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Seize the day!
I'm adventurous, curious, and love to explore new places and try new things. While I appreciate routine, doing the same things day after day wearies me.
I'm also super-smart. That's not bragging - just a fact - so for those of you with inferiority complexes I'm probably not the right guy for you 'cause I like to talk about a lot of things and I really like to get feedback from whomever I'm talking to - not just agreement. I'm happiest when I'm being proven wrong but can't abide close-mindedness because all that's important is truth - not who's right and who's wrong.
I guess what I'm trying to say is I have a healthy appreciation for reality.
The person I would like to meet
Someone fun! Ethical - but not stuck up. Intelligence is a good thing. Grounded in reality. Open-minded.
Here's a subjective one - attractive.
About my work
I'm currently retraining as an IT specialist. I was in web development up until this year but the market is shifting and network engineers are in high demand.
I value work insofar as it has social and fiduciary utility. I also value my time with those I love (family and friends). If work treats me right then I'll put in extra hours but I'm generally pretty good at maintaining a healthy balance. I really like being busy - and hate waiting on resources from clients or colleagues.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I love to exercise, play sports, electronic gaming, sing, dance, play piano, read, and go for long walks.
My idea of a great date
A game of tennis or badminton, followed by a sexy shower.
A night out at the movies or theater and a lot of talk afterwards - Kissing would be nice.
Window shopping at one of those trendy places downtown tucked behind the hustle and bustle.
Trying something new and laughing all the while.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
It wasn't a match. I tried to make it work - she didn't. No anger here.....
What is your fantasy vacation?
You shouldn't have to escape from life. That said it would probably be to the beach for swimming and tanning. Or a get-away to one of those exotic locales out east but there's so much upheaval right now in the world that I think I'd wait on that until it calms down.
Cruises are always good.
What is your academic background?
4 years of college; double major in Computer Science and English Composition. Currently taking some courses and certifications related to network engineering.
I'm very well read as well so I'm always learning new things.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Don't even go there.
What do you find attractive in people?
I like to see a positive, can-do, attitude. Good grooming is important but don't drive yourself crazy over it. Affectionate and considerate.
What do others do that irritate you?
I hate it when people blame others for their problems. Not everyone has it easy but I've known many exceptional people in my life who've scrambled for every opportunity and made them count.
I also really dislike ingrates. I get that most people probably feel the same way but I was always raised to give thanks where thanks are due and to always pay back a favor.
What do you think is your best quality?
My attitude - I'm incredibly caring, compassionate and altruistic. I'm the guy who will step up and go to bat for a friend and go the extra mile to help those in need.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
My attitude - Sometimes I'm too selfless and I spread myself too thin and try to bear too much of others' burdens. A smidgen of selfishness is both healthy and necessary.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
I want to know what their expectations are.
Describe your physique.
Fit. Still got about 5-10 more pounds to shed before I'm happy and could use a bit more toning but in general I like what I see and think you will too.
What do you do well sexually?
Oooooo..... let me show you.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Where to start..... kissing really turns me on. Of course so do so many other wonderful things we could be doing right now.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I don't rightly know. Threesomes, bisexual encounters, ummm......you get the picture.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No. Not interested in getting any either.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I don't know. Play it by ear see what works.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Hopefully you've got an inkling of who I am. Truth be told, I was one of those weird guys who didn't have sex until I got married - and I'm now separated, which is quite liberating, and quite horny - so there's a lot of kinky stuff out there that I have no inkling of. I'm open to learning.
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