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I am 40 years old guy that enjoys meeting new female friends. I work for myself currently in sales and education, so I ask for discretion, since family and the work environment are not as understanding. I also love to travel, have a nice digital camera, and I have a great imagination when it comes to adult fun. I have an extremely high sex drive and stamina.
The person I would like to meet
I like to meet nice, goal-oriented people that are working, drive themselves, have their own housing arrangements. I value honesty...deception is when people get hurt. I don't ask to know to control- it just helps avoid difficult situations. I also don't like jealous types. Nonsmokers or light smokers are a plus in my book. Being low key or at least able to communicate to avoid dramatic situations a big plus(long story). Most people that I have met are clean, have good hygiene, have some college, and enjoy and are able to have conversations relatively easily. Being openminded toward adult sexual arrangements is a big plus...that could include adult toys for big boys and girls, bisexual females, sleeping arrangements, etc.
About my work
I used to work a lot more, but I have lately been taking off more time to travel(Indiana/Chicago/Pennsylvania/Kentucky) I usually get up about 4 am, log on to my computer to update my emails, write a little(oh- I am working on being a published writer), eat breakfast, shower/shave/brush teeth, dress, head out the door. I use computers to do some of my marketing work, but there is still an outside sales proponent...meaning I could be making cold calls which sometimes sucks...but that is about it. I get home...chill for about an hour...eat some dinner...then get back to writing my work...I am also into erotic literature...surprising...huh?
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Digital photography is one of my biggest thrills right now...I have done some art shows with some of my work. I have a history in the arts...I can relate to theater types, roadies, musicians, the usual riff raff.....(joking) I love live music...classical, jazz, and rock and roll are the major part of that. I have also gone to some dance things...I love the pure raw beauty of the ladies in ballet...great physiques and flexibility....I love to explore the national parks, state parks, historical sites as well. I am a big history buff...especially when it comes to battle fields. I also play a computer game or two when I get a chance.
My idea of a great date
I like low key first meetings, until we start to develop some chemistry. I love coffee shops..because they are on every corner, people do business every day there, and they also aren't really that expensive. I like low key with no expectations...I mean let's face it sometimes we find out there are people that we know we won't get along with....I love dates that the conversation is easy...we don't have difficulty talking....and sometimes it leads to better things.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Expectations...my ex wife didn't want to tell me the truth..which led to some pretty disastrous run-ins with family members...I would prefer the truth from the outset.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I would love to be in some Caribbean island where I could go clothesless for about a week or two; add to that maybe a soulmate or two....hmmmm.
What is your academic background?
My bachelors is in a social science, but I have enough credits to be a school teacher as well. I am working toward being an English teacher, if nothing else to help teach ESL classes. I also have computer networking/programming coursework.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
My last vacation was in Louisville, Kentucky. I liked parts of it, the hotel was nice, but the area was limited. I like big city downtowns like Indianapolis or Chicago.
What do you find attractive in people?
I love to hear people laughing and enjoying themselves. Whenever I am dating someone, I always love to see a smile or a twinkle in her eye.
What do others do that irritate you?
I dislike strongly the real agressive pushy almost bullying guy that has to always tell everyone in the group what they are going to be doing next or maybe tries to break up people in healthy relationships. The guy that stands in line at starbucks talking to the cashier for an hour...don't get between me and my cup of coffee....lol.
What do you think is your best quality?
I am the easygoing person that most people find relaxing. I like to solve problems, sometimes working with the team approach...sometimes outside of the box. I am a good listener without judging or condemning...and I can offer an unbiased opinion most of the time(don't get me started on the Fort Hood incident)
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Procrastination...I hate to get reports in on time....lol.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Describe the perfect situation(outcome) in your using this website? Rephrasing that: what is the perfect arrangement you see happening and what is it that you need to make that happen?
Describe your physique.
I am professional, like to dress up in dockers and tie/dress shirts occasionally a little more. I am also comfortable in jeans and sweats. I am tall but I am also muscular- think football player. I like to keep my brown/ dishwater blonde hair short. I sometimes have a goatee or moustache. I wear glasses or contacts.I am tall, big-boned, and somewhat muscular. I used to run quite a bit when I was younger, so I still have nice legs with defined muscles(quadriceps and calves) I am muscular but I am not a skinny guy...I have a big core...so I am built solidly like a football player(defensive).
What do you do well sexually?
I will do most things to please....I have a gifted tongue that is slightly longer than most....
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Waking up with a girlfriend that sucks my cock so that she can ride me the rest of the morning. Second best is a girl sandwich in the shower...me in the middle of two sexy blondes with swedish names.....
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
maybe some role play, bondage, I want to be the dom with a dungeon of women...lol. I would love to have a house full of four or five professional ladies that all wanted to be part of a big juicy pile on the bed.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Threesome with two other females, sex in an elevator, sex under a waterfall
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I am always open to one night stands- I love the excitement of meeting someone new and the new sights/feeling you get.I am not much on the risk taker, though, so I don't take a lot of chances. I lean toward a friends with benefits arrangement...possibly long term just to satisfy unmet needs. I would love to have a sanctuary or house where bifemales could feel safe to drop by...and without any pressure have a place they could explore their sexuality...maybe letting me in on the fun once in a while.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I don't want to meet people that are trying to break up relationships...you can have friendships outside the relationship that can make it stronger...but honesty is the best way of dealing with things.
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