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I respect women and do not like “the chase” as most men. In contrast I love meeting someone who knows and wants what will happen. It is delightful, no matter how things go further rather or not they do there is only one first meeting now matter how long you know someone. I crave the first meeting being to the point with out any promises or lies that can hurt someone. You Get felt as we talk and decide if we go to another place. You are in complete control of the situation.
If you can imagine how it will feel walking up to a man you never met and meeting him like this, you will know if it is a turn on. If it is, lets enjoy that together. OK?
My idea would be to meet at a parking lot (for your safety) and upon greeting touching you. I can easily go into a speedway station and get a coffee that way you know I am recorded on video. Hell, I can meet you at a police station parking lot as I have nothing illegal in mind at all. Just crave a pure meeting like described.
The person I would like to meet
Discreet and to the point.
People who want the public in on private things I find lack something when things get private. experiance with erotic email is a lack of ever meeting and a total waste of time. Talk or do, few do both.
It is exciting to know you might be shy and even a bit nervous walking up to meet me as we emailed. Shyness adds to excitement, how ever fear is not good for anyone. There are a bunch of ways to set this up in a manner acceptable to you.
I can give you my phone number or call you, be a safe place all of that is very OK with me as I want you to be sure all is OK. The desire is you meet me knowing you are to be felt.
About my work
I love my job and my life. I travel a lot and am never bored. My job like myself is unusual. I don't think everbody would love either but I do. My wife is terribly busy with her work. We both are doing what we like and have little time for nonsense.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Seeking physical (sexual) meetings.
Of course we like other things like snorkeling and cycling and so on, but do not need friends for that people are always around on golf courses and become friends. The interest here is sexual meetings. After that if desired to hang out Iam sure we can come up with something mutually fun.
My idea of a great date
How wonderful it would be to meet a lady, feel her and talk a bit. Show her Asian bi wife photos in person and be in contact with her. Then I get a nice hotel with a spa in the room for her to show up and enjoy a wonderful 3 some.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I fill out more latter if this site seems worth it...basically I respect a woman sure of her wants. I have been devorced after 24 years of trying. I got married at 19 and stuck around long after ir was over to raise the kids. Now my life is different and I am free to enjoy it. I remiarried to a woman I felt I was born to marry. She is bi and a wonderful fit for me.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I am tryong to gain info on theme rooms or such that have what I call "safe tours" ask me more. I would like to set this up really if anyone knows how.
As far as fantasy vacations I would have to show photos as I doubt anyone would believe how much we travel and enjoy the world.
every day is a vacation of sorts, but as far as a trip goes I am looking forward to an Alaska cruise with a balconey.
What is your academic background?
college at night for years and years- have worked in same field atained possiton as manager.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Spain. Med is nice the ocean was clean and blue the historic sites wonderful.
What do you find attractive in people?
mental stength: knowing what they want and what they will do and accept.
Rather an Sm session or just to be felt and talk is OK. I love this way to meet as it lends itself to people who thinkand decide what they want. strange as it sounds mental strength is a big turn on.
What do others do that irritate you?
Long drawn out "maybes" or any such waste of time. The whole turn on of meeting like this is knowing what you want. If I wanted to play “pick up” I would go to a bar and lie to you there.
We have a busy life and when we can meet for sexual fun we want to meet. Not just due to a fun and busy life but also that experience has shown a lot of email and “mights” hardly ever ends up in meeting and enjoying.
Frustrating to get email that tells you to go to a profile at a date site, some guys who knows a girl, and all the usual crap I have to filter just to meet real people like us.
I remain baffled why some people like to have a fake profile and find sick enjoyment wasting a person time and nerves. My best way to show her photos is in person, all you risk is the time it takes to have a cup of coffee and chat face to face. You will see there is never begging or bothering from my end. You guys who like to act like 12 year olds promising what ever just to further your collection of pics should move on. Experience has taught me that if a woman is sincere she can meet and go over photos in person. If not she might be a real girl, but it does not matter as she is not likely to meet and we have had our time traveling and sitting in a hotel waiting for nothing.
What do you think is your best quality?
being clear with my intensions, imagination and playful yet dependable- I do what I say.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
nothing, like you it took all my life to be me. I have finally arrived at a place in life that has me OK with me. I hope you have too.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
you read my profile, you know I loath wasting time... Are you also sincere?
Describe your physique.
regular guy my age. My wife is totaly hot! But Iam not much better I don't think (or worse) than anyone I have seen my age. My looks I don't think are bad , just not a something impressive. On the other hand I believe hers are.
What do you do well sexually?
have real interest in my partners pleasure! My biggist sexual turn on is reaction how nuch a woman does it not as hot as how much she enjoys. Her enjoyment really increases mine. I can be as soft or harsh as needed, not so important. Becuase the best thing is reaction!
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
submission. powerful women sure of themselfs understanding in and out of session make the best submissives or anything else.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
A woman who is honest with herself. I am seeking something rare, the rare lady that knows what she wants and does what she wants. Her respect for herself assures her respect for me.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
not enough room here. I have traveled accross the planet and treid most everything. The best thing is not the sexual activity, but the reaction.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
none! 100% clean and will take measures to stay that way.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Yes I am (and yes we are)!
What I mean is it all starts from a one night stand. I have no interest in obligating anyone to anything. The ultimate situation is to meet again and again as a relationship develops. I just feel this should be allowed to happen rather than forced or negotiated. First let’s have the fling, and then if you want it again we have a fling again. Every time we meet there is no obligation that makes each meeting special and in the perfect case we would meet again and again, yet each time would be because we all want that rather than any obligation.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I really think this would be enjoyable for the girl willing to feel the shy wetness as she walks up to me no matter how much sexual experience she has. I am sure walking up knowing what will happen. I know from several who have told me this would be a turn on, and even a couple have called and masturbated on the phone talking about such a meeting. Yet no lady has agreed to meet this way. No matter how safe the setting or how much they claim to have enjoyed an orgasm over the idea. Any takers.
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