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Married but live in different states. At the present I am seeking a casual relationship so I am not necessarily looking for a commitment. I’ve been told I’m a hopeless romantic, not sure about that but I am loyal and faithful to the one I am with. I do like giving flowers, cards, etc when they are not expected. I treat all women like a lady (even those that aren’t). I like to hold hands and even kiss in public. Affectionate, I enjoy snuggling in the theater or cuddling on the sofa. I love life but take it very serious and also strong willed when it comes to what I want in life. Honest to a fault, don’t ask me a question unless you are prepared for the answer. I also would rather have a friend come back in time and say, “I wish I had listened to you” than come back and say, “Why didn’t you tell me”?
I have been told that I have a great sense of humor but sometimes it’s dry and mistaken for sarcasm.
The person I would like to meet
I am tired of always hanging with the guys and would like to have some occasional female companionship. I would like someone intelligent and feminine who would enjoy just going to a movie, ball game, or out to dine. If she was independent and strong, secure in her self and abilities that would not scare or challenge me as I am secure in my own manhood.
About my work
Retired government computer security specialist. Yes, I do know how to hack a system and no I will not teach you how or do it for you. But you know how those government people are though, they have been know to be bribed :) Just joking.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I have multiple interests and in general just try and enjoy life to the fullest. I like the old muscle cars, owned several wish I had kept. Collect coins. Attend different sports, have season tickets to UK football, yeah why, because they are cheaper than the UK basketball tickets. But then the way the BB team has been going this year I might be able to get someone to trade some BB for FB. Cooking, especially cooking something special for that someone special.
My idea of a great date
Someone that's breathing; second thought some mouth to mouth resuscitation might be fun. Truth is it really depends on the person and what they enjoy. A date cannot be a great date unless it is one enjoyed by both parties.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I have been to most of Europe and the United States but still want to go to Hawaii and Alaska one day. Now that I’m retired sometimes I like to get in my auto and take off, don’t know where I’m going so I’m not sure how I will know when I get there. Then again, does it really matter, especially if you are with someone of like mind? I will be going back to Europe, loved it there.
What is your academic background?
90+ college hours
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Maine, beautiful country with few roads and people the further north you drive plus I ate so much lobster that I did not want to see another one for almost a year.
What do you find attractive in people?
Honesty and integrity. I like women who are beautiful inside, who enjoy life and know how to laugh; women who are not afraid to be a woman. I like a woman who is warm, soft bodied. Not that I do not like the athletic and toned ones I’m just afraid they might place me in a leg lock or challenge me to arm wrestle.
What do others do that irritate you?
People who tell one lie to cover another. Individuals who try to be someone other than themselves. Be honest with who you are and to who you are with.
What do you think is your best quality?
Honesty, integrity, humor and an old fashioned hard to find gentleman.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Sometimes I can be too out spoken. Telling people what they need to hear rather than what they want to hear can cost friendships. But does that mean I should lie to them if I am a friend?
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Do you swallow? No not really, I really do not know of one, maybe something about what did they see in my profile that caused them to mail me. Or tell me what they like to do, and I'm not talking sexually, what do they like doing when they are not working, on AMD or between the sheets with someone. There are other things that can be enjoyable to do with someone that does not involve sex. I am not going to lie like some, I am not a 7/24 man, and it gets boring in a hurry if you can’t find something that you mutually enjoy doing between the bouts between the sheets I don’t care how good you are in the bed.
Describe your physique.
Talk about the “kiss of death”. I am gray or silver haired, balding on top. I have a full beard but it is short and I keep it groomed under a quarter inch long. I need to lose some weight and I am working on it but I have found as you get older it is easier to put on than to take off. Very warm blooded or bodied, if any of you ladies want a man that will keep you warm in the winter then I am definitely your man.
What do you do well sexually?
????????? To be honest not sure, I never had any complaints but never had one go on and on about how great I was about anything I did either. I do listen to my partner though. If there is something that pleases her I will try and comply, positions, methods, harder, gentler, deeper (well maybe not deeper).
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I believe for sex to be good sex both have to receive some pleasure. My favorite would be seeing a woman turned on or enjoying what she was doing to me or with me.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I guess I have always been too much of a realist to have many fantasies but with the right person I could probably come up with a few, especially if it was helping her fulfill some of hers.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
One that I did have and experience was joining the “mile high club” on a American Airlines flight back from Europe.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Not only NO but HELL NO and I don’t want any.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Now I am not saying that I would never do a one-nighter but I have never really been into bed hopping either. I prefer to play for a while or longer term, get to know those little intimacies that can turn on and please their partner. Sharing and caring to bring each other to greater heights of pleasure. While there are times I can enjoy a good fuck I prefer great sex. While many or maybe most men believe a good fuck is one where they got to cum that’s not me.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I am a dinosaur, and old fashioned man who likes to give and receive pleasure. A man who likes to wine and dine a woman or take her to some other activity and get to know her before heading to the bedroom. Lots of foreplay/afterplay and snuggle and cuddle afterwards.
I have large hands (13 1/2 ring finger) but don't believe what you hear about men with large hands. ;-)
Oh yeah, I don't have a cam and, trust me, you really don't want me to have one anyway.
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