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Aug 25, 2007 @ 11:04 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
MannyP


Posts: 1
I have been trying to meet people in the Kokomo/Lafayette/Indianapolis area. The ones I meet or write to usually are looking for a long term relationship, a friend, or someone to date them. The name of this website is sexsearch. That being the case, I would assume that most women on here would understand that the guys on here are looking for sex. I am looking for friends with benefits (emphasis on benefits). Are there any women in Indiana who would be up for uncomplicated fun? If we get along, you have looks and a brain and can converse, we can ALSO go to dinner, comcerts, shows, etc.
Am I on the wrong site?

Manny
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Aug 26, 2007 @ 7:24 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
Looking4ever


Posts: 9,601
The name of this website is NOT sexsearch...it's ADULT Match Doctor. Don't think just because a woman is on this site that she is ready & willing to spread her legs for any one.
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Aug 26, 2007 @ 10:57 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
chickygal29


Posts: 1
Well put Looking!!
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Aug 26, 2007 @ 11:09 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
jackhectic


Posts: 1
Uhm... Isnt this place called "adult" just as a synonym for sex? I mean, do you look for high-cultured, really intelligent movies that only mature people can follow at an "adult movie store"? or do you consider porno to be just that?
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Aug 26, 2007 @ 11:21 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
northwestindiana


Posts: 6
So Much Agree ............. it's like a long term dating site with these woman. Too many restrictions, looking for long term relationship and don't respond back to emails either.
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Aug 27, 2007 @ 8:18 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
dwgclassic


Posts: 1
I think this is a great site. There are many like it but you pay through the nose to join them and contact the women. With any of these type sites the ratio of men to women is huge. I belong to a couple other sites that are free to contact others. As soon as a woman posts on the sites, she gets hit from all directions from men.

I find, with this site, some of the women, who do post a profile, are looking for long term relations and aren't looking for just sexual encounters. Then there are the ones that aren't afraid to say what they are really looking for. When they do the men go after those few like vultures on a carcass.

The women have a broad range to choose from. We don't. What we have to do, to catch their attention is to have a great profile and be patient. There will be that one that thinks your someone to get to know better. The men that I like the most are the jerks. They make it easier for those of us with "polite" profiles to meet the women.

I agree that some of the women need to go find another site if they are insulted by the openess of this site. Then that would mean we would probably lose half of them. I don't think it's so much the theme of this site. Rather how they are contacted by a few of the men that are in here. The major complaint, from a lot of the women I have had contact with is all the liers they encounter. I post it like it is and how it will be. I post I am married. I wouldn't be here if I was happily married and had a wife that payed attention to my needs on occasion. Hell, once a year would be nice. But keep it up guys. Makes me look better.
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Aug 27, 2007 @ 11:16 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
allforyou999


Posts: 180
I have found is 95% sex only
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Aug 27, 2007 @ 1:14 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
casuallylooking


Posts: 1,917
go find another site if they are insulted by the openess of this site
I'm not insulted by the openess of this site. It's a lot better to read wanna f**k emails then BS from the ones that couldn't find the truth if someone glued it to their freakin eyeballs.
The name of this website is sexsearch
NO, it's not. As Looking4rver has already told you. Sexsearch, if you paid attention, is another site that has their advertisments on here. So in answer to your original question, it's looks like you were the one confused.
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Aug 27, 2007 @ 11:43 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
coltsfootball


Posts: 1,600
Look at yourself you stupid Fuck...even if this was " sexsearch" do you really think any self respecting female here would want to fuck you? If you don't like the site then leave Dumbass. I am sure that all the ladies would miss you ( ) but the rest of us won't
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Aug 30, 2007 @ 8:23 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
MsAir1948


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Personally I don't believe anyone is confused. Women want a nice guy that is NOT penis driven and men want a woman who worships the penis god. No one is confused just different wants and desires. As for adult.. that is a matter of each individuals perception. State what you want in the profile and should anyone read it then there is no guess work. If it says long term relationship then why persue that person if you want no more than sex. Alas.. what's your sign? lol. Just my two cents worth. Have a great day all.
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Aug 31, 2007 @ 12:56 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
Looking4ever


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State what you want in the profile and should anyone read it then there is no guess work.

