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Nov 29, 2006 @ 9:06 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
ZoeWaltz


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How many of you have met someone in person that you met online? How did it go? Did you take any precautions?
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Nov 29, 2006 @ 9:10 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
hey Zoe.....you mean online period OR on HERE..??? lemee know and i can give a better answer...umm...one of em' just left ...does that help?
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Nov 29, 2006 @ 9:19 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
ZoeWaltz


Posts: 181
Ynot, you have mail.
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Nov 29, 2006 @ 9:52 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
ynot7769


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Ynot, you have mail


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Nov 30, 2006 @ 7:47 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
ponme


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I have met a LOT of the people I have talked to online. Met the man I live with online..

You should take precautions such as meeting in a public place, knowing more about them than just a name. I made sure that someone I trusted had all the pertinent information such as address, phone number, etc. Yes, do take precautions! Anyone not willing to give you all that information isn't someone you want to meet anyway.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 8:12 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
Looking4ever


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Ynot is the scariest person I have met from online. Be cautious, meet in a public place. Make sure you have your own vehicle to leave when you are ready to leave. It's handy to have a cell phone on you too. And, I agree with Ponme, let someone know who you are meeting and where. You can't be too cautious but I don't think you have to be overly anxious either. Seriously, Y really was the scariest...and he's a very nice guy...they all have been.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 9:16 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
JJN4Fun


Posts: 2,999
Yep, over the last 10 years of online dating, I've met several men in person (some I even ended up dating!).

My rules are:

Need first and last name
Car make/model
Public meeting place
All this info plus email address and screen name left with a friend/family member
Pre-arranged check in with my "safety person" - in all seriousness, if I don't make that call, that person is to notify the authorities immediately. No excuses, no exceptions.
Last minute changes in plans are not allowed


If he doesn't agree, we don't meet. PERIOD.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 9:41 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
LadieDarkStarr


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I've met plenty of people from online. My son's father was a man I met online, and pretty much any boyfriend I can think of I've bet online. Heh.

I used to play fast and loose and not take precations... All that got me was raped and a stalker. Those aren't any fun btw.

I now have a buddy system with a girl I work with. I take all the info I have on the guy and email it to her. Then when we meet up I take a pic of his car and license plate with my camera phone and txt it to her. Works out pretty well if you think about it... people can easily change their name for a night, along with other "personal" information... how many people think to change their license plate?

I might adopt the check in call idea... not a bad one.

Good luck and be SAFE
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 10:06 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
decaturnooner


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After reading these checklists, I may never meet anyone online.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 10:06 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
decaturnooner


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After reading these checklists, I may never meet anyone online.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 10:38 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
JJN4Fun


Posts: 2,999
Taking pics with cell phone - GOOD IDEA!!!

Hey, Decatur - if you're on the up and up, aren't a rapist or stalker, and are honest, it shouldn't be a problem. Really, don't be so negative! That definately won't work!

I'm curious to know what it takes for a man to meet a woman - any precautions (other than condoms ;)
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 10:45 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
decaturnooner


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Condoms?
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 10:55 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
JJN4Fun


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ROFL! Decatur - don't try to act so damned innocent!
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 11:10 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
decaturnooner


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I never know how many to bring and damn they are a hinderance when you are fucking and she wants you to unload on a certain body part!
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 11:26 AM Meeting someone you've met online    
JJN4Fun


Posts: 2,999
Hmmm, true this. When the hell are they going to make a condom with a relaese valve???
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 12:56 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
ynot7769


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Ynot is the scariest person I have met from online


little old me???
but but i'm a sweetie!!
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 3:50 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
zena343


Posts: 1,139
ynot, nothing like toooting your own horn......toot, toot
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 5:23 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
Looking4ever


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He can toot. Really, ladies, he is a NICE guy.
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 5:52 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
decaturnooner


Posts: 371
This means YNot is a farting menace?
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Nov 30, 2006 @ 5:57 PM Meeting someone you've met online    
zena343


Posts: 1,139
Nooner be nice, and Looking he is a nice guy, i would toot it for him, but............he is alittle too far for me!!
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