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Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?


May 8, 2007 @ 7:00 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
QCMAN


Posts: 21
All the men hear the same excuses by many women, especially those in 'dating' sites.

She is looking for Mr. right, but you are not him.
She is looking for love and affection, with attention and passion a must....you respond, the profile meets the desires; sorry, you do not measure up...good luck next time.

She's not concerned about money, and you mention you are living on a budget; guess what...you lose........again!

She writes that she wants a long term relationship and not into games or those with baggage of the past, and you spend the entire date listening to her past problems.

You find a lady you really adore, and she appears to fit your lifestyle perfectly, so you make a connection, only to find out she's dating someone already and has never bothered to update her profile to reflect this.

Ladies, if you are serious about finding someone, then take a leap of 'faith' and see what happens!

The person you assume to be wrong or ot your type, may be the best thing that came along in quite a while...give the person a chance first, before ignoring them over some trivial concern....everything takes time, and relationships are NOT based on immediate misconceptions based solely on a profile posted on a dg site.

Stop playing games and get involved....dive in and you'll probably enjoy yourself far more than you might have ever imagined!
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May 11, 2007 @ 11:22 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
SmotherMePlease


Posts: 47
Yeah, I'd like to know why also. Most women are liars. I have met tons of women on dating sites and we hit it off well, then when it comes time to meet they disappear on you.
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May 15, 2007 @ 8:36 PM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
LustyWoman


Posts: 86
Most women are liars

I think both genders can share on this one.
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May 19, 2007 @ 5:42 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
QCMAN


Posts: 21
Even though I am relatively new to this site, I don't think I am hideous nor disfigured to warrant being ignored.

I was raised to never ignore anybody, even those I had no interest in, I at least provided some form of an answer, at least a common courtesy should be warranted even if you have no intention on ever meeting me, or anybody for that matter.

No wonder this site generates little, people find out soon that many here will never give you the time of day, let alone respond to an Email signifying interest or lack of interest in that person.

If I say I will meet someone, I follow through no matter what.

I'd like to believe I am not waiting for a reply that will never arrive.
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Jul 2, 2007 @ 4:45 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
tempemanho


Posts: 1
damn,
I just took the time to join this site and now I've read this thread. Man, I hope this wasn't a waste of time. I hope the people I've sent messages to respond. What a drag. I wonder how many hours I've wasted. Well hope for the best right. I might not be staying long if this thread indicates the reality of this website.
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Jul 8, 2007 @ 5:28 PM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
starz_50


Posts: 2
EXCUSE ME 'SmotherMePlease'.. I have YET to find a guy on here that is honest. I have been told the same by just about every guy that has written to me.
"Oh I want to met you!!! I 'll be in your area can we meet?" I've heard it all & when I comes right down to the 'meeting, They do a disappearing act. So 'SmotherMePlease' it goes both ways. So it is very wrong of you to put only women in the 'lair' catagory because the male of the species does a good job of it also.. (you noticed I said also)? Yes a know women lie. But please don't rule out men. They do too..
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Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:10 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
nonvobissolum


Posts: 3
okay men - this is simple math. how many men are on these sites looking for women, and how nany women on these sites are looking for men?

no, it's not about playing games, it's about women getting inundated with requests.

If I had sex with everyone asking, I'd be fucking 8 times a day.

So, we women have lives too, and so you just have to understand that and not take it personally.

If you get rejected, it's just a matter of economy. Women aren't out to hurt you, fuck with your brains, all that stuff that you're imagining.

just do the math, don't take it personally, and think of it as when you send a resume out for a job... only a small percentage of those will get you an interview.

sorry - just the way it is.
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Sep 22, 2007 @ 10:44 PM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
FIREfarr


Posts: 2
This is true ladies.....
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Oct 15, 2007 @ 7:48 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
thikwon


Posts: 1
Good analogy!
Schedules change, priorities change..so many other factors when it comes to getting together. I think both sexes have situations where they're either insistant on getting together "If you want it bad enough, you'll make it here", but also have lives outside of the sexual arena...kids, work, etc. I love sex, but it takes a back to the health, safety and happiness of my children. By the way, I'll be in Chandler the week of 13-14 Nov :)
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Nov 11, 2007 @ 2:42 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
QCMAN


Posts: 21
I think the time has come to change my information, mainly due to the fact I will be moving to Globe before the 'new' year arrives, so this will change a lot for me.

It will also limit seriously, any responses I may get as well.

So far, this has not been the issue, and I am happy I don't rely on these sites to set my social calendar to either, as none of the sites really 'do' anything other than play billboard to the advertisers.

I'm in the Queen Creek area and have the time and desire to meet, but so far, no takers.....and I'm even willing to drive as far as Tucson, so what's the problem here?

If I tell someone I will meet them at 'X' place at 'X' time, you can set your watch to it as I WILL be there, no lame excuses either.

And no, not all women or men are liars, but the "fear factor" appears to creep in all too often; which is WHY I always suggest a PUBLIC place for the initial meeting.

At the end of the 'date' you either walk away friends, 'daters' or just plain walk away and never look back, BUT, you MUST meet each other at the very least, to be fair.

That's all I ever request from anybody, nothing more, nothing less.

Being on time, and honest will always be #1 with me personally.....your mileage may vary, of course.

Email me...I WILL reply!

I'll even Email my cell # so we can talk.

I have bu tone request from the ladies.....If you are interested anough to look, isn't it fair to agree to meet and talk in person at least once before passing me up?

Thank you for your consideration.

QCMAN
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May 25, 2008 @ 3:33 AM Why do so may gals talk about meeting guys, but never actually do?    
KittyLicker


Posts: 3
ABSOLUTELY!
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