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May 3, 2007 @ 7:29 AM True love    
openlove


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What is true love?
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May 3, 2007 @ 9:30 PM True love    
alybai42


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May 4, 2007 @ 2:16 AM True love    
openlove


Posts: 30
The Rules of Courtesy of Open Love

1. Loving one does not constitute a proper excuse for not loving
another.
2. The person who is jealous cannot love.
3. No one can be bound by any love.
4. Love is known to be always waxing or waning. *
5. A lover exacts from an unwilling partner bitter love. *
6. No one can love who is dependent upon others for their love and
good opinion.
7. When a lover dies, the survivor is enjoined to balance a desire for
solitude with trust in the support of the community.
8. No lover can possess or control another, no matter how compelling
the reason.
9. No one can fall in love impelled only by the known character and
beauty of the beloved; one must be impelled also by the prompting of
Love itself.
10. Love is always prone to vacate a miserly house. *
11. One who feels ashamed of the lowly station or poverty of one's
beloved does not love.
12. A true lover in affection desires not to prevent one partner from
enjoying the embraces of all who love him or her truly.
13. Love does not usually survive being kept secret from one's other
lovers.
14. True affection can be neither falsely created or denied; whether
consent is given in desperation or withheld for a price, these are
signs of the absence of love.
15. Every lover allows herself or himself to feel vulnerable in the
presence of the beloved.
16. The heart of a lover beats fast at the sudden sight of the
beloved.
17. The joy of a new love refreshes and restores the life of an old
love.
18. Love that is open is free, and what is free cannot be bound by the
laws of property nor the hypocrisy of seeming propriety.
19. If love diminishes, the pursuit of solitude and the companionship
of new friends often strengthen it.
20. A person in love fears no action of the beloved save her or his
dying, and is prepared to face that fear unflinchingly.
21. True jealousy, when faced, reveals the fears of the lover. Only
when these fears are accepted as real will they diminish, allowing
love to increase.
22. When suspicion about a lover is communicated, it is an opportunity
for that lover to reassure the other and to reassert the freedom of
both to love where they will.
23. One who is excited by a new love is more refreshed by thoughts of
the beloved than by rest or food.
24. Every act of a lover takes the interests of all parties affected
into consideration.
25. The true lover regards as good nothing except what she or he
believes will further the freedom and happiness of the beloved.
26. Love can deny nothing to love. *
27. Love is not haughty, or selfish, or rude: a lover does not seek
her or his own advancement, does not brag or behave in any other
unseemly manner.
28. Perfect love casts out dark thoughts about the beloved. The flaws
of the beloved can only be seen unshadowed by blame, devoid of the
denial of that darkness in one's own heart that blame has ever shown.
29. Sensuality is no barrier to love; however, neither is the absence
of sensuality.
30. The true lover maintains a constant, unbroken fellowship with the
world in which she or he moves and lives; the true lover eschews the
hindrance of fixing upon images in favor of loving persons here and
now.
31. There is nothing to prevent one woman being loved by more than one
man or woman, or one man by more than one woman or man. Further, there
is nothing to prevent one man or one woman's lovers from loving each
other: for this is ideal love, and greatly to be desired.

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May 9, 2007 @ 1:59 PM True love    
Natgoat


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Well....That puts an end to This Thread....doesn't it...???
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Jun 8, 2007 @ 1:14 AM True love    
alybai42


Posts: 7,179
Where do you find true love?
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Jun 22, 2007 @ 4:17 AM True love    
shellsmack


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I don't know...no one's ever proved to me that there IS such a thing.
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Jun 22, 2007 @ 10:48 PM True love    
alybai42


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I had a guy tell me he loved me today..He must be on drugs as we have only been having sex...Nothing else..I am too scared to fall in love. It hurts in the end.
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Jun 24, 2007 @ 11:51 AM True love    
gretaluv


Posts: 14
I'm wondering if it even exsists...
There is the idea of "perfect" love..
And then the actual exsistance of it.
But honestly, what in this life is really perfect?
Nothing..
Unless you stand to believe that love is...perfect...
So I would say that if you believe in this, that if you find it, it will show itself not to adhere to all the corrupt things in this world. It would not know anger, jealousy, or deceit...
I think it does exsist but it is rare to find...
So many people want to feel "complete" and this is what we strive for perfect love to feel this way, but many of us get hurt in the process....


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Jun 24, 2007 @ 11:59 AM True love    
gretaluv


Posts: 14
Let's face it...
Is all too complicated...
But then why would it be simple...lol
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Jun 25, 2007 @ 8:19 AM True love    
keepmehappy


Posts: 27
true love? it's something you think you have when you get married but find out differently after 2 years of marriage. you think it's true love but it's nothing more than a way to have legal sex
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Jun 25, 2007 @ 8:40 AM True love    
alybai42


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I am having illeagal sex
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Jun 25, 2007 @ 9:38 AM True love    
keepmehappy


Posts: 27
I am to and it's more fun
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Jun 25, 2007 @ 2:00 PM True love    
ynot7769


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*strolls thru whislting a happy tune watchin the goings on ........n strolls on...watchin for trolls*
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Jun 26, 2007 @ 10:49 AM True love    
alybai42


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*Grabs Ynot's protein bar *
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Jun 28, 2007 @ 4:18 AM True love    
shellsmack


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EATS YNOTS PROTEIN BAR
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Jul 2, 2007 @ 4:02 PM True love    
Sniffi


Posts: 2,255
It's finding someone you let go of years ago and knowing that no matter what, the spark will always be there.
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Jul 2, 2007 @ 6:51 PM True love    
luckypassion


Posts: 275
true love is that moment you realize that you are never going to be single again, and being completely fine with that.
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Jul 3, 2007 @ 11:59 PM True love    
shellsmack


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fuck true love
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Jul 21, 2007 @ 7:42 AM True love    
alybai42


Posts: 7,179
Fuck me Shell's
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Jul 21, 2007 @ 9:50 AM True love    
borachone


Posts: 1,462
Can I help with that ladies?
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