Ah, there's the rub. It seems that many don't bother with reading the profile. Then there are also those that don't bother filling them out.
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Sep 1, 2007 @ 6:22 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
smoochers4u2


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A lot of men and women have been paying members on some sites and have been able to respond because of being a paying member, but they make some of the fees just a little too pricey and no one wants to throw away money meeting someone that you may not like or have a sexual interest in and if you are going to do that just go to a bar if you are looking for just sex, normally when you don't get an answer that usually means the person is not a member and can't respond back or they are just not interested in your profile because of the way you expressed yourself....

I get a huge kick out of some of the men with saying how they want a thin, attractive woman but then when you see the men they are over weight and nothing to look at themselves.. I can't understand why men think women don't look for the same things, guys just don't get it...
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Sep 1, 2007 @ 7:39 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
Looking4ever


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That is not the case on this site. EVERY one can respond. Many just choose not to.
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Sep 3, 2007 @ 11:37 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
smoochers4u2


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Sorry i should have been more specific, i was talking about the other sites where you can only respond if you are a paying member... This site yes you can respond if you choose to... But i agree with you most of the guys on here think just because women are on this site that we are all ready to spread em and they can't be more wrong, we are all not like that... This site is what each individual sees it being, i see it as an adult site with adult attitudes some see it as a sex site.. We should all read the profiles before responding etc... Thanks for correcting me there i type faster than i think sometimes and it doesn't come out right lol...
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Sep 4, 2007 @ 2:48 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
Looking4ever


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i see it as an adult site with adult attitudes some see it as a sex site

I think you and I agree on this. And, actually, most of the people I associate with on here are in agreement with us on that. There are many, though, that feel like it's an internet whore house. Say what want and get it. Funny that those are the ones that whine about being disappointed too.

I wasn't so much correcting you as trying to clarify for some of the minrods.
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Sep 6, 2007 @ 10:33 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
unfulfilled1


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I really dont believe there are many that just hook up anyway.. I am just out of a relationship of 15 years and the NSA sex thang to me seems unfulfilling...Maybe I am wrong, but at this point in my life, I really need a few good friends that will tell me the truth and tell me I am ok, not a freak for voicing my opinion or having one...

Not much of that truth stuff around these days...
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Sep 7, 2007 @ 12:12 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
Looking4ever


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I really need a few good friends that will tell me the truth and tell me I am ok, not a freak for voicing my opinion or having one...

Yeah, I think that was the toughest part of the relationship ending...it wasn't JUST the relationship but my whole life changed. My 'old' friends didn't know what to say or do and I didn't know how or where to go meet new ones. The first year was pretty tough...and lonely. I think I am one of the lucky ones and have found much on this website.
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Sep 7, 2007 @ 5:12 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
unfulfilled1


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I think maybe it was just YOU getting the chance to be YOU again...that is what I am finding...I felt like I was becoming something that I did not like, that had to change for me and my son...
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Sep 7, 2007 @ 9:59 AM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
ynot7769


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Personally I don't believe anyone is confused. Women want a nice guy that is NOT penis driven and men want a woman who worships the penis god. No one is confused just different wants and desires. As for adult.. that is a matter of each individuals perception. State what you want in the profile and should anyone read it then there is no guess work. If it says long term relationship then why persue that person if you want no more than sex. Alas.. what's your sign? lol. Just my two cents worth. Have a great day all.


GOOD ONE! uumm i'm a taurus n gemini ........and you?
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Sep 7, 2007 @ 4:36 PM Are the women on here confused or is it just me?    
MsAir1948


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I'm a Leo so that does mean I can scratch and bite..lol. But I can lick a lot too...lol. How bout that? lol
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