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Nov 17, 2007 @ 10:07 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


Posts: 512
With automatic lock clickers today, if you've unlocked the passenger side - it means you already unlocked the driver's side (1 click driver's door, 2 clicks all doors) So.....my smart ass would wait until you're just about to open your door......and quickly lock it on ya - lol
---------btw.........nice you open the door for your date but they let you get to first base for that? women must be easy up there in Buffalo
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 12:05 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


Posts: 497
If you did that to me Frenzy then I would know that you want me in your pants. But I would still wait til the next day.

Second: I dont do auto/remote lock clickers. On a first date, I use the key, open the door, wait for her to be seated and shut the door. Oh and by the way, I always get the kiss before its time to go back to the car.

If she doesnt kiss you on the first date, then she isnt interested, so dont bother planning a second date.

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Nov 17, 2007 @ 4:01 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


Posts: 512
If you did that to me Frenzy then I would know that you want me in your pants
I don't wear pants

But I would still wait til the next day
wow - a whole day.........you are a man of great restraint

Second
What was first?


I always get the kiss before its time to go back to the car. If she doesnt kiss you on the first date, then she isnt interested, so dont bother planning a second date.
Always? Then how would you know that if she didn't kiss you on the first date that she isn't interested? Apparently it hasn't happened to you - cos you always get a kiss. Seems like quite an assumption of non-kissing first date women that there would be disinterest on their part. Maybe they had too much garlic at dinner?
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 6:25 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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I don't wear pants
Oh well thats terrific!

wow - a whole day.........you are a man of great restraint
Thank you. Thank you very much!

Always? Then how would you know that if she didn't kiss you on the first date that she isn't interested?
You know what I mean.

Seems like quite an assumption of non-kissing first date women that there would be disinterest...
What is a non-kissing first date woman?
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 8:55 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


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What is a non-kissing first date woman?
A woman who knows what she is looking for. A woman who believes that a kiss can be a more intimate exchange between two people.......and isn't going to go around kissing every first date she has. A woman who knows that intimacy can interfere with her decision making process of whether the man is really worthy of something longterm. Just a guess.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 12:02 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
sweetsuz


Posts: 379
Frenzy........i like the way you think.


Sylvan, WHAT kind of women do you have up there?????
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 4:53 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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Well, Im 38 never married, no children, and not involved in any committed relationship. So, that ought to give you an idea.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 12:15 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Bigshrek


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I can't say that sex on the first date is a bad thing because half of my best relationships started out as first-date/meeting bangs...heck, usually don't even have to take them out on a date...one of the girls I'm seeing now I first met at a Halloween party back in 2005 and we did it in the woods about 2 hrs after we first met. The other one I'm seeing got naughty in her driveway the first time we met...note that both of these gals are not particularly into sharing, but don't seem to mind the open dating policy...we all get what we need and if someone wants to get exclusive...that's discussable. Sometimes the chemistry is TOO powerful

On the other hand some of the best relationships have been those who I've been friends with while dating other gals and then once I'm a free agent...they take their ride on the Jungle James every woman is different and I let them decide when to go for it...I just don't make it particularly difficult for them to make their move
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 1:58 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


Posts: 512
Thanks Suz!
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Sylvan, WHAT kind of women do you have up there?????
Well, Im 38 never married, no children, and not involved in any committed relationship. So, that ought to give you an idea
You didn't answer the question
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Shrek........I don't even know where to begin responding.
I guess it would depend on your definition of "relationship" - but sounds like you have (and it's a term I hate) "friends with benefits". Re-read Sylvan's definition of dating...........If either of these women wanted to discuss "exclusivity" with you - how much of a discussion would there be? "Open dating policy" basically means "I don't want to commit". Which is fine.....if both parties were on board with that......but you even admitted that
both of these gals are not particularly into sharing, but don't seem to mind the open dating policy...we all get what we need
I wouldn't confuse that as being a "relationship". Seems like you get exactly what you want. Majority of women are not happy in that kind of situation....but some will take what they can get because of self-esteem issues or they're hoping they will be able to change the situation. What they don't realize (or want to admit) is that the situation won't change.........because the guy doesn't have respect for them. To use a cliche: "Why buy the cow if I can get the milk for free."
as for your closing statement:
On the other hand some of the best relationships have been those who I've been friends with while dating other gals and then once I'm a free agent...they take their ride on the Jungle James every woman is different and I let them decide when to go for it...I just don't make it particularly difficult for them to make their move
I've got 2 comments. 1. You sure think highly of yourself. 2. Clearly you don't respect women.

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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:27 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


Posts: 512
Shrek - I thought maybe I was slamming you above....then I saw you posted this in another thread:
95% of women are submissives anyway and one has to be able to WORK that angle
I stand by comment #2.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 5:13 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
GSpotGina


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That depends where you meet your date, how you talk with them, etc. If you meet someone from a site like this, the expectations are what they are. Even for those who are looking for someone highly sexually oriented as a lifetime partner, they should at least be clear and forthcoming for them not to have any expectations the first date. That it's strictly meet and greet.



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Nov 18, 2007 @ 6:40 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Mac1221


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to nawtikitty -- right on the spot -- Maybe it's my ego -- But I guess I just think they like me -- but then some guys think (hell -- anybody that would EVER fuck me would fuck ANYBODY anytime -- ie "i'm a sleezeball -- so only a slut would do it" )
Am I on to something here ?
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 7:25 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


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That depends where you meet your date, how you talk with them, etc. If you meet someone from a site like this, the expectations are what they are
I half agree with you Gina. If it's online "dating" I don't think it matters what site you meet.......and 8 times out of 10........the people here or other sites like this are at the tamer sites too. Personally, I'm skeptical of online dating - seems to me that men have very little respect for a woman who advertises herself online - double standard cos they're here Ever since I moved to Floriduh, dating has been a nightmare........whether I met the person online or out in person......it was all about them quickly trying to seal the deal. It wasn't this way in NY *sigh*
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 9:55 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
sweetsuz


Posts: 379
Frenzy, again i have to agree with you. i dont know if i am getting older, but it seems like men do not respect women these days. somehow, in this thread, i am picking up the feeling that Sylvan doesnt really respect women either. He seems to think that we are cheap and slutty (sex on the first date) or dumber than a box of rocks.

why is that?
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 10:30 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
lightbringer6


Posts: 64
^ Because that's our boy Sylvan!

He's a tough cookie to crumble.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 10:45 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
sweetsuz


Posts: 379
thanks, LB.......are you trying to say he needs more ?
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Nov 19, 2007 @ 7:55 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


Posts: 497
You're kinda right suz. But you have to remember that my view is that all of society are dingbats until they prove otherwise. General respect is something I show automatically as a personable person. After that, respect is earned. And Im pretty sure thats how most people approach it, not counting the dingbats.

As far as personal relationships whether friendship or intimate, Im fine with admitting that I am a really picky person.
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Nov 19, 2007 @ 7:58 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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No Sex on the 1st date...
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Nov 19, 2007 @ 7:34 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


Posts: 512
Right there with ya Aly
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Nov 19, 2007 @ 11:28 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
borachone


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Hey frenzy ain't it about timefor our second date
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