| Dec 20, 2006 @ 7:03 PM |
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bandengor
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All you need to do is keep your head down in my lap as we drive across, and until we get to the hotel.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 3:27 AM |
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Raven_Silverfire
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I've met two people from online. one, from here, ended up being a one night stand, the other, also from here, is a good friend. we play D&D on saturdays.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 4:15 AM |
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cabl_guy
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I've met a few ladies online. Most were really great experiences. We met in a public place and chatted until we were comfortable and chemistry took over.
But, there were two bad ones. The one posted pics that looked NOTHING like her. She lied about her intentions and was seeking a relationship.
The other was sneaking around on her husband and hoping to get caught at it. She insisted to meet at her home..........which was being watched by his relatives, who lived close by.
Overall, though, I've met some really great people and had a lot of fun. But, I talked to most of them on the PC and phone a lot before actually meeting. And, once we did, it was like we already knew each other.
However, I've chatted with several women with horror stories of meeting jerks. Or, once they met, realized there was NO chemistry and played hell getting rid of the guy.
You can't truly expect the first meet to end in sex........unless you're an idiot. But, you also shouldn't let one idiot end your pursuit of pleasure and fun. Kinda like a blind date. I go in expecting to be disappointed. And, most times, I've ended up pleasantly suprised. 
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:04 AM |
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bandengor
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we play D&D on saturdays.
Would that be Debauchery and Domination?
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:41 PM |
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shellsmack
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YNOT, I thought precautions mean't I have to have "towelettes" ready for you to clear you of "head cheese".
 
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:47 PM |
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ynot7769
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YNOT, I thought precautions mean't I have to have "towelettes" ready for you to clear you of "head cheese".
omg..you ASSUME i'd show up DIRTY 
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:19 PM |
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shellsmack
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...dirty ole fart you. 
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 2:55 AM |
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Raven_Silverfire
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lol Bandengor....possibly 
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:38 AM |
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joltman20
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I agree 1000% again with your criteria!!!!!
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:40 AM |
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ynot7769
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...dirty ole fart you.
well.ummm....THATS a diff kind of dirty you dopey shit !! 
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 4:50 PM |
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luckypassion
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okay, first of all, dont let them pick you up. Meet them somewhere and make sure you bring your own car. and make sure your cell phone is full charged.
I met my former fiancee on line. Everything went fine...until the end
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 4:56 PM |
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ynot7769
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I met my former fiancee on line. Everything went fine...until the end
ain't that always the way??? 
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:09 PM |
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Sunshinegal35
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*Has met a couple of men in person recently...both were perfect gentleman....but meeting was in public, a "safe" place*
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:12 PM |
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ynot7769
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Has met a couple of men in person recently...both were perfect gentleman....but meeting was in public, a "safe" place*
meet me.... orrr how bout i meat you  
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:15 PM |
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Sunshinegal35
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*I'll get you Y....and your sexy little Santa, too!*
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 6:25 PM |
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ynot7769
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he he he *just gives me such a tickle when they think they're in control*
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| Dec 27, 2006 @ 7:09 PM |
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LadyMaura
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Even 2 years ago, the net wasn't as scary a place as it is today, so you didn't have to take caution. I just wrote a new blog addressing just this subject, so I'll post it here!
*Until you trust this person, strictly email here. When you use yahoo, gmail, or any other service out there it gives out your IP address. There are sites out there where all they have to do is type in your IP and it gives out your administrator. With one call they can find out your name or where you live.
*When you're sharing photos, host them online. Either imageshack or photobucket and give out the link. When you picture share through yahoo it opens a direct connection from your computer to theirs, if they're any kind of techie they can get into your computer and gain all the information they want.
*When they give you their number go to http://www.blackbookonline.info/bborev.htm and do a reverse look up on their phone number. You'll be able to see if his name really IS John Smith.
*Make sure that YOU always call THEM.When calling, make sure to always block your number! Dial *67 before you dial the number. It will come up as "private" or "unavailable".
*When meeting ALWAYS bring a friend. If you don't want to have a third wheel, then make sure to have a check in person to phone. Call them if something doesn't feel right and have them ring the authorities if you didn't call within a certain time frame!
*Always meet in public. I like malls (they have on site security), convenience stores , and super markets. If you can, meet as close to the local police station, hospital, or fire station as you can.
*When you've had enough time to see if he's a good guy always know where you're going before hand after the initial meet. If he says to his place, ask where. If he gives you a vague answer, DO NOT GO. You want him to tell you his street address, that way you can see if you're heading there or somewhere else. *If you can, RIDE ALONE. Take your car and follow his, never get into a strangers car no matter how much of a connection you have.*
*Ask him the make and model of his car, if you want to go as far as the license plate number, do it! It will be more information to give your friend before you leave.
*Also, go the extra step and bring pepper spray or any self defense tools you have (I recommend a stun gun, it gives you enough reaction time to kick him in the balls and run). ----- Oh, and if everything goes off without a hitch make sure to bring condoms. 50% chance he doesn't have them, so don't risk STD's or pregnancy.
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| Dec 29, 2006 @ 4:37 PM |
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alybai42
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I have met two men in person that I met online. The first one lasted for about 4 years. The other one I have been seeing off and on the last few months. I am new around here still. I read the posts but have not responded until now.
Alybai
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| Dec 29, 2006 @ 4:51 PM |
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PrincessKissy
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Welcome to the forums, Aly!! 
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| Dec 29, 2006 @ 5:44 PM |
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Countrycanuck
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I have met some from off-line, ones that became great friends...and just stayed that way....i think its fun to meet, but then u never know what may cum of it
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