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Sep 8, 2006 @ 6:08 PM thread by women    
sdnative2


Posts: 7
Here you go...Why is it if a women is with alot of men they are considered promiscuous...and with men they just scored? I always wanted feedback on this! Thanks
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Sep 9, 2006 @ 3:53 PM thread by women    
thexxxman23


Posts: 16
I think that it's because it's just another way that sexism efects the world. To tell you the truth, it duesn't really matter what sex you are. Guys are just as much a whore as the girls are. Girls just need to realize how much power they hold between their legs. Guys won't say it, but if a girl has more guy partners than a guy has girl partners then the girl is still the winner in the whole sex race thing. That's just the way I see it. This is Max, latter.
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Sep 11, 2006 @ 9:28 AM thread by women    
rasmo68


Posts: 2
because woman can have sex anytime they want they have the pussy we dont. any half way good looking woman can have sex when every they want.and if they do most think they are sluts hell id kill for a woman like that if a stranger came up to me and said lets do it i would woman would never say yes to that so when a guy does get some he is very lucky most woman have to be in love to have sex so they say us men will do just about anything for the pussy becuse you woman keep it from us so often
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 4:50 AM thread by women    
relly24


Posts: 1
i was always taught because if a man has a lot of sex, it really doesnt affect his body. on the other hand a female that has alot of sex gets loose and worn out. and anyway theres alot of evolution from when men were hunters to get out of us.
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 9:29 PM thread by women    
LiQ_Me


Posts: 12
Just another case of double standards isn't it? You can picture the guy going back to his guy friends bragging about the slut he just nailed and what a Ho she was for doing him first meeting. But of course if she hadn't done him he would have gone back and told his friends that she did anyway so....lol.
Man Ho's are help up on some pedestal by other guys but women Ho's are never held on a pedestal by anyone, especially other women.
So what to do....either enjoy having lots of sex and be brandished a slut and a Ho by guys and women alike or don't have lots of sex and be branded a c**ktease or a virgin or lesbian or a cold fish??
Yup, it sure is a fun world in which we live when others feel they have the right to pass judgement on anyone they so choose. Like being young and attractive and have some silicone chested sad lonely old hag attack you for being here at all and saying how "Sad" it was, ughhh! So it's "Sad" that I am here but it's ok for her to be here? Like I said, good old double standards.....
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 12:08 PM thread by women    
tigerpython69


Posts: 1
Because people in general are idiots! Sex is good. Sex is fun. Sex is healthy. Sex is above all vital for the very existens of humans. Just go for it, enjoy and have a blast but stay healthy.
Tigerpython
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Oct 27, 2006 @ 10:36 PM thread by women    
pucylikker4u


Posts: 5
Exactly.
Sex is way to much fun,for both involved,or however many are
involved....l.o.l.
I myself,don't label anyone ,because of how few,or how many,peaple
they have had sex with.
Just as long as they were useing the proper things needed,to
prevent disease,from spreading,ect.
Such as condoms,ect.

When the oppertunity is there,the two of you,
your feeling those urges.....Why not?
Just make sure you have protection.......Because......
You never know.

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Dec 8, 2006 @ 1:26 PM thread by women    
haskell91248


Posts: 4
i feel a woman should have the same rights as a man wayne
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Dec 9, 2006 @ 1:07 PM thread by women    
sirsgrace


Posts: 1
just sending a *5* to the "promiscuous women" out there that have friends that accept sex as the wonderful thing it is.. do we really care what people we don't know and will probably never know think? it is what WE as women think of our own sexuality that matters.. i happen to think i am promiscuous.. hell i'm freaky.. and guess what? my friends "the ones whose opinion might make a difference to me" still adore me!... its all about us.. and looking in the mirror and saying..oh yeah! i like me! its not about the partners..how few or how many... or what the rest of the world thinks.. i have friends that have hit triple digits in the sex partner count.. and i say GO GIRL! This is real life... we don't have to save our virginity as a bargaining piece to get married..so HAVE FUN!!!!
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Dec 10, 2006 @ 3:49 PM thread by women    
phoenix_mylo


Posts: 16
You have to ask yourself who it is that considers a woman promiscuous if she's had more partners then a man... is this one of her peers? Well, maybe she needs to tone it down. Or maybe her friends need to get with the program and get busy themselves.

If it's someone from the religious right who's saying such things, then consider the source... and then tell yourself it doesn't matter. The number of partners a woman has had is no one's business but her own. I prefer not to judge people on things like that. It doesn't define whether that person is "good" or "bad".

There is a reason sex is so pleasureable and I think we were meant to enjoy it as much as we can. Let's not judge people on whether they're promiscuous or not... there are other things that matter far more.
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Jan 10, 2007 @ 12:55 PM thread by women    
desertsissyboi


Posts: 2
Its because it bred into men from the time they are conceived to when they are old enough to have sex with a girl they are always told by dear dad u marry a good girl u screw a bad one nd guys like one guy sid we have dicks and girls have a pussy they can have sex anytime and with anyone we cant when it comes to sex women have all the power
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Jan 12, 2007 @ 2:53 AM thread by women    
FFMatt


Posts: 9
Here you go...Why is it if a women is with alot of men they are considered promiscuous...and with men they just scored? I always wanted feedback on this! Thanks

It's a mentality that dates back for a long time. We live in a patriarchial (sp?) society and the simplest explaination of why we live in such a state is because until recent years it's been impossible to determine the ligitimacy of heirs by any other means than fidelity. If a woman sleeps with only one man, he can therefore be the only suspect for father. This would work both ways, however traditionally, heiratage has been passed paternally.

Not saying this to be sexist, it's just history. Culture plays a role in a person's mindset. and to be perfectly fair, they have a words to call slutty men:
Lecher
Satyr
Or in the case of one who is unable to quell their Lechery they would be considered having Satyriasis AKA DonJuanism; comparable to nymphomania) Which would then be classified under an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

Watch "I am a sex addict" by Cavah Zahedi

Personally, I think if your: Age/SexPartners > Pi
Then you might have a problem
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Jan 12, 2007 @ 8:51 AM thread by women    
phoenix_mylo


Posts: 16
FFMatt - your comments about the historical nature of this particular sexism are quite correct, although that probably only tells part of the story.

I could have done without the formula at the end, though. By your measure, at age 47, I should have had 15 partners. I'm only half way there and holding. I guess I have some catching up to do.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:11 PM thread by women    
FieldAgent


Posts: 7
If our "hypothetical girl" existed here she'd be queen of this website.
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