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| Nov 12, 2006 @ 10:59 AM |
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jay_lakeside
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Assume, two people are greatly attracted to each other but circumstances limit their contact. Ok, they are both married and seeking to fill a void missing with their spouse. They have met several times, kissed and discussed what they are looking for. it appears they are heading for a sexual affair. Perhaps she is not quite ready to go to a motel. They are alone together in a car in a secluded place. Kisses become more passionate and touching begins.
Now, for women, put yourself in this position. You are not completely sure yoou are ready or have a hesitation to actually admit you want sex, but are caught in the passion. Size of the car and lack of complete privacy are strong deterrents that you will have actual sex.
He continues to touch you and bring you to orgasm, once, twice, many times. There is no pressure or even asking you to return the favor to him. He is obviously ready, but out of caring for you, only wants to please you. He will wait until you are ready to make the final commitment.
Rewind back to the point you get in his car. You know where the "make out" session will lead. Do you want this to happen? Is it satisfying enough that you would want this as a preview to actually having sex together? Does it alleviate your sexual tension or increase it. Or would you rather avoid this situation and wait until you are ready to go to a motel with him?
Before answering, assume you have never cheated on your husband and the whole situation is new to you. The last time you were in a car with a guy was in high school. This is all completely foriegn at this point in your life, however you are feel extremely good about the guy and want him, but can't make the final decision.
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| Nov 12, 2006 @ 11:06 AM |
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ponme
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Oh the HECK she can't make a decision.. just my 3 cents worth but she already made one.. she's gettin hers with no freaking effort.. gotta love that!
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| Nov 12, 2006 @ 11:28 AM |
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jay_lakeside
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Obviously, i want to screw her and she still a little hesitant to make the commitment. We have been in my car once in the above situation. Nothing really happened beyond some preliminary upskirt touching because the place wasn't secluding enough. (god damn bicylists kept riding by the car)
What I am asking" She is telling me she is not ready to go to a motel yet. however, she didn't stop me from the earlier play and seemed to enjoy it until she got freaked out by the damn bicylists. So if i carry it further in a more secluded spot and maker her cum, is it likely to get her past her hessitation to take the next step and go to a motel with the full intention of having sex.
thanks
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| Nov 12, 2006 @ 11:30 AM |
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ponme
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Not if she can continue to get hers without putting forth a lot of effort.. sorry to be cold and straight here.. but be real.. if you are giving her pleasure and she doesn't have to do anything for you.. that's the thing. Start holding back... withholding if you will.. see what happens then.
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| Nov 12, 2006 @ 1:24 PM |
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JJN4Fun
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(god damn bicylists kept riding by the car)
oooooh, that is SOOOO hot! wish i could find someone to play with like that in a car :)
truthfully? it sounds to me like she's kind of playing with you...make you want her more and more for her own ego - 'beg me, beg me!" (wow, am i really that negative?)
i happen to think that one doesn't have to have intercourse to be sexually active...if she's "holding out" because she's unsure about engaging in an affair, it's too late. kising i won't say is so sexual, but when you let a man slip his hand between your thighs and slide a finger between those silky lips, you've gone beyond "innocent friendship".
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 9:48 AM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,351
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oooooh, that is SOOOO hot! wish i could find someone to play with like that in a car :)
was gona go gas the bitch up but damn....runs on high test.....480miles?? ummm...let me recalculate this a bit  
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 10:04 AM |
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reily
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Size of the car and lack of complete privacy are strong deterrents that you will have actual sex.
May I suggest upgrading to a bigger vehicle, such as an RV........... 
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 10:17 AM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,351
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May I suggest upgrading to a bigger vehicle, such as an RV...........
 gulp.......does this mean a mustang rag top won't work????
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 6:47 PM |
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1manofsteel1
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Honestly Jay,
Sounds like fun. Problem is, you have both shattered the friends barrier all to hell. If she is simply a sexually frustrated wife, you two should be hittin it by now. If not, then she has some more issues, and on top of that, she is married. Disaster in the making for you.
