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I'm not clever enough to sum up myself in 50 words
I'm a college student majoring in philosophy, and I absolutely love what I'm doing. I love having long intellectual discussions and debates. Like most other guys, I also love sports. I'm a soccer fanatic and play on the club soccer team here at school.
The person I would like to meet
To get it out of the way, I would obviously prefer someone physically attractive, but there's more to what I like than that. When you're in a real relationship with another person, you spend a lot more time talking to them than folling around with them (especially if it starts online), so I like to be with someone I can talk to. I like a girl who is smart, opinionated, honest, and just easy to talk to in general. Also, if you understand my sense of humor, generally like me, or at least display no outward hostility toward me, that's always a plus.
About my work
Technically, I don't "work" right now since I'm a student. I had a few odd jobs growing up and have done things in the summer to make money, but they were mainly just for that: to make money. Hopefully when I finish school, I'll get a dream job that I totally love. Obviously I want to get paid to do the kind of thing that's so amazing and inspiring and fun that I'd dp it for. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like anyone wants to pay me to kick a soccer ball, so I might have to settle for making money.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
My main spare time activity is soccer. I play soccer competitively for my school, and when I'm not at official practices or games, I'm likely practicing by myself, playing a soccer video game, or watching soccer on TV. Still, despite my outward and undying passion for the beautiful game, I have plenty of other interests. I love following politics and having discussions about "real things" like religion, politics, philosophy, economy, etc. I also like to pretend that I'm a good writer, but that causes me as much frustration as enjoyment I think.
My idea of a great date
Despite the fact that I'm a guy, my perfect date actually wouldn't involve us staying in bed the whole night. I would love to go somewhere with my date that's casual and peaceful enough for us to feel free to be ourselves, but still has enough interesting things going on that there is always something to see, do, or talk about. Maybe we'd go to a museum or the zoo or looking at clothes in a second-hand shop. Afterwards, I'd probably want to get some food. Personally, I'd be happy enough to get a booth at McDonalds and eat there, but I think most women prefer something a bit classier, so I'd be willing to upgrade to Taco Bell. Seriously though, it wouldn't matter where we went to eat, it's the company that's important, not the food. After eating, I don't think I'd want to go straight back home; it would be fun to just drive around in the car a bit and listen to some music and talk. Eventually, we'd get back home and hopefully we could go inside for a drink and see what happens from there...
What is your fantasy vacation?
My fantasy vacation has to be travelling around Europe watching soccer. I went to the World Cup in Germany and with my family and absolutely loved it. I can only imagine how great it would be to do a tour of England, France, Scotland, Portugal, Italy, Spain, Germany and Holland going to soccer matches, enjoying the local food and drink, and meeting the people. To do that with my friends would be even better. Every country has it's own style and culture, and I would want to see them all. Plus, everyone in Europe will buy you a drink if you're a Yank that knows anything about soccer.
What is your academic background?
I'm a student at the University of Oklahoma. I'm currently pursuing my undergraduate degree in Philosophy, but I've also taken a lot of physics and Spanish classes. I'll probably go to grad school and try for a bunch of advanced degrees since I want to do anything to keep from having a real 9-to-5 job with a cubicle and boss.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
The last vacation I took was just flying home over Christmas break to spend time with my friends and family. I absolutely loved it; I have an amazing family. We spent the whole time just hanging out, drinking beer, and watching sports on TV at night, and spent the days outside playing soccer. Although I eventually get sick of them, when I'm away at college, it's always great to go back to the hometown, sleep in my house, and spend time with the people i love.
What do you find attractive in people?
Physically, I like a girl with nice curves. I'd rather a girl be a little on the bugger side than too thin. A girl shouldn't be all skin and bones. I think a girl's hair is really important to me... I can't say what it is that I like or dislike about various styles, but there's just something about a girl with amazing hair that I like. Obviously I love a pretty smile and pretty eyes. I know pretty is a vague word, but I don't know how else to describe it.
What do others do that irritate you?
Perhaps a better question is what don't others do that irrittates me? Just kidding. If there's one thing that irritates me the most, it's when people pretend to be something they're not. I know that in our world there are so many pressures for people to act, look, talk, or be a certain way. I struggle with a lot myself, but I always try to but my true self out for the world to see. When other people pretend to be something they're not, it just complicates things too much.
What do you think is your best quality?
I think my best quality is some combination of being smart, opinionated, and honest. I know that there are actually three things in that list. They also might be my three worst qualities. I think they're certainly three of my strongest qualities, so I hope they're good.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I would like to be more socially confident and outgoing. Whenever I'm spending time by myself, I wonder what I'm missing out on that everyone else is doing. I feel like if I approached people more often and "put myself out there" more, I'd have a better idea of what was going on and a wider array of experiences.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
If I could have only one questioned answered, it would be "Are you honest?" I have a feeling that the dishonest people would say they were honest though, and anyone honest enough to admit they were dishonest would have to have a bit of an honest streak.
Describe your physique.
I'm a pretty thin guy. I can't seem to gain weight even if I eat Burger King every day (for the record, I don't). I'm a good athlete, I excersize a ton by playing soccer and running. Despite my athleticism, I don't have a six-pack or really big muscles. I'm probably built more like a distance runner. Also, I'm not particularly tall. I think I'm around 5'7 or 5'8/
What do you do well sexually?
I don't have that much experience, but I've been told I'm a very passionate lover. I don't know how much of a skill it is, but my ex always enjoyed just making out with me while I fingered her. I do that well.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Again, I'm not too experienced, but I've loved everything I've had done to me so far. Handjobs, blowjobs, and just straight up fucking have always been great. I guess it's fun when the girl's on top, because that's less work for me. I like to make love facing my partner so I can see her face and kiss her mouth and tits.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I've always wanted to fuck a girl's tits, but haven't been with anyone who was willing/able to give me a tittyfuck. I also think it would be cool to try a threesome or groupsex sometime just to do it. I go back and forth on those though, depending on my mood. I want to have sex in the shower or outside in the rain sometime.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Having sex with a girl I love was a perfect experience.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm not really sure what I'm looking for. I'd be hapy with a one night stand or to play for a while, but if it turned into something more that that, even better.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I genuinely think I'm a good guy. I like to have fun and joke around, but I can be serious too. I know not everyone is going to like me, but if you take the time to get to know me, I think I'm full of surprises. I still surprise myself pretty often. Also, I said I'm looking for a match in Oklahoma, but I'll have fun talking to anyone from anywhere.
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