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Oct 6, 2006 @ 9:48 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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I personally don't find it to appealing to see a bunch of cocks when doing a search of the site. I have a better than average cock but refrain from showing it online as I find it kind of immature and a sign of insecurity. I would much rather show it in person to a woman that is actually interested in seeing it. First of all, playing with it to make it hard for everyone to see is rather sick and to relate to what I said before, I would much rather have a hot woman play with it to bring out its full potential. I would like to think that I could turn a woman on with more than a cock shot. As a man I know that we as men are very visual creatures and women are more aural. To put it into laymans terms, they (women) are for the most part more interested in good conversation and not as much turned on by what they see. Try turning a woman on with good stimulating conversation and you have a much better chance of getting her in bed. Tell me what you think.
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Oct 13, 2006 @ 2:29 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
phatyhottie


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i like to see cocks.....and the thought of a guy playing with it turns me on, even if its not infront of me. Hell i may be a sicko too, but i think that the women, or at least a good part of them, on this website, do like the visual over the sensuality. Especially since alot guys/girls are just here to cyber, a visual would be nice to think of, as we are typing those nasty dirty thoughts in our heads. And do you find it just as disgusting when you see a women flaching her tits, pussy, or ass?
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Oct 13, 2006 @ 10:50 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
XXXMan


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Good point hotty. Personaly, since I don't swing that way, I'd rather not see cock pics. However, I do enjoy the visuals of seeing a woman's pic showing tits and ass. It is after all an adult site and well, preferences are preferences. Some women may like to see a guy's cock to turn them on. Some may not. Personaly, I wouldn't take a pic with me with my dick in my hand, but to watch and see your partner masturbate mutually until you just cant take it anymore and have to have each other is a turn on for me.
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Oct 13, 2006 @ 11:32 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
Shadowlacer


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this is an adult website and the Christian on is down the hall on the tame Matchdoctor ...u should look into it as we see u took the wrong turn to the adult site...we forgive u ....and just like women tities and pussies are different in small ways...so are mens cock....cause none look like mine here so far ...guess its the shape of....liberating men so women can enjoy the parts too.....
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 12:44 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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Thanx for the enlightenment. Guess I spoke to soon. Obviously I have alot to learn. I was speaking form a male perspective and a personal observation. I didn't mean to sound so critical. Just wanted to know why and maybe sould not have put my personal opinion attached to that question. I do thank you for your response.
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 12:48 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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Thanx for the vote of support. I was just trying to point out that some of us don't want to see a bizillion cock pics. But to be realistic, it seems like there are 10 guys to 1 gal on most of the adult sites. Thank you for your response
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Oct 14, 2006 @ 7:59 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
tittytatbrat


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.....hold on now......As for MYSELF, I feel the same way. Every time I ask for a picture, 4 out of 5 times it will be a cock shot. WHY? My response is, "Geee.....ANOTHER penis." So maybe this site IS all wrong for me. I would rather see a guy's chest/arms than what he has in his pants (or hand).
Besides, as I always say.... "..big or small, cocks are fun....but it's the TONGUE that gets the job done..." And my own weakness is muscles, so a guy sending me a pic of him shirtless and meaty will always catch my eye. (trimmed curlies, of course)
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 1:28 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
drbits


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Personally, I prefer a head waist-up shot as the primary picture. I look at the eyes, the hair, but especially whether she looks like she is happy to have her picture taken and heppy to be posting it. That at least tells me something about the person.I do like shots showing the face and bust, but I don't see many of those.

I then really like to see how ingenious women can be about showing off their bodies in their other pictures (most don't try to be ingenious). While I agree that this is an adult site and many people want to see "the goodies", they tell me nothing about the person.

Unfortunately, many women say that if they don't show goodies in their primary picture, nobody looks at their other pictures.

On the other hand, maybe I am the sick one.

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Oct 16, 2006 @ 1:34 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
drbits


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Right now, there are 3 men online for each woman (I searched).
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 7:04 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
stottpie


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I agree. I'd rather have the females post their faces for their primary picture.

Seriously, even if you have the nicest, cleanest, most well-groomed pussy in the world I'm not going to want to fuck you if you're ugly. On the other end of the spectrum, I have absolutely no idea why someone would post this as their primary picture: http://www.adultmatchdoctor.com/profile_Cowgurl69her_photo_1.html

I wonder... for the girls.. If a guy has a very large penis and is unattractive in other areas, would you still consider having sex with him?
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 8:29 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
phatyhottie


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i wouldn't care how big his penis is...if he is not cute(to my standards) then I won't fuck him. But he has to also seem nice, thats why we write to eachother. I have seen a guy just give out his address as if women are just going to flock over. So you are telling me that if a girl (obviously not me) has her pussy or tits showing on her first pic and lives 15 miles away, you aren't gonna look at her profile at all. Who cares if its her first pic....only pic i understand, but again you can always ask. Alot of people also on this site want to be discrete, so showing the goods and not thier face is a way to be bad, and not possibly have your boss see you, or your wife/husband.
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 9:15 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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Good answer. You never cease to amaze me with your briliant insight. Would love to have more conversations with you. You get right to the point and I like that. Obviously some people like the nude shots and some are more conservative in their approach. I hope to get some more responses. I have noticed this thread has been getting alot of airtime. Thanx for all the replies.

