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Set your inner Goddess free with me. NO MEN!!!
Hello, thanks for stopping by! Where to start? I like women. (duh!) So, please, NO MEN. A few things you should know about me from the start: 1) I'm married, and he's not thrilled by my need for female companionship. I don’t hide my friends from him, but discretion in his presence is desired. 2) I have an outrageously adorable imp disguised as a five-year-old boy. 3) I'm sure your man is fabulous- as long as he's out of any 'intimate' picture I'm involved in. (Now, your Woman? With all involved in accord, that sounds like just plain fun!)
Still reading? Excellent! Here's a little more about me: I accept myself as I am. If I don't like something, I change it, I don't whine about it. I am an educated, creative female who Loves having intelligent conversations with lots of big words. I'm a Procrastinating piece of Work in Progress. I Love to laugh. My sense of humor is best described as, um...odd. I Love dry, sarcastic wit, and I'm silly, too. If someone called me a Wench, I'd grin and take it as a compliment. (I'm a closet Renaissance Festival junkie. I’ve even got the togs.) I'm a voracious reader. I frequently worship at Barnes & Noble. (*gasp* She’s Such a heathen!) I am a sensual, physical person. I mean that I love textures and scents, music, etc. Sometimes, though, I need a kick in the pants to stop working and actually enjoy life. I have a deep appreciation for beauty in any form. I love to touch and to be touched. I'm like many women in that I'm a multi-faceted, versatile paradox. I'm playful, dominating (the sensual thing again), compassionate, yielding (be gentle), strong-willed, etc. I have a vivid imagination that sometimes carries me away.
The person I would like to meet
I've posted here in the hopes of finding other open minded individuals who like to enjoy life, have fun in and out of the bedroom (or bathroom or living room or kitchen table or..)
A few things about you: You’ve come to this site looking for someone to enhance your own very interesting life, not encompass it. You’re only as old as you feel, but legally at least 21…how else am I to buy you a drink? Physically, you like to be at least a little bit active. A few extra pounds are fine – nothing wrong with being 'soft.' :) Setting a weight limit is ridiculous, but a proportionate figure is preferable. Oh, and No Supermodels/ Sports Goddesses! …Oh, alright…but if you are, you better not be stuck on yourself! ;-) You like to try new things every once in a while to keep life interesting. You understand that family is important to me. Oh! What you do by yourself is your business, but drugs around me (even weed, sorry.) are bad! Nothing personal, just don't want to risk my awesome job.
I want to spend time once or twice a week with a wittily intelligent someone who enjoys life. I do my best to be open-minded, so I'm not going to provide a laundry list of "Thou Shall's," and "Ye Must's."
I want to meet a girl who can keep up with my many moods. You know: Shopping/ Movies (Yes, it is Too a mood!); Going for a run/ hitting the gym; Playing (with new toys *naughty grin*); Taking you to a candle lit room, covering your eyes, restraining you with something soft, and touch you in ways that make you beg for….well…ahem…let’s save that for later, shall we? Oh! And don’t forget good, old-fashioned necking!
In a nutshell, I’m looking for a girl who’s looking for a friend and more.
About my work
I have a fabulous career that requires me to be tough and physically fit. I don't want to say too much because it is a small world out there, but I LOVE my job. Sometimes I can't believe how lucky I am to have it. I mean, how many jobs are out there that enable you to relieve stress, get in better shape, and at times, even turn you on? See, I'm one of those people that likes a little B&D every now and again, and part of my job description (law enforcement - So hot.) is making other people do what I tell them. ..and then there's the uniforms. So lovely.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Like I mentioned, sometimes I need a kick in the pants to stop working, cleaning, whatever. But when I'm out and about, I have a variety of interests. I love activity: rollerblading, hockey, sometimes even running, rappelling, martial arts, etc. I also like to relax: reading (LOVE reading!), movies, music. I'm not a big club person. Don't get me wrong, I like to go once in a while, they're fun. Sometimes too fun. The last time a bunch of friends got me to go out, there were these round cages with bars you could slip through...and swing on..and ...then the other girl from work got in with me and...yeah they don't let me out much! lol.
My idea of a great date
Oh, boy. For me, it's not exactly what you do on a date that makes it great, but how you enjoy the connection you've made. We've all had those amazing conversations with people that last into the wee hours of the morning...maybe not even in person..that leave us feeling energized, understood, and giddy.
A great date is a vehicle to an incredible connection. It lets you know that there's some chemistry behind the mind of the person you're out with. And that first, end-of-the-date, good night kiss? Bam! Hot.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Hmmm. Thought about the big 'D' but decided it wasn't the right decision. Yes, the fam's great. No, the hubby's not exactly happy about my 'side preferences' (his words. :-) And no, there's not much drama about it. I refuse to be a drama queen, that market's already flooded.
What is your fantasy vacation?
MMmmmm...I'd love to go to one of those resorts where you have everything in one spot. Like Sandals. Beach, dining, massages, relaxation, girly drinks...yeah, baby.
