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Dec 14, 2007 @ 10:37 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
bentan


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If they were successful "targets" of duplicity, then it does carry with it the implication of fault on the part of the one being "tricked" because, according to some, anyway, she "should have seen it coming." Hence returning back to my previous comment about hindsight being 20/20.

So if someone were raped, would it mean she is necessarily at fault for being raped? At any rate, what word would you use in place of "hoodwinked" to express the same thing without the implication of fault?
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Dec 14, 2007 @ 7:02 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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That's a very different thing. Being raped is not being "hoodwinked." Being hoodwinked is the same thing as saying she was duped, and suggests she should have been smart enough to see it coming, as I mentioned before. Being raped is NEVER a woman's fault.

It's like I said...in certain situations you don't know--you can't possibly know--that you're going to become a victim until AFTER you become a victim. To suggest someone was "hoodwinked" is akin to saying "Looks like he really pulled the wool over your eyes!"

Now, sure, if the guy is wearing a wedding band, doesn't give you his home number, is never available on the weekends, etc., etc., and still insists he's not married and she she still believes him, if she's stupid enough to believe it, I'd certainly call that being hoodwinked.

Anyway, to answer your question, I'm not sure what one word would define it. She's simply unfortunate victim of someone who is so grossly insecure with himself that he has to lie in order to get what he wants (or vice versa, because women lie to get what they want, too, oftentimes).

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Dec 14, 2007 @ 9:59 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
sumdaysoon


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<------------- shells........he's rough around the edges........
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Dec 15, 2007 @ 8:36 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
alybai42


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Sum
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Dec 15, 2007 @ 1:40 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
sumdaysoon


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aly.....no more mister nice guy.......bend over.......
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Dec 16, 2007 @ 6:34 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
todger45


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Some good points, thank you, I was not just referring to my ex wife, rather to a conversation between myself and 3 other chaps who were all in the same situation, we concluded the same, that “nice = Boring” so we decided to be “us” but with an edge in order to keep our respective ladies, but none of us now has a partner . Due to our being “to unpredictable, wanting sex at wrong times and wrong places, and generally not being the person we were when we first met” so I have to agree with Bentan, and now I am going to be “me”, and to hell with the female population, its their lose if they can’t see that there are still some genuine nice, guys still out there, who are not boring, can hold a proper conversation and do have a backbone and are not a wuss.
But as the saying goes, “Behind every successful man is a very successful woman”
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Dec 16, 2007 @ 7:22 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
ynot7769


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here's ya'lls nice guy ..........and THIS is WHY women don't like nice guys no more ask HIM
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Dec 16, 2007 @ 7:24 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
lolthisistoofunny


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"But as the saying goes, 'Behind every successful man is a very successful woman.'"

Sigh...But, sadly, all too often the quote continues with ..."And behind her stands his wife."
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Dec 17, 2007 @ 2:37 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
Dovestreasure


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I love and adore nice guys , but they all seem to be looking for a bad girl.

Starlight starbright , the first star I see tonight. I wish I may, I wish I might , have the wish i wish tonight........ I WISH for a really nice guy.
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Dec 17, 2007 @ 1:08 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
oceangal


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and may your wish come true dove!!! I know mine did!
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Dec 17, 2007 @ 8:20 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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What I've found...is I think a man's really nice in the beginning and then BAM...he's an asshole.

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Dec 18, 2007 @ 9:52 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
South_Of_Main


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I personally love nice guys and would pick one over a bad boy type any day, provided we have common interests and goals....
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 12:04 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
alybai42


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aly.....no more mister nice guy.......bend over.......


Is it going to hurt
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 2:35 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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just take a deep breath...just don't squeeze
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 3:05 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
alybai42


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Shells
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 4:33 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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Dec 19, 2007 @ 7:42 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
Natgoat


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* Go ahead, Ladies . . Ask away . . !! . . . . *
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Dec 20, 2007 @ 7:33 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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k, why?
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Dec 20, 2007 @ 11:00 AM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
sumdaysoon


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@shells.........she says what she thinks.......
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Dec 20, 2007 @ 1:38 PM Why don’t women like nice guys?    
shellsmack


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