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Lookin' for fun and excitement in Huskerland
I'm a great listener. Love to listen and to people talk about whatever is on their mind and then respond to it. I can talk on and on about stuff i'm passionate about. I try to enjoy life and have some optimism, even when stress takes its toll. But I don't try to be unrealistic and will make quick change-course decisions when it's obvious something isn't working out. I can have passionate views, but don't like spending a huge amount of time and effort arguing for eternity and don't care for people who are are perpetually like that and never see the facts in front of them. Finally...i'm caring, fun, enjoy just hangin' out and having a good time with someone.
The person I would like to meet
I want someone who's also optimistic about life. A wet towel is totally unattractive. Someone of course who's fun, friendly, funny, sarcastic, enjoys getting together but also who gives me space and is cool and collected in hard times. A good communicator is a big plus. I enjoy women who take some initiative and speak their minds in a respectful, but clear manner.
About my work
Work...is work haha. It's a no-drama job which is good at least. Been a cashier for the past couple months, now about to do more food service work which is more my experience. Just simple fryin' stuff and slicin' deli stuff. Nothing fancy. Wish it paid more, although I am getting a higher pay going to this new job setting. As is the world of a college student.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Hang out with friends or chat with them via phone/IM. I enjoyed playing my violin when I had it, but it's currently in my home town of Seattle gathering dust until I can get it shipped back to me. I have no car, but that doesn't stop me from going outside for long walks through town for exercise and I just recently got a bike after many years of not riding to slowly build some endurance and go farther. At home I enjoy just watching random sitcoms on tv or tv shows/movies on line. I'm not really into a the whole "club scene"...kinda blah to me, but I enjoy going out to bar and grills sometimes for a drink and good food. On music...I can listen to anything although being a classical violinist, classical music is what I know best...I love jazz as well. But i've listened to pop, rock, blues, blue grass, R&B, rap, and whatever else plenty of times before.
My idea of a great date
A first date for me entails more talking than anything. Physical attraction has to be there, but many times i've already met or seen pictures of the person before we meet and so some attraction was there already. But what gets me is being able to talk to the person one-on-one about whatever happens to cross our minds. And if we can talk for so long that we've gotta cut it off just in order to get other shit in our day done and leaves us wanting more, then something's going right. I really like that feeling. I know for some women there's specific...even single things they want. For me, i'm pretty much open to anyone who's just thinks i'm cool and attractive. Very few things short of really bad life drama is gonna turn me off. I don't mind if a woman's taste in music is way different from mine or they enjoy dramatically different food from me...I can date people very similar to me or very different from me as long as we get along, enjoy each other's company and are wiling to be open to the other person's preferences.
What is your fantasy vacation?
It's probably cliche, but I would like to see Europe one day. Western Europe mostly, since it was the center of everything Western for a long time. I know lots of people who have been lucky enough to travel to another continent and i've never had that experience. A couple weeks just to travel, have fun and gain knowledge would be amazing. I just wish I had an unlimited amount of money (don't we all)...if I did, traveling would be my thing.
What is your academic background?
I go to school as an undergrad at UNL vying for a degree in meteorology... primarily weather forecasting. I still have a couple years to ago, but am really enjoying my time and experience with it. I used to be a music major several years back in my home state of Washington. Never got that degree, but I basically have a beefed up music minor from that.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
My last vacation was back to my hometown of Seattle during spring break of March '10. Went back to see family, friends and do an internship interview. It was only a few days, but it was nice to get myself out of Lincoln for awhile.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence, sense of humor, sarcasm, pleasantness, good balance of listening and talking skills, attentiveness, realism, drive and desire to reach goals.
What do others do that irritate you?
Well, let's see haha...being arrogant and self-rightous is a big one for me. I HATE people who will act like they are the giver of all knowledge simply because of a single attribute (being older or having some past experience in something) which by itself may be a positive thing to have and share, but then refuse to listen to the person's views and experience and treat them as an equal in communication. Yeah, that irritates me enough I wrote an entire paragraph on it!
Also...jealousy. And yes everyone gets that, including me. But it becomes problematic when rational thinking is actively suspended even in the face of facts and evidence that should quiet the jealous feelings. Emotions are powerful, but have to be balanced with good, clear thinking.
What do you think is your best quality?
