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Happily married, but unhappily celibate
I'm married to a wonderful woman that I adore, and have been blessed with a houseful of wonderful kids. I count myself an extremely lucky man. Nevertheless, I can't convince my wife to have sex with me. I've tried everything short of an ultimatum to convince her to get help, but she insists that there is nothing wrong, she's just stressed. This has gone on for years and I'm fearful that I'm losing my chance to explore my sexuality. I've finally reached the point where I feel I have to do something. I could never leave my wife or my kids, so it seems my only option is to initiate an affair.
I don't want to cheat on my wife, but sex is one of the the most fulfilling and satisfying human experiences I've had -- I can't just stop! I adore the feminine form and find that I have a strong spiritual need to join with it. I can't stand the thought of just giving this up while I wait to grow old and disinterested.
Sorry for not posting a picture, but I would be happy to provide a face-shot once I'm sure I do not know you.
The person I would like to meet
I'm hoping to start an email conversation that could lead to something more. I'm not interested in doing this if there is no chemistry, but that's the danger, isn't it? It needs to be clear -- this has to remain NSA. One-night stands or repeated encounters are all fine with me, but due to my living situation, I need someone who is willing to be flexible and creative when arranging dates.
About my work
Hmmm, I'm trying to be discreet, so I don't want to say too much about myself. I can say that my work is very fun, and that it has taken me years of school (even after sticking it out through college) to get where I am.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I'm a musician, and if I had my way I would be playing music about 4 times more than I currently get to. I also do a bunch of cheap, dorky stuff for fun -- ask me about it if you're curious.
My idea of a great date
All I care about is simply being able to hold a stimulating conversation about shared interests. Everything else gets in the way. Perhaps over some coffee.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Somewhere I can spend the entire time in warm, animal-infested tropical seas.
What is your academic background?
My doctorate is in ecology
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Hawaii. Yes. I was there for a conference, but I did find time to snorkel and surf.
What do you find attractive in people?
Openness, calm self-confidence, empathy
What do others do that irritate you?
Think their shit don't stink.
What do you think is your best quality?
Intelligence and sense of humor. I enjoy enjoyment.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I'm pretty damn scatterbrained.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What is it that drives you want sex? What's so special about it?
Describe your physique.
I used to be pretty athletic, but have little time for the sorts of activities I used to do -- it's starting to show.
What do you do well sexually?
Gads, it's been so long since I've been challenged. May not be the answer that is expected, but I'm good at savoring sex. I know what I like, I know what gets me off, and I know how to enjoy the whole process.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I love fellatio, and hip gyration/grinding. I haven't done it before, but I would like to try assplay, both ways.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I suppose the assplay fits here, although I don't really like the concept of fantasy. Straight, mundane fucking is the most all-encompassing satisfaction I think I will ever need.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I did have a blow job on a train in Southern France. That was pretty fun.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nope (been married for 10 years).
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm open to anything, as long as it doesn't interfere with my family life. I should say that I think I would enjoy something a little more involved than a 1-night stand. I don't think the sex will be very fun if I don't truly know and like my partner.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I haven't actually done this before, so I don't know how it might work or come together -- both logistically and emotionally. I just know that sex is far to wonderful a gift to let dry up and blow away.
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