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kinky male looking for a sexy playmate
wow...man I've changed in the last year. Ok so I'm rewriting all of this. I am a submissive male, who lives the lifestyle 24/7 when I have a Dom. Now I do still have regular old vanilla sex for you 'nilla types, lol. I do hate that stereotype. Anyhow. I'm looking for a playmate, plain and simple. Friends with benefits type thing. I'd prefer a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell me. I'm also a very open person who would prefer playmates who are too. Anything else we can talk. I am absolutely terrible at putting myself on e-paper.
The person I would like to meet
I would like to meet someone who knows what she wants, someone who is spontaneous and fun to talk to. I enjoy people that like to try new things. I would prefer you to be local or at least local enough to visit often.
About my work
hmmmm do I have to? LOL what if my job were porn? Would you want me to write a sex novel on here? ROFLMAO...
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Anything really. Movies, computer games, clubbing --- only if I am clubbing with someone gorgeous, though because as cute and strange for the out and open type I am...I become absolutely shy at a club. Weekly and bi weekly lifestyle parties hehehe rock on. Mostly just hanging out with friends, it's the social aspect of life I enjoy. Oh yeah...I love travel. I've been all over the usa, and out of the country once, with huge aspirations to travel the globe multiple times over on a sailing yacht.
My idea of a great date
hmmm. A night in bricktown and some really wild sex.Ok Ok...you want a date or just a fling? If I told you what I did on a date it would take away all the mystery now wouldn't it? It would also take your breath away. I'll tell you one part, it would involve a walk down the canal at night, a kiss in the rain, and a night under the stars. Sappy huh? Oh well I'm a big softie. In reality I don't know what I would do on an actual DATE with you because I cant know until I talk with you what you like, and if you are even the type that can allow for dates in a friends with benefits type relationship.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
so what do I talk about if I'm not. Or maybe if I'm half divorced. Or 1/4 divorced? You know I don't like the term divorced...I prefer maritally challenged american. Ok so I'm being a bit of a smart ass.
What is your fantasy vacation?
the carribbean...or russia...really anywhere but here. I want to purchase an older sailing yacht and fix it up, live on it long enough to save money and then travel the world on it. Hopefully by then I'll have some sexy girl to take with me. *wink*
What is your academic background?
I went to vo-tech for 3 1/2 years for Cisco internetworking.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Kemah Texas and it wasn't supposed to be a vacation really...long story but I ended up staying on a friends yacht with him and his wife for the better part of a week. Cool as fuck man. Cool as fuck.
What do you find attractive in people?
that raw sexuality that seems to radiate from them...you know those people that you can walk up to and without touching or saying anything you feel like they're doing you?
What do others do that irritate you?
it depends on the person...I think I'm fairly hard to irritate, but I do have my hot buttons.
What do you think is your best quality?
I used to have "my mind" here, but I've changed my mind. I think It's my individuality, how unique I truly am and the beautiful outlook I have on life.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
*thinks* *thinks some more* *thinks a whole lot* nothing. I'm very comfortable with who I am.
I think to want to change indicates regret. Regret about oneself. Why would I want to change who I am? I am amazing. If others don't see how truly amazing YOU are then don't worry about it...don't worry about even telling them to fuck themselves, it's not even worth that. Just live life in the happiness of knowing that you are you. I do.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
This sounds bad but...are interested in me or are you wasting my time? I'm not looking for relationships or whatnot. I want fuck buddies and sex friends. Now I can enjoy a little romance with my kink and a little emotion with my sex, but there has to be a seperation. I want those who email me to understand that so not only do you not waste my time, but that I don't waste your time or hurt you. That's the last thing I would want. So I guess what I would want is what kind of relationship are you looking for from me? I can cater to what you want, but I want to know ahead of time, sex, fetish, friends, or something else?
Describe your physique.
look at the picture. Yeah. I promise. really me there.
What do you do well sexually?
I am a good submissive, and have been told I'm quite good at giving oral, and enjoy it quite a bit. If you're bold enough there are many things we can try together. I like roleplaying games, lol...I like kinky sex...I like vanilla sex...I like erotic hypnosis (oooooohhh what is that? find out...it's real fun)
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
hmmm favorite? dunno. Blowjobs are good, if you know what you are doing or can learn. Also I love biting and hickeys when done right, neck, chest...I recently found out that I like my nipples being licked/sucked...ALOT. There are alot of other things I like done but I will leave that for my partner to find out when she meets me. It's just not as fun reading about it as actually finding out about my kinks in the bedroom now is it? Edit/Update: hmmm pretty much the same, but I like a bit of dominance, or to be dominant. I can become dominant easier in bed, somehow I see sex as a more dominant thing.
Edit/Update: so recently I had a friend tell me when I was describing my hard limits to her "colby there's not really anything you won't do" Take that as you may.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Hmmm, I'd love to get one of those remote vibrators and make my woman orgasm while she's ordering at chilis or hanging out in a crowded mall or something....problem is the last one didn't work very well. Sex in any public place would be nice to try. I've come close so know I'd like it but never got there. Backseats of cars don't count either. EDIT EDIT EDIT LOL: I HAVE had sex in a public place now, lol. First in an exhibition room, quite a few times, then got caught having sex in the pool at my apt complex a while back...man those cops had bright lights, lol.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Hmm my partner and I masturbating each other in a public place. I'm an exhibitionist of sorts, but only if my partner is comfortable with it. Group sex. Hell I dunno, I'm kind of in the process of coming up with new ones. My fantasies are more of types of women than anything...my "fantasies" have all been fulfilled. So I guess they would be a black girl and an asian girl. Seems the simpler ones are the only ones left...well unless you get into bdsm. I still haven't done suspension bondage or fire play. Man to get tied up like that *wink*
I have recently been into erotic hypnosis, the idea of experiencing things in hypnosis that are impossible to experience in real life is very erotic to me, or to experience an orgasm at a word, or loss of control...it's all awesome.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm looking for sex, kinky sex, fetishists, those who are interested in experimenting with some of the things I'm into, one night stands, long term sex partners, and those who are able to mix romance or emotion with a strictly sexual relationship without getting attached or burned. There is really a lot to me, even if you're just wanting to get to know me for sex, please take the time to have a conversation with me to find out what I like if you are thinking you might be interested. I enjoy having an idea of what my lover likes when I play with him or her. Just tell me what you're interested in ahead of time, so I can set both your and my expectations.
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you really should be careful what you ask...people might really say anything. lol.
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