I care. I'll sit with someone or talk on the phone with them in the middle of the night for as long as is needed and lose sleep if I have a friend, or girlfriend who needs me and my kind words or attentive ears. I'll give a good hug or hold a hand. I just want to care about people and help them through their issues as much as possible.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I wish I were less shy and hesitant. I'm not terribly shy or hesitant anymore like I was in say high school...i've largely gotten past it, but still there's always a moment when I want to make a call or a decision and just don't do it out of fear of rejection. I'm workin' on it.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What they like to do for fun is probably a biggie. I'm not a crazy party guy, but not a total hermit at home all the time either. I did some crazy parties when I was younger and also was a total hermit at home for quite awhile too so I suppose I'm looking for a decent middle ground now.
Describe your physique.
I'm pretty average. Not very muscular nor super skinny...definitely not overweight, but not showing a six-pack. I've actually lost some weight from that previously mentioned bike (like 10lbs?). I'm building endurance from more exercise and do occasionally (when I have the time) lift some weights just to give the muscles a good workout. Simple dumbbells mostly. And of course the bike, long-distance walking and at home jumping jacks, punches and kicks for aerobic workout.
As far as my cock haha...it measures about 6 1/2-7 inches in length, pretty average in thickness (I think, never measured that).
What do you do well sexually?
I've gotten really good at fingering women off. I do in fact know where the clitoris is. I love fingering actually cuz I can watch the woman squirm and move around until and while she cums. My last girlfriend loved it when I kept up the speed of my motions as she came for the full effect. I also use my other fingers as well as my mouth to suck and rub on nipples. Some women have enjoyed me biting on nipples as well. I can do and appreciate other things like sucking and kissing ears and the neck. After getting a woman off in bed, i'll hold her or give backrubs to kinda enhance the afterglow.
I love fucking and feeling the warmth and tightness of a woman and feeling myself slide in and out, sometimes slowly for sensual feeling and sometimes just pounding away for the raw, intense hell of it. I'm good at not cumming too soon during sex. I've practiced self-control and have mastered it pretty well, although there are always days with a woman when they excite me so damn much I just can't hold it in for long ;) I've mostly done me on top or doggie-style. Haven't done much woman on top yet, but would love to get some of that.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Blowjobs by far. Gotta be with a woman who enjoys giving blowjobs. I get off the hardest with a mouth and tongue. Sometimes i've gone days without jacking off just so I can get off hard by a fuck buddy/gf in that way. The whole act is incredibly hot, erotic, sensual and the feeling of cumming in a girl's mouth while feeling her tongue slide around on my cock is intense. I love it when a girl swallow my cum, but it's not a big deal if she doesn't. My last sex partner spit discreetly which was perfectly cool.
Oh and regardless of what we're doing. I really like having sex with the lights on. For one thing, it's easier just to see things as we change positions and such. But i also like to see facial expressions and see the actual sex as it's happening right there in front of me. It makes more engaged, hornier and more excited to see the action. If we see and enjoy each other non-sexually with the lights on, why not during sex?
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I really want some light bondage experiences. Nothing hardcore, but i'd enjoy either me or my partner tying the other up lightly (hands and feet) while we spend hours just teasing the other sexually (lots of arousal, dirty talk, orgasm denial). I would really love to do that as well as receive it.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
One thing i've already experienced and want more of is semi-public sex. One fuck buddy and I got nude and she gave me a blowjob outside the door of a hotel room in the middle of the night a few years ago. I had one of the most intense orgasms ever from the slight fear of being seen and gave her a huge facial and she got herself off hard after I came on her.
Another time with that same person, I met her at her apartment and she came out wearing a skirt with the intent of going out and told me she wasn't wearing anything under it just to get me excited. It was late evening and anyone could've come out of other apartments, but I said I wanted to fuck her real quick right there and so I did right outside her apartment (ready to rush inside if anyone came out of their rooms).
Yet another time with a recent girlfriend, I fingered and got her off in her apartment with her sleeping Dad just feet away in another room. Not really semi-public, but a little risky. A little risk really enhances things.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nope. Totally clean. I'm totally comfortable getting tested for anything at the request of a partner.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Right now, mostly looking for someone to play with awhile. I"m not really a one-night stand kinda guy, more of a fuck buddy-type person when it comes to casual sex. If you're nice, cool and I feel comfortable being around you and vice versa and can call you a friend and there's sexual attraction, then i'll be happy. I mostly just want someone who I can play with and provide me with more experience. I really want to explore sex more for fun without all the romance. Have fun and learn more at the same time.
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I'm cool guy just lookin' to connect with people and have some fun. Message me if you're interested.
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