Seeking Women: 32 - 65
Hot Springs National Park, Arkansas
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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Do you want a mature confident man?
I love sex and love learning about it. I figured out how to make a woman squirt and love it when she does. I also love intelligence in a working brain. Looks help, but the working brain seals the deal. Separated from my wife of 37 years, I'm straight and non-monogamous. She knew that when we married and we lasted all of those years. I'm faithful to my partners, will never lie to them or intentionally harm them in any way. I love having a woman's legs on my shoulders with her thighs on each side of my face. I love snuggling and talking while watching tv, a movie at home, or listening to music. I love to cook good meals for my ladies. I love taking mutual baths or showers and helping her wash and dry, everywhere.
The person I would like to meet
No smokers. No one under thirty and no one who can't post a picture or send me one. I don't enjoy the odor of cigarette smoke at all, nor its taste. I want maturity, a degree of independence, and the ability to stand up for herself as woman and thinking human. I want a woman of some femininity who can bait her own hook should we go fishing. I want her to be able to discuss more than movies, TV, politics, children, etc. I'm all about ideas. Discussion of things and people drives me around the corner. I want to know women who can discuss ideas--big ones. Spirituality is a big thing too. She can have her own interests, just can't expect me to get thrilled about them if they are largely disparate from mine. Honest and truthfulness are of the most importance as well as being trustworthy. And I want someone who has few to no compunctions in the bedroom.
About my work
I'm retired from a lot of different kinds of work, mostly for myself. I'm presently writing, having just finished a novel which is being looked at by an agent. Having written for more than thirty years, I've sold some short stories but nothing as long and complicated as a novel. Writing is a real drag sometimes. And sometimes it is so exciting. I never know what is going to come off of the tips of my fingers when I sit to tell a story. I never know what the characters are going to do. I just see the story and try to record it, like a cameraman shooting a take. I hate the daily grind, as most people refer to work, because that's what it is. If one creates his own work, he creates his own happiness. I'm into that. Working just for working is ridiculous to me, but not if it's what you have to do to survive. If you're not doing what you like, then you're doing something wrong. And you need to correct the situation.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I have no hobbies. I consider them time fillers and I can take care of that with my writing, using the computer, and meditation. I have things I do, though I'm not occupied all of the time. I think a lot and write for a number of blogs I have. I talk to people all over the world via the Internet and speak Spanish with folks from all over Latin America. Having lived in Mexico, it's one of the ways I manage to keep my skills somewhat polished. I love to travel, learn other languages and about other societies. I love to learn, period. And eating out is of major importance in my life, good food though.
My idea of a great date
A great date is one where the chemistry makes you tingle all over, makes you happy you're with the person you're out with, and it leaves you expecting the and dreaming of the next time you can get together as well as how soon.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I've been divorced and remarried. My first marriage lasted five or six years and the second one is ongoing after 35 years. It's an open marriage because I told my wife-to-be that I wasn't monogamous and couldn't marry her if she couldn't accept that. Obviously, she accepted it and we're still together. The first marriage broke up because we weren't in the slightest suited for each other and I did many things incorrectly.
What is your fantasy vacation?
My fantasy vacation is to travel the world for the rest of my life, teaching what I know of spirituality and learning another ten languages at least.
What is your academic background?
I have two associate degrees, one in liberal arts and one in general studies with an emphasis in computer tech.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
In Mexico in 1987 and 1988. Loved it, loved it, loved it.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence, a working brain, good manners, organized speech and thought, cleanliness, reasonably clean speech, and lack of any kind of bigotry.
What do others do that irritate you?
Self-imposed bigotry and ignorance are my biggest peeves. Next are disregard for and rudeness to others.
What do you think is your best quality?
I'm a listener. I give excellent advice. I truly am spiritual without trying to shove it down anyone's throat. I live and let live. I am not impressed with myself. (More than one quality it seems.)
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
My lack of patience and understanding. (Two things.)
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What about me interests you?
Describe your physique.
I'm fat, weighing 300 pounds, 5 feet 11 inches tall, have a fifty-two-inch chest and a fifty-four-inch belly along with triple x shoulders.
What do you do well sexually?
I know how to make a woman cum repeatedly.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I love oral, both give and take.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Two women at the same time. A very young woman I can teach to know what really good sex is.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Ask me and I'll tell you.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Yes. I'm open to all.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I'm a very loving and giving partner. I'm almost too nice. If you want a bad boy, you're either going to have to teach how to be one or you'll need to look for someone else.
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