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Nov 28, 2007 @ 4:16 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
bandengor


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Sex on the 1st Date


I'll never say never.
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 3:28 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
rub_this_penny


Posts: 125
I never had sex on a first date before I was married. Since the divorce things are different but not with every man I go out with
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 4:04 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
Okay, here's the deal:

Sex on the first date is okay for the man.

It's not okay for the woman.

Even if he says it's okay and that he'll "respect you in the morning," that's a lie. It's not okay and he won't respect you--not really.

Until these ridiculous bullshit double standards are done away with, NO BEHAVIOR that women engage in that is contrary to that which exemplifies the virginal image of women will ever be "okay."

Some women have tried to liberate themselves by ignoring this double standard (hell, I even tried it). Can't speak for anyone else, but all it did was lower my sense of self-esteem.

Personally, I think rather than trying to make "women into men," we should be trying to make "men into human beings."

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Dec 18, 2007 @ 4:10 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
rub_this_penny


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If a man gave me that line "i'll respect you in the morning" there's no way will I sleep with him. All he's telling me is he want to get in my pants and forget me in the morning
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 4:19 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Mac1221


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by the time I'd read the 10 th blog - I realized that my time and my life MUST be becomming useless - or I wouldn't have time for such drivil (AND my spelling sucks) Oh !!! WOE is me !!
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Dec 18, 2007 @ 6:59 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
40yearoldvirgin


Posts: 454
Personally, I think rather than trying to make "women into men," we should be trying to make "men into human beings."

Grunt GRUNT SNORT OINK OINK OINK.

Good luck with that.
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 8:18 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
RevDocLove


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Sex on the first date is okay for the man.

It's not okay for the woman.

Just curious! How is this accomplished???
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 8:37 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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Need a date
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 5:46 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
RDL, good question...yet, mysteriously, it happens all the time.
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 6:01 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
RevDocLove


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Does that mean you both go home and masturbate
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 6:57 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


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No, usually it means he goes home with brownie points and she goes home with egg on her face. Or something like that.
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 7:09 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
ynot7769


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No, usually it means he goes home with brownie points and she goes home with egg on her face. Or something like that.

this also depends on who you ask.................i'd have to say it's either ok for both or not ......not a bit of each......me ? i'll pass on it...........first time i'd preffer to know more then i'm likley on first date..... my .02
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 7:12 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lifeizabitch


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Never
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 8:00 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
Ynot, yes, indiivduals do have different opinions but, as a general rule, society still believes this way.
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 8:01 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
thickman6


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I don't go looking for it or expect it, but if it happens, it happens.

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Dec 19, 2007 @ 9:02 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
RevDocLove


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When you go to your bedroom and 2 or 3 strange girls are in your bed, what is a normal red blooded guy to do???
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Dec 19, 2007 @ 10:02 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
I dunno. Perhaps next time not drink one tee many martoonis?
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Dec 20, 2007 @ 6:23 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
RevDocLove


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"i'll respect you in the morning" Shit..I don't respect you now, was always my stock answer to such a dumb question
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Dec 20, 2007 @ 6:54 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
Which should be obvious. A man who expects to take a woman to bed on the first date not only has no respect for her, he has no respect for himself and, what's more, he has no sense of accountablity. Because a man will seduce a woman to see how far he can get and if she succumbs to his advances (because, guess what, guys? We're every bit and then some as passionate as you ever were), he loses respect for her because she "slept with him on the first date."

Well, what kind of crock of dung is that?

And people wonder why relationships, the whole dating game thing, is so difficult. Mayhaps if everyone was bound by the same set of rules...hmmmm...
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Dec 21, 2007 @ 8:23 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
RevDocLove


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Nope..Wrong..They were, and still are, called 'groupies'...It was just all a natural thing and nobody even thought about "respect in the morning"
Party time 24/7..
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