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Jan 7, 2008 @ 8:47 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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Band + Aly= Date
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Jan 9, 2008 @ 6:59 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
LilGriz


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Has happened onece before, but was a looonnng time ago. I figured out what a date is, now just need to remember what sex is.
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Jan 9, 2008 @ 8:31 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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When you find out let me know griz
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Jan 9, 2008 @ 8:42 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
LilGriz


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Maybe we need to do some research - wanna join me??
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 1:01 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
aspiringwriter


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I've only done it once. In high school and the girl was rumored to be a slut, turns out she was (mind you not everybody that does have sex on the first date is, but she was). Anyway, we weren't particularly sexually compatible, so we didn't date after that but became good friends.
In another case, I dated a girl for I while before having sex. Shortly after we started dating she went off to college, but we continued long distance (probably my first mistake). Anyway, the getting-to-know-you, flirtation, and general (to steal a word I've seen thrown around here) molestication had gone well but when we finally got to the doing of the deed, turns out we were incompatible. Things got awkward between us and I ended up having essentially wasted my time, and money and lost a good friend because we didn't have sex earlier.
Last story to mention about the OP, I dated a woman and was on the fence about whether I wanted to continue on with the relationship. Took a chance on having sex with her and we were extremely compatible, so I continued to date her. Eventually, many of things I had intially found annoying became charming, or at least something that didn't bother me.
So, yeah, I'm all for the sex on the 1st date. Iff you know the person before you start dating them. It falls under, IMO, the "do we have a connection" category that 1st dates are for.
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Regarding a bunch of the previous post: I think sex is only tagentally related to sex (in that I'm not going to sleep with somebody I have no respect for). Losing respect for a person because you sleep with them (on the 1st date or otherwise) seems to imply that you find sex degrading or shameful in and of itself. So I would have the same amount of respect for the hypothetical you in the morning as I did before hand, except for extreme circumstances (ie "Do you mind if we include my goat in this?"). Frankly, nobody's ever asked me or implied that I might lose respect for them if we had sex. If they did, I'd probably just look at them askance (sp?).
I find acting virginal can be a turn off (looks good on some women though), and I find that if a woman is a virgin, I definety think twice (to use BigShrek's numbers 82%, more than a slight majority, aren't virgins by 18 (though that's contradictoy to other polls, I've seen and all polls related to sex (as well as polls in general, but especially ones about sex) should be taken with a grain of salt). It raises a red flag and since sex is part of my goal anyway would probably disqualify her as a dating canidate. I'd potentially keep her as a friend but what's the point in dating her?
Sylvan said
Then ya end up with cities like vegas, new oleans, san fransisco
... I've only been to SF briefly, but I liked it and plan on going back. Vegas is an awesome town! Never been to NO but I have a couple of friends whose opinions I highly regard who've recommended it to me (too, too bad I didn't get to see it before Katrina ). I don't see how either SF or Vegas are a sign of America losing morals or integrity.
Just occured to me that my viewpoint may be and odd one, because I've mostly dated friends or other people my friends could vouch for.
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 1:39 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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Maybe we need to do some research - wanna join me??


Maybe
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 1:42 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
Tbonexxx


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Jan 10, 2008 @ 1:42 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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T-bone where you been baby
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Jan 15, 2008 @ 5:50 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
ynot7769


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Sex on the 1st Date

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Jan 15, 2008 @ 9:27 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
maybe_im_the_1_4u


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if he's really hot I will
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Jan 15, 2008 @ 8:26 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
sumdaysoon


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<------- wonders if he is really hot........ and
Sex on the 1st Date
.........that would be a yes.........
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Jan 16, 2008 @ 10:07 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
maybe_im_the_1_4u


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good looking cock :)
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Jan 16, 2008 @ 10:58 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
sumdaysoon


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thank you.........
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Jan 16, 2008 @ 12:31 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
bandengor


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you're not funny.
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Jan 16, 2008 @ 1:16 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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No sex on the 1st date...
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Jan 16, 2008 @ 10:26 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
LilGriz


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I need to know the person well before I would want to have any type of sex.
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Jan 17, 2008 @ 12:59 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
alybai42


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I need to know the person well before I would want to have any type of sex.


How well Lil....
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Jan 22, 2008 @ 8:32 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
smile4connie


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possibly
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Jan 22, 2008 @ 9:01 AM Sex on the 1st Date    
casytrends


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in all honesty doing the guy on the first day will be great if its meaningless and you know nothing will venture from it. but if its a respectfull relationship let us boys wait a while
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Jan 22, 2008 @ 6:36 PM Sex on the 1st Date    
Shaggy1


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depends on the woman and the circumstances, but generally not
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