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| Nov 26, 2006 @ 11:26 AM |
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LOKI1960
Posts: 134
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Just got through reading a whiny,man bashing thread from a girl that was complaining about a guy that she had sex with and he's moved on.OK,so he did wrong,he led her into thinking there was more than there was.Well really we don't know what actually happened as we only have her side of the story,we really don't know if he actually verbally lied to her.She could've just been full of wishful thinking and read more into the situation than there was.OK so she slept with the guy.Is she really out anything,more than just the time?Did he really do that much damage to her soul by having sex with her and not sticking around?
So,ladies,let's say you give it up to a guy and you get no relationship out of it.It was just sex.If you weren't left with an STD or an unwanted pregnancy,have you REALLY been duped out of anything except maybe an hour or so of time?All that REALLY happened was some friction with mucosal membranes,and if you enjoyed it at the time,was it REALLY that damaging to your spirit?
I've been played before and it sucks,but I've never regretted the sex.I look back at it and say,"Hey,that was fun,she was great with (insert sex activity here),wonder if the next one will do that".
Yeah,I know it's shallow thinking, but hey,we're guys
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| Nov 26, 2006 @ 9:40 PM |
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JJN4Fun
Posts: 3,002
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Am I understanding your last sentence correctly - you think it's an innate quality of men to be shallow???
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| Nov 27, 2006 @ 9:21 AM |
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LOKI1960
Posts: 134
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Just being facetious.
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| Nov 27, 2006 @ 11:30 AM |
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ponme
Posts: 1,929
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Yeah, I really am out something.
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| Nov 27, 2006 @ 11:32 AM |
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decaturnooner
Posts: 364
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I am not shallow!
Flippant, arrogance and conceited maybe but never shallow. 
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| Nov 29, 2006 @ 11:49 AM |
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LOKI1960
Posts: 134
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Yeah, I really am out something.
What are you out besides time?
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| Feb 13 @ 1:14 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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OOOooooooooooooooooh!!! It's late and I'm tired and am going back to bed, but you can bet I'll be back for this one. Oh yes, I'll be back, all right.
 
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| Feb 13 @ 7:00 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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Here's yet another man with complete lack of accountability or integrity. Shallow? You're not kidding!
Even you admit that being played "sucks," so I would assume by that you mean you experienced some level of disappointment when it happened to you.
But hey, you're a man, right? So you're allowed to let it affect you any way you deem fitting.
Doesn't matter whether or not the guy promised anything or didn't promise anything; if he uncermoniously and abruptly ends the relationship, it oftentimes comes as quite a surprise and ...well..excuse the hell out of females for being HUMAN but, damn it, it HURTS.
Are we out anything besides our time??? Damn straight we are! You obviously think that all women are are vessels for men's sexual pleasure.
Hell, even prostitutes get paid for their TIME. If all you want (you or any other man) is a woman to service you, then go to a prostitute and PAY HER for her precious TIME. Women's time is no more invaluable than is yours, you know.
And your attitude about "well, you enjoyed it, too" (part of the enjoyment, fyi, is oftentimes in thinking you've developed a bond with that particular person) makes me wonder if you're the type of man who thinks women who get raped somehow "deserve it."
It's not necessarily the "sex" in and of itself that we regret; it's the dishonesty. No excuse for lack of integrity. NONE. ZIP. ZERO. ZILCH. I don't care how much to the contrary you protest, saying your penis will have fallen off had you not lied in order to "get you some."
Incidentally, men who have to coerce a woman into the bedroom under false pretenses aren't men at all; they're little boys.
Maybe all lovemaking to you is some friction of mucosal membranes, but to human beings who are whole and who have a conscience, it is a lot more than that. I'm not talking about any love component being involved; I'm not talking about religious morals; I'm talking about having simple common courtesy toward and respect for your fellow human being and realizing that people do have FEELINGS and that your actions could very well hurt someone.
Yes, it is VERY shallow thinking and unfortunately many uneducated guys have that attitude, but fortunately, not all men are that cruel and that shallow.
I do have to say I appreciate your honesty, though. It's that openness that allows women to see the real you (and men like you) to make the logical decision to avoid getting involved with you at all costs.
How's that for a whiny, man-bashing thread? 
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| Feb 13 @ 2:38 PM |
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RamzalElric
Posts: 28
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Well, Loki... At least you're straight foward about being so selfish. <_< Not every male is shallow like you are. There's a reason why someone asks a lady what they like and what they are into being asking them if they have any free time. It's because they wanna get to know them and not just bang them. If a guy is only after the banging and thinks "Well, she got laid too, hahahahaha!" and actually believes that's fair, then he's extremely shallow to the point that he needs a time out to grow the hell up.
It annoys me because I'm the type of guy who gets the short end of the stick because of a last guy was a penis-can-do type believer like you were and a lady's trust begins to diminish and not think much of most men. So yeah, while one person gets his rocks off and ditches the woman, not only her but actual guys who want to know her down the line and aren't shallow and selfish get the short end of the stick.
Nice work and thinking.
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| Feb 13 @ 3:58 PM |
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lunanegra
Posts: 988
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Yeah,I know it's shallow thinking, but hey,we're guys
1. At least you're being honest.
2. ...buuuut,that trait cant be attributed to just men only.
3. I've been the recipient of such behavior,and I really don't find it amusing.Most men would just think "it's only sex".I've seen males tend to complain about how a woman used them,which goes back to #2
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