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Learning to live again
My wife of 13 years,is bailing.Recent events have caused me to consider exploring this new "life" 1st my wife has deceided that she "may not want to be married" what ever that means.As of 12/10/07 She wants a divorce asap? why? Her reason is she just wants to be free. ( I cannot make this up) It is to bizzare even for me.A month ago we were heading that way but not in a hurry . know where to go from here. I have been a bit clueless, for a long time but now hell this whole thing is new to me. I guess now I really am a newbie at this.
The person I would like to meet
A lady who can explain the above. like to explore, but start slowly. I am not looking for a regular thing Nor am I ready for a long term yet. I miss intimacy more than the deed for now. I am interested in a if we can meet and if it works ok if not then we can always chat or IM. I have tried to be as open and honest as possible with this profile. I figure that if we do meet a good starting point is being honest, I would hope you would be like minded.
About my work
I really enjoy work. It gives me a sense of balance. I am a mechanic in the hospitality trade. I enjoy fixing things Work sort of defines a part of me. Seeing something not working all of a sudden work is pretty cool. Hard part is everyone thinks there problem is an emergency.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Read, get on line learning what a blog is. I fish with my boys, and play board games. I enjoy walking, listening to music, ( sorry but i am a country music fan.)
A hobby i use to do long time ago was small models, my boys have expressed an intrest in building those Fast gas powered model cars,, sounds like a lot of fun..
My idea of a great date
I have not dated for 13 years now. I think date at this point is the wrong word. I don't know the rules any more. But I would settle and be grateful for a cup of coffee and conversation. Hopefully that still happens,
But a really cool date down the road might be A nice dinner not super fancy but nice, maybe a bit of a walk by the water? ok not in the winter but you get the idea, everything else will take it's course,
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Happening as we speak. I cannot control that part of it. I have not cheated to this point in my marriage. I am not sure about much else at this point. I guess that is why we have IM. According to my wife it it going to happen wether I like it or not. She needs her freedom.?
I have kinda updated this as I go along, so I can say that getting a divorce is not the worse thing. I spend a lot of time now trying to keep my boys from being mad at mom. My youngest 12 and I still went out and spent a small fortune on mom. It may be the last year I spend that much on mom, but it sure did make him happy.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I enjoy the White Mountains, always have always will, Central Maine has always been good to me as well, I also have spent a lot of quality time in Arkansas,
since the question is fantasy vacation Hmmm.. I have never been a Tuscany type of guy.. More like the Tucson type.
I have a couple of them. First if alone or with my boys, White water rafting - and a serious helping of hunting down in Arkansas.
if with some one and she does not like water or hunting than I guess we will make one, there is a lot of this country i would love to see. Donner's Pass-- Montana---pike's peak, Just being outdoo
What is your academic background?
Assoc in Engineering. Currently working on my HVAC Ceritfcation
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Maine and I loved it!
Also went to Arkansas this past fall for a deer hunt with my dad, saw family have not seen in years.
What do you find attractive in people?
smile, eyes, laughter, easygoing, A GIRL NAMED (SHE kNOW) AS EASYGOING AS I HAVE EVER SEEN. THAT HAS A SMILE AND A LAUGH THAT WARMS THE COUCLES OF MY HEART
What do others do that irritate you?
full of self, know it all, do not tell me how great you are let me find out for my self.
What do you think is your best quality?
listening to others. I always seem to be there for close friends
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
as a rule I have two modes:
let it roll
or get mad. I would like to roll a bit more
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
I have no clue. At this point my question would be
HuH??? what the hell just happened. lol. If we meet would you be honest, I guess.
Describe your physique.
Average I am carring a couple of extra pounds hardly fat though, I work hard for a living so hands are bit hard.
What do you do well sexually?
I really do not know any more. What the hell is sex ? Whatever she lets me do. It is own her time not mine
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
not sure any more. I think that is why I have set my profile as I have.
INTIMACY is the best way to start
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Most of them. isn't that the point of a fantasy? but That whole female domination thing sounds kinda cool.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
candle wax, small plug, clamps (nipple)
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
HELL NO, I dont even have dandruff. LOL
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I do not think a one night stand would benift anyone. play first, learn, grow, then we will see.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I do not really know what it is I want. The only exception to that would be I am a bit tired and I miss being intimate.
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