Seeking Women: 18 - 50
Santa Fe, New Mexico
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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Hi, would you like to dance with me?
Let me start with this. I've been in the closet for several years now. After realizing how empty my life feels, I've decided I want to find someone to love, or even just to be with someone for a while and get more experience dating other women. I want something long term even if it is just for fun and will never be serious. I am not going to be your fuck for the night and be done with me or call me up for another round months afterwards. Be serious.
I'm still in the closet, and I'm very cautious about what photos I share with others since I worry that people discovering my real orientation could be used to hurt my future.
About myself, ask what you would like to know. I'll be honest as I can, but if I feel like a line is being crossed that I'm not ready for, I will tell you right away and warn you.
The person I would like to meet
I'm looking for someone who is willing to understand that I don't have a lot of experience with dating other women and can look past that. I've had a few relationships, but it just feels like it was never enough.
The things that are most important to me are these.
Kindness and openness, sensuality and intimacy. There's no point being physically attracted to you if I don't like your personality; and I want you to be able to show me that you want me and have no fears about telling me what you want.
I also like smart asses.
I have a certain look that is a huge plus for me. I love black or very very dark brown hair, and I find the gothic look sexy such as dark make up and clothing. Tattoos and piercings are exciting.
You have to be a woman. Not a butch or a soft butch. I'm a woman, and I want to meet another woman. Does that make sense?
About my work
I love my job and all the things it does for others. But I also can't stand some of the seriously conservative and bigoted people who exist in the field.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I enjoy wine tasting, classical music performances, and poetry readings. I play the piano and mix up jazz with classical.
My idea of a great date
I need to get more experience in this. Tell me what you think is a great first date, and I'll tell you what I think.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I've had dreams of going somewhere exotic like east asia. Japan, Vietnam, China?
What is your academic background?
What do you find attractive in people?
Kindness, empathy, a great people person, someone who can read and talk to me like a person.
What do others do that irritate you?
I can't stand those who won't get that I need some privacy. Men who think I'll have sex with them and their girlfriend/wife. I'm gay, why would I want to touch you? Tell your wife to stay in the room, we can talk and see what happens. You on the other hand, go to the bar or get a hotel room, I don't want you nowhere near us for the rest of the night. Then, your wife and I can pretend to fuck on your bed, and leave you jealous and angry you didn't get to join in.
What do you think is your best quality?
I've been told I'm passionate about my work and placing others before me. A few friends told me I was scary to watch when I got into arguments about things I believed in.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Less reserved and fear full of how others might try to hurt me.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
How would you want to romance me. Not how you want to fuck me. I'll make the decision if I want to hear more about that. Tell me about a date, what you want to do with me, how do we dress? I want to hear something romantic.
Describe your physique.
Thin and fit, not very busty, I've also heard I have a cute butt. Cute in a willowy way. I swim often and lift weights to help stay in shape.
What do you do well sexually?
I'm pretty good with my fingers per my ex. Must be those years of playing piano.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Foreplay. Kiss me, touch me, caress me, gently fondle, make me beg for you to keep going further and further.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
To be romanced, a real date out in public and not feel like a million eyes are staring at me. For you to show interest in me, to want me. Can we just dance together for a while? Take me home, give me wine, let's lay on the couch and just kiss for what feels like hours. Maybe even we'll make love on the first date.
I want to be wanted and I want you to make me feel that way.
I'm also curious about having a threesome with two women. I'm not sure how it would work, but part of me gets excited at the idea.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
My first time.
To be another woman's first time.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I want something long term, but playing for a while could be fun. I do not want a one night stand, if all you want is a body for the night, I'm not the one you're looking for.
I'll admit I'm more open to erotic email and chat at this time. If I feel more comfortable with you, or you're the kind of person I want more from, maybe more will happen. Sorry, trust is a must for me.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Please actually read my profile before you e-mail me. If I feel like you didn't pay attention to what I wrote, or if I don't like how you come across, I will let you know and I won't give you a second chance unless you can really do something to convince me otherwise.
Lesbian = (n) A female homosexual
Or in plain english,
I WILL NEVER HAVE SEX WITH YOU EVER!!!
Don't try to send me some crap about your "magic tongue" or your four inch dick you pretend is eight inches. I don't care if it really is twelve inches long and four inches wide. I still won't touch you with any part of my body, and I'm not going to turn straight just this once to experience it. How stupid are you?
What is wrong with some of you men? Misogynistic comments, and Hate A Gay Day support when I tell you I won't sleep with you? Are you really that insecure about yourself?
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