I'd also love to go back to Europe. London was great! (Ok, it was their 55 million story bookshops that won me over.) Paris was rude but worth the visit, and the redlight district in Amsterdam was a bust the first time because the tour guides frown on high school girls running into the 'shops' for a slap and tickle. Yes, there is much to do over there...Oh! And I really want to go to Italy. The architecture is magnificent. If there are any fabulously wealthy travelers out there who want to take along an educated playmate, Pick me! Pick me! ;-)
What is your academic background?
A B.S. degree in Criminal Justice. Am planning on starting the M.A. degree within the next year. I'm thinking about business admin, because the future of CJ degrees is dismal. I also plan on learning a few more languages (really need to patch up my Spanish first, though) so I can become one of those overpaid, know-it-all translator/consultants for the government. Travel included. Oh, yes.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
The last official 'vacation' I had was spent cleaning and rearranging my old apartment. It was relaxing, I read a lot. This next vacation I'm going to a B&B on Mackinaw Island.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence and humor. Depth. Empathy. Confidence without arrogance. Positive people. Imagination. Hopefully cynicism hasn't stolen all sense of Wonder. Tolerance.
What do others do that irritate you?
Constant negativity without relief. Degredation of others. Users/Moochers. (No, I'm Not a saint, but I'm trying not to fall too far. ;-)
What do you think is your best quality?
I think my Sparkling Personality is just fabulous, thank you! Ok, really? I'm good at making people laugh and relax. I'm a peacemaker.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I'm working on my abnormally high irritation levels.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
One question? I only get ONE question? Uh, uh! Nope. If you really meant only one question, then why did you give me space for 1900 characters? Ha! Busted.
Hey you. Yes. You. The one reading this amazing profile (and keep reading, it just gets better! ;-D ) tell me what makes you smile, giggle, and just plain laugh out loud.
If you could go back and visit any period in history: when, what, and why?
Ok, last one (for now): How open minded are you about forming a friendship (sure a 'real' one, silly!) that also includes lots of mind blowing girly sex (Oh! She said 'sex!') with the occasional toys, B&D, 'girl' parties, and whatever else we can come up with?
Describe your physique.
I’m kind of a hodgepodge: athletic, yet cushy. I can see most of my muscles under my curves, still a bit thick in the lower parts, but working on it. Overall I'm fairly pleased with my appearance.
What do you do well sexually?
Kissing. What? Oh, yes it is too a sexual thing! Come here and I'll prove it. Kissing is one of the greatest forms of communication. One kiss done correctly can make one wet and begging for more. Ok, I'm not trying to blow my own horn here, but I've gotten enough compliments to know that I'm very good with whatever I do with my mouth. :-)
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I love being kissed on the neck from behind while having my hair grasped firmly and having naughty things I can't see done to me.
I love it when someone can take me firmly in hand instead of having me dominate them. Don't get me wrong, I love to top women, but, being the versatile creature that I am, sometimes I like to Switch.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Maybe I've just read too many of those gloriously naughty 'adult' novels, but I've always wanted to be part of one of those deliciously decadent all female orgies where everyone just goes to town. Picture this: Walls draped in multicolored jewel toned fabric, floor strewn with oversized pillows, the only sources of light coming from several clusters of scented candles, the muted sound of rhythmically beating music drifting through the air. Add the party favors (toys anyone) and a group of sexually charged women, and you've got my idea of an amazing time. Mouths, tongues, lips, open thighs, breasts, backs, and arching bodies all over the place. Yum.
As a lover of women I'm off to a nice start. However, I have yet to experience the joys of toys with another woman. That is something I'd like to rectify as soon as possible. After all, I believe in a very well rounded education! ;-) One of my latest little fantasies is to slap on a strap on (soooo indelicate, I know.) find a nice, soft, willing woman, spread her open and watch her eyes change as I drive her crazy... Excuse me a moment, please. I think I need to go be alone until I relieve the tension... :-D
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
For the longest time, just making love with another woman was my greatest fantasy. I've since had the joy of being with some very lovely ladies.
Another fantasy made real was being tied to the bed, open and unable to prevent whatever was about to happen. I must say that one was a little disappointing - the reason I'd like to get to know people a little before diving right in. I was missing the depth of the other person.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm looking for non-shallow people with more than just sex on their brains. (Oh my God, then what is she doing here!) That way we have something to do/talk about before and after we wear each other out in the bedroom.
Who doesn't want a friend who won't pressure you for a deeply committed relationship while going out, having fun, and get intimate or freaky when the mood strikes?
Free Space. Say anything you want!
It's not easy meeting people with whom you really click. Most times I think it's just in the 'getting started.' Go on, Take a chance. I'd say something like: denying Self Expression is like Self Imprisonment, but that just makes me sound like a hippie...hmm...
Now it's up to you. Don't be afraid...I only bite upon request...except that one time when...um.
Have a Fabulous day, Ladies!
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