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Sep 17, 2006 @ 9:37 AM Comments    

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If we all fucked each other without all of the emotional intimacy that comes with it, we’d probably be a more relaxed society also. I know I get pretty tense when I haven’t been with a woman in awhile. Yes, I can masturbate to release that tension, but as anyone will tell you, it’s just not the same. I’m a pretty relaxed guy by nature, but sometimes that tension builds and even I can get a little snappy and tense. If we were all having sex regularly, we’d all be a lot happier. The fact of the matter is that sex is an emotionally intimate act. That’s fine. I think it should be. I think it should be an intense positive exchange physically, emotionally and spiritually. When that exchange is over, however, that intensity doesn’t necessarily continue to exist.

Why can’t sex be like a good, pleasurable game? At the end of the game, both sides have played well and reached a satisfactory conclusion. The players shake hands (kiss?) and call it a day. Maybe it is more like theater. Two actors enter the stage of the bedroom and take on their roles. They go through a series of acts which eventually results in the climax of the plot, the resolution, and then the curtain falls. After the play, the actors put on their street clothes and continue their normal lives.

Honestly, I think I’ve just stumbled upon the crux of the problem: men are virtually guaranteed a “good game;” one where they feel satisfied. Women, on the other hand, are usually disappointed with the “game.” Often, the man only cares about his own pleasure and doesn’t think about the equal exchange of energy. The woman simply isn’t satisfied. What a mess. The question then becomes, how do I, as a man, assure the woman that I will be generous during the sexual game?

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Oct 19, 2006 @ 10:09 AM Comments    

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i tend to have a short attention span when people are talking, so i didn't get through all of your post.........but you do have a very nice ass!
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 5:20 PM Comments    

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i tend to have a short attention span when people are talking, so i didn't get through all of your post.........but you do have a very nice ass!

another good reason for shorter posts!
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 5:40 PM Comments    

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Oct 26, 2006 @ 1:57 AM Comments    

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I, for one, enjoyed the post. It was very well thought out and makes perfect sense. If more men thought like he does......women would be a lot happier. I know I would. lol But with better sex....who wouldn't?
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Oct 26, 2006 @ 3:23 PM Comments    

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I agree!

Most men (especially younger ones) want fast relief (slam bam thank you mam) and are ready to go their own way. Because of their self-centeredness.

However, most older (& the more experienced) men tend to think of women's needs to be completely fulfilled in their sexual needs and try to meet the need. I'd rather see a woman satisfied to the fullest than one that got nothing much out of the experience, other that breaking a sweat.

More climaxes (multi orgasms) for all women.

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Mar 30, 2007 @ 12:12 AM Comments    

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I noticed it's better to give than to recieve.
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Jan 17, 2008 @ 3:40 PM Comments    

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I have a nice ass
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