Seeking Women: 40 - 65
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A smile, a warm touch, an open hand
Many ladies over 40 don't want a man complicating their lives. They would like someone to make them feel wonderful. I may be able to help. I am experienced, toned, can make a lady comfortable, wanted, satisfy her needs and leave without baggage. I love classical music and the arts, can talk in detail about literature, and I can make a lady laugh. My appearance is pleasant and my physique is exceptional. I'd like to help fill an empty spot in a lady's life, especially a widowed or divorced lady who doesn't have a man in her life and doesn't want that part of her to die. I work in the media, 60 hours a week, so my free time is limited. I like to really live in my time off. Making a woman feel really alive brings me great satisfaction. I don't want to cause a partner any pain. I want her to remember how she can feel, with great satisfaction, so she can enter any relationship with confidence.
The person I would like to meet
Older ladies (kids under 40 can find matches easy). I don't need to know more about a lady than what she needs to feel wonderful.
About my work
I write news and interviews daily and meet deadlines. There is always more work to do. I like feeling needed but not being eaten alive. I love discovery and try to constantly learn new things. I live in a spotlight. Posting a photo here could get me fired.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I collect cartoons, classical music and opera phonograph records, go to the theater. I try to repair phonographs as an exercise in logic and dexterity. I exercise to stay fit and can enjoy physical activities with a partner.
My idea of a great date
A trip to the theater or a pleasant afternoon in someone's home drinking tea, telling stories and getting close.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
My first wife drank too much and liked to pick fights. I am not looking at developing a relationship here, only to strengthen others to feel good about themselves so they can pursue whatever relationship they want.
What is your fantasy vacation?
A week in an opera house or a trip to a distant location.
What is your academic background?
Bachelor of arts. I believe in being very broadly educated.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
I only tend to get a weekend off at a time. A trip to the Scott Joplin Ragtime Festival in Sedalia is a must every year. Last real vacation was a week in New York City on a tour with tickets to the Metropolitan Opera.
What do you find attractive in people?
A good sense of humor. A willingness to let down defenses and trust someone. An engaging intellect and quick wit. A desire to help others. Assertiveness and a willingness to speak one's mind.
What do others do that irritate you?
Being too demanding. Vindictiveness. Being close minded, especially about other people's differences (religion, background). Just plain stupidity. Not being responsible (I try to live by the motto: He who fucks it up should fix it up--clean up your own messes).
What do you think is your best quality?
An engaging intellect.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I end up committing to too many things at the same time.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What could I do that would make you feel good about yourself and about living?
Describe your physique.
Toned. Nicely muscled. Good abs. Smooth skin. Shaved chest and below the waist. I wish my chest was wider but I've beefed up my muscles to make up for it. I have a little extra at the side of my waist which my doctor says is more a factor of being a man of my age than flab. I have a posture issue and don't throw my shoulders back like I should, but my balance point seems to tell me I'm standing straight when I'm not. I've done Bosley so I have nice dark brown hair on top of my head. I don't like facial hair and don't want to scratch a lady.
What do you do well sexually?
I touch and I look for ways to touch that brings satisfaction. I'm a bit more well endowed than the average man. I've willing to take supplements like Viagra to keep going and provide whatever satisfaction a lady needs. I think I'm flexible and adventurous. I think anal sex is stupid. I don't want to do anything that causes pain.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Touching. Going slow and continuously. I don't want to end things too quickly. I can go for hours, depending on my partner's needs and desires, once I get my plumbing on the right wavelength.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Meeting new people and body types.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
My first wife was a smaller lady whose clitoris was stimulated with simple intercourse. I love giving a woman rolling orgasms. Ladies who are screamers are very exciting to me.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
The first time I had sex (when I was in my 20s) I had to get treated for something; never really knew what. I want to be very safe now and believe in condoms. As much as I love to give oral sex, I still want to be very careful.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I am looking for a weekend afternoon or possibly longer. Overnight is unlikely. I am open to seeing the same lady many times and developing a friendship as well as giving her what she needs.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I feel I have a big heart and want to care about more than one lady. So many ladies are widows and divorced, without men in their lives. They seem perfectly comfortable living alone and never exploring relationships ever again. For ladies who still want to know the thrill of being touched and kissed, who want their freedom and the joy of knowing what people with a nice man--not a creep or a bully or a physical slug at middle age--I may be able to help. A lady may have a husband she loves very much who does not touch her anymore, or cannot touch her the way he once did because of health concerns, yet she still wants to feel like a woman. I believe the French culture, where a man can be involved with more than one woman, is natural and good. With older women outnumbering older men, it is important that good man take care of ladies with needs as best we can. My free time is limited so I cannot be available without careful planning. I like caution on both sides, meeting openly and not rushing. My greatest desire is to leave a memory that one can retrieve late at night and brings a smile and maybe a warm feeling before drifting off to sleep.
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