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Oct 27, 2007 @ 8:29 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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I dont have any children.
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Oct 28, 2007 @ 4:21 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
two_as_one


Posts: 89
Many years ago it was a possibility . Today he must earn the trophy
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Oct 28, 2007 @ 8:32 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
mrknowuwell


Posts: 1,459
does it even matter that a guy even entered the contest??? no consolation prizes
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Oct 28, 2007 @ 8:35 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
two_as_one


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Only the grand prize
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Oct 28, 2007 @ 9:25 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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I remember when the girls were like that in high school. Was so funny watching them try to act all mature and wonder why they couldnt get any boys to stick around. They were the ones who always fell for the bad guys because those guys were the ones willing to play the girls with their bullshit.
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Oct 31, 2007 @ 1:38 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
ellen2play


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hell yeah. sex is good on any date
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Oct 31, 2007 @ 6:46 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


Posts: 497
A female who has sex on a date is a slut.

Dating~

Dating is the activity of looking for a suitable partner for a romantic relationship. The word refers to two daters agreeing on a time and date when they can meet and engage in some activity, thereby assessing their suitability for one another. Typically a person may date many different partners during the same time period in order to have the best chance of finding their most suitable available mate.
In many cultural traditions, dates are arranged by a third party.

Traditional dating activities include sharing entertainment or a meal. When the activity costs money, it has traditionally been the man's role to pay, although in recent times the practice of "going Dutch" (splitting the expenses) has emerged.

Dating is when two people like each other and decide to get into a romantic relationship. Some people develop into the dating stage by being friends first. Datings consists of many thinks like:

Flirting
Kissing
Holding hands
Calling ont the phone
Taking out to eat
Talking to one another

Types of date

* Standard date: a single couple together
* Double date: two couples date together
* Group date: a group of people with equal number of both genders date
* Blind date: a date where the participants havenĀ“t met each other personally before
* Internet dating: Internet dating is an example of a dating system and allows individuals, couples and groups to meet online and possibly develop a romantic or sexual relationship.

So, to recap...Once a couple has sex, you are no longer "dating".
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Nov 14, 2007 @ 7:51 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


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OK - I'm gonna play devil's advocate here Sylvan - and this isn't personal against you - just you're the only guy to really respond and so descriptively - so you could really = men in general:

above you have this wonderful description about dating........yet earlier you stated (i'm gonna paraphrase here) you basically will put a woman to the test to see if she's a slut (cos you'll go for it every time if you're in to her).....to see if she's got any self esteem/respect. Did you ever think your test might backfire on you? so she passes your test by turning down your advances and now you're hoping to get that second date and get to know her better.......but now she thinks you're a total jacka@# for being so pushy and you essentially have failed her test.......and she wants nothing to do with you. so then what? you might be a great guy - but she wouldn't think so. why can't you (men) just treat a woman with respect from the beginning? because you all are pigs? (paraphrasing your comments again) you don't have to be.......that's a choice you (men) make.

again - don't take it personally - just debating your points (i knew i shoulda been a lawyer!)
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Nov 15, 2007 @ 12:41 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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Nice try counselor

Difference is.....Im not "pushy".
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Nov 15, 2007 @ 5:55 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


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Was hoping my questions would have answered *sigh*
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Nov 15, 2007 @ 8:28 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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The answer to all your questions is what I wrote, "Im not pushy". And it has never backfired. Think of baseball.

The pigs thing is just something that women came up with to define men and only an idiot would waste their time attempting to comfront women to change it. Why women find the idiots I have no idea, but I asure you I am not one of them.



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Nov 15, 2007 @ 6:40 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
In_a_Frenzy


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if you were...........would you admit it?
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Nov 15, 2007 @ 7:43 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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maybe
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Nov 15, 2007 @ 10:28 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
sweetsuz


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i will say this............the need to "test" someone, whether male or female, about loyalty, faithfulness or sex on the first date shows a lack of trust and maturity. Think about it, when you "test" someone, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment and the other person up for failure.

secondly, men are typically out for sex but most women will not do the one-night stand. they have too much respect for themselves.........BUT, if a woman likes a guy and thinks it could develop into LTR, then she would probably have sex on the first date.
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Nov 16, 2007 @ 7:50 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Sylvan69


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A test doesnt have to be a trick. It can just be having an understanding of what males and females do naturally, not be too shy or rigid to act on those things, and get a result. Results arent necessarilly deal breakers either. They can be topics of conversation for getting to know someone better.

Example:.I have used this one since high school... Always walk the woman to the passenger side of the car, unlock and open the car door for her. Then as I walk around the back of the car I glance in the window to see if she leaned across the seat to unlock the driver door. If she does it could mean different things. She likes me, is respectful, or she is a dingbat cause there is an unlock button on the passenger door...lol If she just sits there and doesnt do anything she may either be self-absorbed or a dingbat. The easiest way to know for sure is when I get to the driver door I tap on the window and smile at her. 45% of my [first] dates were surprized at themselves for forgetting and imediately either lean over the seat or frantically look for the button. And 45% either reluctantly click the button, or just sit there and dont do anything with a confused look on their face. Self-absorbed Dingbats! For some dates all this makes for fun and interesting conversation. And the others...well....think about it...if the bitch cant even unlock a door, what will the sex be like? lol And even if the sex was good, Id still be stuck afterwards having to deal with her prissy dingbat attitude.

BTW, not all my dates are losers. There is still that 10% who get in the car and naturally unlock the door. And honestly, every single one of them allowed me on first base in a way that I instinctively knew second, third, and home was for another day.

smart man + dumb woman = one night stand
smart woman + dumb man = marriage
dumb man + dumb woman = kids
smart woman + smart man = romance





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Nov 16, 2007 @ 9:30 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
SpunkyRed


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I'd have just let ya standin' outside of the car...lookin goofy ..im just joking Joel!!!!
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Nov 16, 2007 @ 9:32 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
SpunkyRed


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I'd eventually let ya in....after I had some fun with ya ...or is that before i had some fun with ya
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 2:01 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
borachone


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^^^ We know you don't mean before ya flirt
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 3:58 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
carol_can_play2


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I had sex on the first date tonight
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Nov 17, 2007 @ 6:47 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
ynot7769


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secondly, men are typically out for sex but most women will not do the one-night stand. they have too much respect for themselves.........BUT, if a woman likes a guy and thinks it could develop into LTR, then she would probably have sex on the first date.


good thing ya added the word TYPICALLY

hell i don't put out on first date......need to wine me dine me 69 me ..............and maybe on the 2nd
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