IF you are new to this dating married women thing. There is an all important rule you should know. It's called "don't play house". Go ahead and have a little fun with a married gal, and leave it at that. There is small chance of it biting you. However, start hanging out with her and spending too much time with her, and you develop a relationship. An understanding husband can accept that his wife made a mistake once when things were bad. But if you get a relationship going, that is hard for a man to accept, and you had better hope he is not a drinker with lots of friends and a gun. 
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 10:39 PM |
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JJN4Fun
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IF you are new to this dating married women thing. There is an all important rule you should know. It's called "don't play house".
Very similar to the all important rule of being a mistress; know your place.
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| Nov 13, 2006 @ 11:18 PM |
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decaturnooner
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Playing house!
NOOOOO
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| Nov 14, 2006 @ 11:24 AM |
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JJN4Fun
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Go ahead and have a little fun with a married gal, and leave it at that.
I have a question: Even if feelings develop, isn't it more a matter of self-control, honoring a mutual understanding, and respecting each other? What's so wrong with actually caring for someone you're having an affair with? I prefer to sleep with someone I both enjoy physically and connect with intellectually and, to some degree, emotionally - whether it's on the sly or out in the open.
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| Nov 14, 2006 @ 5:44 PM |
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1manofsteel1
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I prefer to sleep with someone I both enjoy physically and connect with intellectually and, to some degree, emotionally - whether it's on the sly or out in the open.
I agree SXZE. Which is why I am I am curious as Jay is to what this gals goal is. If they truly were on equal footing in the sexually frustrated category, Seems like she would have been all over him by now. Hence I question her motivation and worry for Jay that he might be heading down the road that finds them both in peril with their partners at home.
Jay, if you are looking for this to be a long term thing and maybe end up together after you both get divorces, give her time. If you are content with all aspects of you rmarriage except for sexual fullfilment, and just want an occasional "thank god for that", you might want to look a little further.
She may be hesitant in breaking a trust, so you will have a degree of it for her down the road. This of course, is silly. Once you exhibit the desire to have an affair, there is no moral high ground to be gained by prolonging the outcome.
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| Jan 20 @ 5:16 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
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What difference does it make at this point how much further you take it? You're already cheating. 
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| Jan 22 @ 11:50 AM |
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mommabear
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I agree.....Your two are already cheating so whats the difference?? Well that could be that YOUR still sexually frustrated but sure dont sound like she is. If your up for a one sided deal, thats all on you. I personally would be looking for someone who can BOTH give AND TAKE. Good Luck to ya.
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| Jan 28 @ 9:32 PM |
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Guiltless
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Not to rain on your parade, but I'll offer this for consideration.
Walk away.
Oh sure it's exciting, and there's a thrill to it, but eventully everything will come to light. Some one will talk, or someone will see you and word will get back to a spouse.
Is it really worth it? Crap man ask yourself this. If you were caught, would it be then end of your marriage? Or hers? Kids? how would they be affected?
Ok, with that disclaimer posted, another thought. Youve gone that far and she isn't sure and makes no effort to offer you any pleasure? Find someone who at least WANTS to be fair in this endeavor.
just my 2 cents.
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| Jan 29 @ 8:58 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
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Taking the cheating component away, so it's either the car or a motel?
Wow, what an aphrodisiac that must be! Nothing like the smell of exhaust fumes and cramped spaces to get this woman in the mood, that's for sure. I'm frankly surprised she didn't rip your clothes off right then and there at pump No. 6 at the Mapco. 
That's only second best to getting a motel room. It's a major turnon for most women to have the honor of being known as "Mrs. Smith" for an hour or so, doncha know? 
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| Feb 6 @ 8:00 PM |
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bandengor
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| Feb 6 @ 8:36 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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Why are you banging your head against a brick wall?
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| Feb 6 @ 10:06 PM |
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sumdaysoon
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