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Oct 17, 2006 @ 2:15 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
cutejez1979


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True!!;)
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Oct 21, 2006 @ 5:04 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
funer001


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nice answer
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Oct 30, 2006 @ 8:48 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
bentan


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To the OP, I have to say this: your initial post came off sounding a little smug. Sick, immature, and a sign of insecurity? Are you making a moral judgment or are you speaking from expert knowledge as a psychologist? If the former, note well that this is an adult site; if the latter, provide textbook/research references to back your claim of psychological deviancy. Same critique applies to the various generalizations you made about males and females and what turns them on.

Having said that, I do get a few looks and winks from ladies who are into explicit visual stimulation. Whether or not they are the majority or not I do not know (and quite frankly, I don't think you do either). What I do know is that I'm attracting ladies with the same sexual interests as I am; so as far as I'm concerned, it works.

You are of course entitled to your own opinions and methodology. But my advice to you is: don't come off sounding like some moralist or psychologist making all sorts of pious prescriptions and crass generalizations about human behavior, as if you were operating on some higher moral and intellectual plane. Simply and crudely put, you're just a horndog like the rest of us; so quit putting on airs and putting down others to make yourself stand out. It is frankly quite obvious and pretty pathetic.


[Edited on 10/30/2006 9:23 AM]
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Nov 3, 2006 @ 7:38 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
littlebear271


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Right On xxxman, i fully agree with you ...I have more than enough dick to go around,but i wont take a pic. of just to try an empress a woman. She will find out what i've got swinging when she & i get together. But to see a woman showing her ( open ) Bod is a real turn for me too...
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Nov 4, 2006 @ 11:40 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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Seems as though some people are reading to deeply into this question and taking it too personally. I said before and will say it again, that, this was just MY personal observation and do not intend for all to share my opinion on this, but rather encourage all to share thier point of view. After all, that is what makes our country so great, is that we all have a constitutional right to voice our own opinions. I am very secure with myself and my abilities and would never try to impose my beliefs or morales on another. It might not make everyone happy to hear it, but it is my opinion that people that take generalizations personally are the ones that have some insecurity issues that maybe they need to deal with. Please don't infer that I pass judgement on anyone when I post my blog. I never direct any personal observation at any person. If you feel that you don't agree with me, thats great, you are also entitled to you opinion. That doesn't mean you or I are right or wrong, just that we have a difference in opinion. Peace!
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Nov 6, 2006 @ 6:13 AM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
bentan


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Well I have never in my post said that you did not have a constitutional right to your opinions. In fact, I did affirm your right in my post. By the way, don't be a weasel and mask the target of your reply by saying "some people". If it's me, be upfront and say so. After all, I did refer directly to you (the OP) in my post. And I was voicing MY personal opinion that you came across as being ill-informed, making various unflattering generalizations, and putting down a group of people (doesn't have to be any particular person) just to make yourself look good. If you don't agree, that's fine, but it would be nice to see you rebutt some of the points I made. It is very easy to make this or that assertion and not back it up with concrete facts.

A good start might be to back up your statement about "immature and [a] sign of insecurity". What makes you so sure showing cock pics is "immature and [a] sign of insecurity"? If you have the balls to make a blanket statement like that about a group of people you should be prepared to show hard evidence to back it up.

I have no problems with people who say they dislike seeing cock pics on this site. To each his or her own. But I do take umbrage when people decide to make blanket presumptions about the character of people who do show these pics. I mean, who the heck are you to judge. Worse still, I hate it when people like you don't take full responsibility for your own statements, wimping out by saying it's not about any particular person. Well, let me ask you this: if you made a racist remark but did not direct it at any particular person would that make it all right? Would it then be just your own personal opinion? Or would it just be what it really is: an ignorant unflattering remark about a group of people?


[Edited on 11/6/2006 6:20 AM]
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Nov 6, 2006 @ 12:34 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
jjmsmitty


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First of all, I would NEVER make a racist remark and would never pass judgement on another person based on my beliefs or morales. Second, when you say that you would not do these same things, then you need to stop using verbs, such as wimp or don't have the balls. Believe me, after serving my country and being trained in special forces, I think I do have the balls to deal with anything put in front of me. Don't get so hostile in your replys. It sounds as if you take it personally and need some justification as to why you have a cock shot posted. I never meant to offend anyone that does post one. All I wanted to do is find out why there are so many that do. And obviously there are some that don't. Before you start attacking me verbally, you need to read the entire string and base your opinions on everything that has transpired. All I am saying is that I myself don't find it nessesary to post one. I have met several beautiful women on this site and have never had one ask me for a cock shot. So, if you want my opinion here it is. Cock shots are unnessesary in finding good quality women on this site or for that matter any other site. I personally would rather have a woman like me for the person I am than for jsut what I have hanging between my legs. Sex is in the mind, and it doesn't take much thought to stimulate someone with a picture, but it is effective if the only thing you are looking to stimulate is your cock. I want more than just my cock stimulated, I want to be able to have stimulating conversation and a sense of mutual gratification on mutiple levels. Thanks for your input though, I do value that as it helps me see a different perspective than my own.
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Nov 12, 2006 @ 3:54 PM Why do guys show cock shots online?    
DickSlippery


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Personally, I post my cock pics cuz I figure why the fuck not? If the people perving my profile don't want 2 see cock, maybe they should check out E Harmony.com or Yahoo personals or some shit like that. I'm thinking most of the people on here aren't looking 4 that one true love...they're just looking 2 get laid. Might as well let then see what they'll be getting once they've unwrapped me!
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