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I miss feeling like I matter to someone
I'm 36, I have a 14 old son from my 1st marriage, & a 17 mth old daughter.
I'm trying to save up money for a divorce and move out from my 2nd marriage. My only request is that you please don't judge me. You don't know what I've been through, and as much as the idea of another divorce bothers me, staying in a loveless relationship bothers me even more. I'm very honest, so feel free to ask anything you'd like to know!
I'm a very good listener, and I try to be a problem solver. I love to laugh, & I'm generally a very sweet & kind person. I do have my flaws though! I tend to have a temper if I feel my kids are being treated unfairly or threatened. Sometimes I'm cranky... but because I want to set a good example for my children, I always admit when I'm wrong & I apologize. I think it's incredibly sexy for a guy to also admit when he's wrong & apologize!
The person I would like to meet
I know I don't want to date anyone that's old enough to be my dad, so PLEASE stop contacting me. It's not going to happen!
I believe the best relationships are based on friendship 1st. Then build on that. I'm looking for someone I can trust, who loves kids and wants kids of their own. I'd like someone that wants to cuddle and enjoys spending time with family, and if you like to cook and help with housework, you're awesome!
I do know how to cook, I love trying out new recipies & altering existing ones. I just don't like having to cook all the time. I'm already a mom of 2, I'm not looking to be a grown man's mommy as well, so hopefully the next man I fall in love with will not be lazy & help out.
My son & I have asthma, and do not smoke, and I'm looking for someone that doesn't smoke & rarely or occasionally drinks. I love accents! It's not a requirement though! :) Southern men & cowboys are known to know how to treat a woman right, but again, it's not a requirement. :)
About my work
I became pregnant when I was looking for work before. I was high risk when I was pregnant & couldn't work. Then I stayed home to care for her. She's FINALLY sleeping through the night, so I should be able to start looking for work again.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I'm not really into the bar scene anymore, but I like to play pool, shoot darts, & play music on the jukebox! I like participating in volleyball & tennis & I love to go hiking & horseback riding. I love various types of music & I enjoy watching movies that have comedy, action & romance. I feel alive when I take my son to the museums, planetariums, zoos, amusement parks & carnivals! I want to see the look on my baby's face when she sees all that stuff for the 1st time! I love Mexican & Italian food, my favorite artist is Thomas Kincade, and my favorite authors are Kim Harrison & Charlaine Harris.
My son plays baseball, so I like going to the batting cages & hit some balls with him. With the baby here now, it's hard for me to go to all his games, but I go when I can & am very proud of him whether he wins or loses.
My idea of a great date
Honestly, a great date can depend on various factors. There's something about walking outside under the stars on a clear night. I love the quietness, the feel of the breeze on my face, and in my hair. Maybe go to a carnival or a fair at night? I love how pretty everything is when it's all lit up! The rides seem to be much more fun at night too!
On the other end of the spectrum.. I love the sunrises & sunsets. It's like God's painting watercolors right in front of me.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
My 1st divorce was because he was abusive, was on drugs, cheated on me & didn't want to work.
My pending 2nd divorce is because he's lied to me from the beginning, doesn't respect me or appreciate me, prefers to masturbate rather than have sex with me, and isn't always nice to my children.
Example: He's always picking on my son & starting fights, & then he yelled at my daughter when she was 3 WEEKS OLD, because she was colicky & kept crying. He doesn't do it as much, but he still yells at her to this day, which makes her cry harder.
What is your academic background?
I graduated from H.S. on the B Honor roll, which is amazing because I was always a C student. I worked my tail off my Senior yr of h.s. for that B average. I went to a community college during h.s. and took a computers course. I got a C in that. I'd like to go back to college, but I don't have the money.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Since moving out of my parents house & getting married... I haven't went on a vacation. So, the last vacation was when I was still living with my parents, I was 17 or 18 yrs old. We went to Kentucky to go to the Mammoth Caves. It was exciting & scary at the same time! To leave the caves, you actually have to do mild climbing, and it's freezing down there! Aside from that, we went to Michigan to the Macinack Islands (pronounced Macinaw) 1ce or 2ce a year all through my childhood.
What do you find attractive in people?
His eyes, smile (must have teeth that aren't rotting please!), kindness, confidence, good sense of humor, great hygiene & cologne & deodorant.
What do others do that irritate you?
Snap their fingers constantly, poke at me, call me names, swear around my kids. Oh, & act they like know everything.
What do you think is your best quality?
I'm always trying to see the good in people, & I have a big heart. It's just a little bruised from being hurt so many times.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Not care so much what others think.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What kind of relationship do you want from me? I just want to know up front if it could possibly become something more. If we're just blowing off steam, I need to know so I can try to keep my heart out of it.
Describe your physique.
Because of being pregnant, I have put on some weight. I am working to get it off! I also had some health issues, and put weight on as a result. Anyone want to be my exercise partner? :) I'm serious. Sexual or non-sexual.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Oral sex while being fingered!
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I really did everything I could to save my marriage. It fizzled out when he became selfish & lazy, always taking what I gave him, but not giving anything back in return. All I've asked for was love & affection, & him to provide for the kids & I. I love the feeling I get when I'm making love, touching, kissing, exploring my partners body... my husband knew I had a high sex drive when we started dating, but not 1ce did he indicate that if we married, I'd be forced into celibacy. When I cried to him about how his lack of affection hurts me, he said to find it somewhere else. I've given him 5 years to change his mind & he hasn't made any effort. So, while I'm trying to save for a divorce, I'm going to look for the man I'm supposed to be with. I'm a hopeless romantic :)
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