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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 11:44 AM |
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verygoodgirl69
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Most everyone who knows me here knows that I am in a relationship with someone who I love........
HOWEVER........I stay frustrated and pissed at him because he dismisses my needs......
Now that I'm going out to find what "I WANT" for a change (since he says women don't HAVE to cum everytime, (whatthefuckever)) - how do you keep it seperate. How do you keep your lustful feelings for your lover separate from the feelings you have for your significant other?
FUCK THAT WAS HEAVY!!
I know that it's hard to get our minds off of our crotches here but.....lol
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 11:58 AM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,359
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WOW.........now THAT IS HEAVY.............and i wish i had advice .......honestly i don't think i could do it.......i'd have to find a way to fix what i have or move on........ 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 12:22 PM |
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max49
Posts: 132
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I have to agree with ynot. I couldn't have it both ways. It would have to be at home or somewhere else not either or. I guess I just don't share well with others. As for the woman don't have to cum everytime WTF!!! I would be wearing myself out because I don't stop until the woman cums and cums and cums. I guess I'm just a cum whore. I love it when she cums.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 12:54 PM |
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verygoodgirl69
Posts: 960
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well, you would think that he'd want me to cum too. He complains it takes me too long.......now what do you think about that?
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 1:12 PM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,359
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in short.......i'm sry but i think your just with a selfish man.............i make my woman cum atleast once b4 i even think about it.......just me ..not sure about the rest on the planet...
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:54 PM |
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sweetnasty1
Posts: 2,591
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It takes some women longer and that's just a fact! My man waits for me. You deserve to feel good no matter how long it takes. As far as keeping the feelings seperate, good luck. I have no idea how to do that.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:19 PM |
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verygoodgirl69
Posts: 960
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I think ya'll are right on the selfishness.........damn it. It's time to go probably.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:21 PM |
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CrazyCraveman
Posts: 4,019
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Personally, I don't quite understand why you...or anyone stays in a relationship...be it a woman, or a man...in which you are not happy?
Sorry, but this has always confused me...
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:32 PM |
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ponme
Posts: 1,929
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Sorry VGG gotta go with the flow on this one.. what a loser he is! And the worst part is that what he stands to lose is so very valuable. Your love.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:34 PM |
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verygoodgirl69
Posts: 960
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Awwww....thanks Ponme....Thanks everyone.......I think he and I both know that it's been over for a while.....We started our own practice a year ago, and so it's kinda......like we're stuck.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:45 PM |
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MEMEME69247
Posts: 1,983
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VGG,,,,I have never had a problem with my partners,,,,but I didn't see where you say you truly love him,,,just that he was your significant other.....If indeed you are not in love with him,,,it is time to move on,,,,Make yourself happ,,,,How you keep things separate are very hard,,,,because when you lust someone,,,it is always more exciting then with your significant other,,,,for the reason that usually someone you lust it's all new to you,,,,just like when you first met your significant other,,,,remember the butterflies you felt,,,,If you want your relationship to work with your selfish significant other,,,try arousing yourself before he even touches you,,,,then you would have that headstart,,,,women are so different,,,I think I would cum just as I would see my man unzip his pants,,,from the excitment of knowing how good I was going to be pleased.....but I really did love my partner...That is why I will not settle for less,,,juast to say I have a man,,,,,until I do find that man,, I do not have sexual relationships unless I love him,,,,that is just me,,,I have never had a one night stand,,,,at times,,,,I think maybe I should just try it once,,,and see what I have been missing,,,but I don't think I would want the headache unless it was someone I had invested my time with....Just my opinion,,,Not putting anyone down....But when I do find that man,,,I feel sorry for him,,,,I am gonna wear him out and retire all my Toys......Sorry VGG just saw your last post,,,,Maybe he could buy you out or vice versa on the Business,,,,,,Good Luck VGG
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:55 PM |
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verygoodgirl69
Posts: 960
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I think I'll just become a full - fledged lesbian and come and get you babe!!! thanks so much for the advice....I really respect your opinion.
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 4:21 PM |
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MEMEME69247
Posts: 1,983
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You are so Welcum,,,,but do not become a full fledged lesbian,,,,Do not let a man drive you to that.....Just find the right man,,,,A REAL MAN that is into you as much as you are into him,,,,They still do exist,,,,Once again young lady,,,,Good Luck
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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CrazyCraveman
Posts: 4,019
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Just find the right man,,,,A REAL MAN that is into you as much as you are into him,,,,They still do exist,,,,
Damn Lena, great advice! However, I'd like to ask one question...are there women like that as well? As I'd sure love to find one... 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 4:50 PM |
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MEMEME69247
Posts: 1,983
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Damn Lena, great advice! However, I'd like to ask one question...are there women like that as well? As I'd sure love to find one...
You already found her,,,,you just don't know it babe.... 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 4:51 PM |
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needsomenow83
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You're a very pretty girl (I can say so, having done my homework) 
Having got the obvious out of the way, The root word in relationship, is relate.
women don't HAVE to cum everytime
^^^ does not sound like someone who wants to relate. In my "barely there" sexual experience, it would stand to reason, that sex is a two-person, event.
Of course, that says more about how you treat someone you care about, more than it does about bedroom etiquette. Selfishness, is the ruin of many things.
I'll share something ith you, and I'm not sure how far this will take you, but it's worth saying, if it does. When you invest in someone elses' needs, you are ultimately investing in yourself. There's untapped pleasure (keep in mind I'm barely there on the sex experience(s) ) in investing in someone elses' needs. Some people are just too busy "getting theirs" to understand the laws of reciprocity.
Sad state of affairs, really. 
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 5:31 PM |
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naughtyjenna
Posts: 229
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I am sorry, you are going through this. I am here to help!!
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| Mar 15, 2007 @ 8:54 PM |
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Sniffi
Posts: 2,255
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Only thing I have to say is make sure you dump him before going for anyone else.
You won't end up liking yourself in the long run.
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| Mar 16, 2007 @ 12:15 PM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,359
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Only thing I have to say is make sure you dump him before going for anyone else.
You won't end up liking yourself in the long run.
EXELLENT!! i agree with that totaly!!!! 
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| Mar 16, 2007 @ 12:19 PM |
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CrazyCraveman
Posts: 4,019
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You already found her,,,,you just don't know it babe....
WHO?! WHO?!!
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