'm tired...

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May 3, 2012 @ 10:22 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
patty19


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I like nice guys I don't like creeps
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Jun 4, 2012 @ 10:33 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
sweetkisses


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i'd rather date a nice guy than an asshole
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Jun 13, 2012 @ 1:31 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
atruenortherngirl


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Exactly. Nice guys don't finish last in my race they WIN
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