Better yet, with the number of "pop-ups" and ads that appear here, could you just waive the fee altogether?
Everyone and thier brother has a "pay me" web site. Start a new trend, and charge the Pop-up guys for the space.
Huge potential market
Taliored to the Adult community
Prime media oppertunity for advertisers
You could then add an option for those who don't want to see the ads, and let them pay for an ad free experience.
Alright it's not a perfect plan, but it might increase the membership/participation.
We do not have pop-ads on our website. We hate them just as much as everyone else and would not inconvenience our members with them. If you are receiving pop-ups you most likely have some adware/spyware on your computer watching what sites you visit, then popping up ads. We recommend that you scan your computer w/ an anti-spyware program. Here is a good free one:
We are also a FREE adult personals site with only an optional "gold membership". As a free member you can send mail, search, post on the forums, etc. all for free! The gold membership gets you a few perks, such as: see who has viewed your profile and show up first in result listings.