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54-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 18 - 50
Schaumburg, Illinois
United States
Last Activity: > 3 months ago

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Full of thoughts. Enter my mind at your own risk.

About myself
Hmmmm a dilemma here. Do I write about who I truly am, or do I get into being who some women really want to meet? They should be one in the same but let's face it, some women just cannot function well without the drama. Do I reveal the truth about myself, that I'm a very honest, confident, funloving soul, and that I treat women well? Or just try to appeal to the masses, with claims of how I'll treat you so badly, wreck your life, dishonor you in front of your family, break your heart many times over? Oh I'll apologize each time but that will be just so you'll come back for more. Isn't that a fun game to play?

Which me do I want represented here? The real me, nice, decent, a freak when need be, someone not just looking to F**K but a sensuous, passionate man who believes in hours of erotic pleasure, looking to truly get to know you as the woman you are? The one who sees women as gifts from heaven? Or the arrogant bastard I could pretend to be who thinks he is a gift from the gods? Surely both are appealing. I think in this case tho, I must stick with honesty. If you feel the need for chaos, disorder, severe drama, mental abuse, or other brutalities at the hand of a guy, please seek out another profile.

For the one or two of you that remained I'd like to introduce myself.( that was a joke, come on now!), HI! I'm Jerry. Lover of life and all that is good in it. Healthy in body and mind. A fun loving outgoing man, creative, adventurseome and always willing to meet someone new. Fun in and out of the bedroom. Always looking for something new to try, whether it's a new Mexican/Thai/Pastrami restaurant that just opened, or a new sexual position you thought of while smoking something you probably shouldn't have, but you did anyway.

The person I would like to meet
You are fun to be with, open minded to trying something new, honest, HONEST...that was HONEST, seems some of you still aren't getting it! You need a sense of humor, a sense for adventure, and please have some sense as to who you are and what you desire in life.

Sexually, pretty much the same, open minded, honest as to what you like/don't like, adventuresome, and it really would be nice if you truly desire hours of pleasure given to you. I am a giver, a pleaser. If you like that, we should get along great!

I do have an age requirement. You should be between the ages of I-won't-go-to-jail-if-we-fool-around and you-aren't-collecting-social-security-yet.

About my work
I am one of the few people you'll meet who can honestly say 'I love my job!' I have always felt a strong spiritual connection between myself and the lyrical beauty of nature. I get to work one on one with trees every day, enjoying the wonderful outdoors. Very little overtime, no weekends.

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Anything that allows me to be outdoors. Fairs, festivals, concerts, beaches, weekend getaways, also have a serious interest in comedy.

My idea of a great date
Well I'm not a dinner and movie guy, I like to put forth something with more creativity. I think a first date should be simple and low key. Now on a first date, I think the emphasis should be on each other being relaxed, just enjoying themselves. I have taken many first dates to Chicago's Botanic Gardens. It is an idyllic setting, and a great place to just wander aimlessly, talking about everything and nothing in particular. Lunch in their outdoor cafe overlooking the pond and the gardens and then a nice dinner later in the evening. After dinner if things are still going well, I love to surprise my dates with something like a carriage ride along Michigan Avenue, or a nice romantic lounge where we can just and talk more in quiet.

If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I'll pass. I'm much more interested in talking with someone in the present than to dwell on the past. Besides when i do meet someone, either from here or via any other means, I think it would be much more interesting, and beneficial, to talk about us.

What is your fantasy vacation?
going back to Italy. would love to see the town where my mother's family is from.

What is your academic background?
My education was interrupted by college. For those of you who might actually be interested, I have an Associates in horticulture. I have a few titles, Plant health Care Specialist ( I diagnose and treat trees for various disorders), Certified arborist, Horticulturalist. I spent most of my adult life dedicated to working with trees, lawns, and plant life.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
It was our honeymoon. It would be hard not to like London. My ex was disappointed tho; she found out that Big Ben was just a clock.

