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Dec 19, 2007 @ 5:09 AM What are you seeking here?    

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There was a time, seems so long ago, when stretching an orgasm to several minutes was what I had to offer women.

It does take some time to learn what makes her hot,... and then it is a matter of doing just enough to hold her at the peak for as long as she wants, and then pushing her over the edge for the long, slow roller coaster ride till she is totally relaxed. Long orgasms is a participation activity, both people have to be wanting it and working as one to hold on at the top.

I kinda dropped out of action and have begun to wonder if I still have what it takes to teach another woman how to have longer, more intense orgasms.

So, I came to AMD because I am now shy and need to develop more confidence,... become user friendly again.

Although I would like to meet a woman,... or some women that would be interested in doing some exploring while being patient with my 'new' shyness, discovering that longer orgasms are a result of working together and wordless communication,... as she helps me become comfortable with touching again,...

Simply put,... I need some practice, and time to learn what works and what I need to work on.

I would also like to meet other shy partners that would like to have someone that is patient and willing to move slower, as we help each other develop our confidence and self esteems.

I am not refering to 'dating', kissing on the 10th date, sneaking a feel occasionally or waiting for any reason to enjoy our touching and such,...

I am still interested in touching,... massage,... having sex, exploring various positions, activities, nibbling and teasing,... sharing moments,... just at a slower pace,... quality instead of quantity,... romantic and passionate rather then a heated rush.

If we are compatible physically,... then I would want to expand our activities to what would be considered 'dating'. There are typical activities like bowling, swimming, dancing and such. There are also activities that take a little more commitment like Scuba Diving, flying ultralites, going on a cruise, starting a business together, even starting a family together if that is where it goes.

As long as there is a healthy physical (just touching each other often) and sexual (having mutually enjoyable sexual activities often) then the other activities make more sense.

Dating, getting turned on, wanting, and going home alone has not motivated me in the past,... so without a strong libido, a strong desire to touch and be touched the other activities have little value to me.

Knowing that along the way we will be teasing and later pleasing,... makes most any activity so much more enjoyable.

Hope I answered the question properly.


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Dec 19, 2007 @ 7:26 AM What are you seeking here?    

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Apr 22, 2009 @ 1:08 PM What are you seeking here?    

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personally im here to meet some one to have a real longterm relationship that could lead to marriage maybe i chose the wrong website for this
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Mar 29, 2012 @ 1:08 AM What are you seeking here?    

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Fun whether it be meeting people and talking with them, and blogging.
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Mar 29, 2012 @ 5:11 AM What are you seeking here?    

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long term relationship.................
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Mar 29, 2012 @ 7:09 AM What are you seeking here?    

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a relationship that will last . a man who will be my friend , lover and eventually the father of my children but I really only expect to find good friends here
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Apr 1, 2012 @ 12:54 PM What are you seeking here?    

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someone who would be my everything, and someone who wants me to be their everything.
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Jun 1, 2012 @ 11:36 AM What are you seeking here?    

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Kmp- that's sweet. I'm sure a lot of us would like to find that, maybe not on here but it still sounds nice. I thought you may have said you were looking to get laid. Of course I'm sure you wouldn't mind that either.
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Jun 1, 2012 @ 11:56 AM What are you seeking here?    

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I'm here to make new friends, enjoy new experiences and have fun....and I've been blessed with all three in the years I've frequented this crazy place.
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Sep 4, 2012 @ 2:54 PM What are you seeking here?    

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nothing no more
i'm happy so i'm saying good bye
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Sep 5, 2012 @ 6:36 AM What are you seeking here?    

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I don't think i'll find the great sex partner i'm looking for here atleast one that lives close enough to get together with so if I make some new friends i'll be happy
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Nov 3, 2012 @ 2:41 PM What are you seeking here?    

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At my age I want a long term relationship with lots of loving
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Oct 21 @ 3:28 PM What are you seeking here?    

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Friendship and maybe one day that going further and lets me meet Ms Right.
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Oct 21 @ 4:02 PM What are you seeking here?    

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Friends or great friends with benefits who can not only tell the truth but actually know what truth is.
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Oct 21 @ 4:30 PM What are you seeking here?    

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the true or actual state of a matter:
He tried to find out the truth.
conformity with fact or reality; verity:
the truth of a statement.
a verified or indisputable fact, proposition, principle, or the like:
mathematical truths.
the state or character of being true.
actuality or actual existence.
an obvious or accepted fact; truism; platitude.
honesty; integrity; truthfulness.

See I know. Does that count. Pleaaaaaaaaaaase say yes.
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Oct 21 @ 4:35 PM What are you seeking here?    

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That counts, I am impressed lol
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Oct 21 @ 4:39 PM What are you seeking here?    

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Thank you thank. But I did cheat. I copied it from the dictionary lol. But hey I was HONEST that I copied it.
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Oct 21 @ 4:42 PM What are you seeking here?    

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hmmmm, im thinking of a nun bending you over the desk to spank your ass with that yardstick.....
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Oct 21 @ 4:45 PM What are you seeking here?    

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Yayyyy you used a yardstick like I asked.
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Oct 21 @ 4:53 PM What are you seeking here?    

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I can follow directions when im motivated
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