Fantastic city. Great beer! The tubes will take you everywhere you need to go. You lit fans will be glad to know there actually is a 221 B Baker street, and here you will find The Sherlock Holmes Museum. Just down the street and around the corner is Harrods, the famous Dept. store. For a real treat take the midnight tour of the west end where the Jack The Ripper murders occured.

What do you find attractive in people?
Attitudes and behaviors go over way better than boobs, butts, and pretty faces. I am allergic to negative energy. Be fun, silly, adventurous, outgoing, and we'll get along fine!

Please, love to smile and laugh! Be creative, in and out of the bedroom. Most importantly, be honest! It isn't really alll that hard. As for physical appearance I am not shallow in any way. your body size is just that..the size of your body. Should it matter? it doesn't to me. Just be clean. Have good hygeine, clean clothes, and we'll be fine.

What do others do that irritate you?
HUH?? I am supposed to let others choose my feelings? Guess I missed something here. If you don't mind, I'll be the one in control of my feelings. I wouldn't want to burden anyone with that responsibility.

Certain behaviors don't irritate me, as I choose to not allow that, but sometimes the things I see folks doing, well I feel sad for them, knowing they can be doing so much better for themselves and for others. Mostly I try to understand certain attitudes and actions, and take great care so as not to ever judge anyone.

What do you think is your best quality?
Honesty, sense of humor, Spiritual in nature. Very loving!

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I have made several changes already. I deleted almost everything negative; anger, resentment, jealousy, and all negative thoughts, and replaced them with peace, tranquility, harmony, and love. I am on a diffferent path than I once was. The changes have been made. Now it is just a matter of maintaining them.

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
You are in the market for another car. At the dealership you see 2 next to each other. . A BMW and A Pontiac. You OHH and AHH over the BMW but you kinda find the Pontiac too average. You decide to have a look under the hood. On the BMW, you see a rusted engine, never been properly cared for, all the fluids leaking from small holes, and it is a much smaller engine than you were hoping the Beamer would have. But the fact remains, it is after all, a BMW.
The Pontiac, you discover, has a beautiful shiny new engine that you know will give you several years of reliable driving pleasure. But after all, it is just a Pontiac.

So the question is...which one do you drive home? The Beauty with nothing inside, or the Average Joe with lots to offer inside?

Describe your physique.
Man's body. Oh specifically? OK at 45 I am in excellent health and shape. Workout at a health club, eat well, and noone realizes I'm in my 40's. Most folks guess 35-40. I am tall, 6'2", 195 lbs, not overly muscular, but strong enough to hold you when you need a good hug. Deep blue eyes, full head of dark brown hair, with some silver highlights, no facial hair, and a great smile. It gets used a lot!

What do you do well sexually?
I Truly get to know my partner, so I am completely in tune with what she likes and doesn't like. I keep an open mind on trying new things so my partner and I won't get bored with the same old thing.
I realize I am with a woman, not a hunk of meat or some object. I am also not with body PARTS but with a body belonging to to a whole and complete woman. The goal isn't to satisfy any part but the whole.

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Few things turn me on more than when a woman allows me to pleasure her for hours. Giving me the time to carress every inch of her, kiss and lick her from her head to her toes, allowing me to lick her to many orgasms, is about the greatest pleasure I can receive.

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I hear puberty is kinda cool! I tried most things, can't think of anything unfulfilled at this time. O I suppose there is my bondage with blindfold fantasy..ask for details

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
See above. Sex in: dressing rooms, subway car, strip club, outdoors ( the zoo; on a picnic table), forest preserve, had a threesome with 2 women, drank champaigne off a woman's body New Years Eve, what can say? I'm a trysexual..I'll try anything!

Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No, but I do have Hearing Aids. I got by Listening to too many Assholes!!

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I am looking for friendship and fun first and foremost. That is true friendship, and fun in and out of the bedroom. I am open to something long term. I have had one night stands, they're ok for a quick fix but prefer something ongoing. I'm also open to meeting women who are married and bored at home.

Free Space. Say anything you want!
Well as you guessed by now I'm looking for someone who loves to laugh and have a good time. If that's you please say hi. thanks! J.

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