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Hearts, minds, the distand future
Happy new year to all of us. It’s time for a new beginning. If you are looking to touch and be touched across the spectrum of life’s many beautiful facets then let’s communicate. Visual is the usual starting point, esthetics are subjective yet important, yet we all understand there is the beauty of heart and intellect, common beliefs and preferences and without those physical beauty will fade. The more we like someone, the cuter they are. Would you find it trite if I said kindness and generosity with one’s time and attention, generosity with one’s heart and future are the foundation for the type of relationship I seek? Playboy bunny bodies are beautiful, but without heart and soul to animate that beautiful body, only sadness, or perhaps loneliness confused as togetherness will ensue. Have we become so preoccupied with finding perfection in a mate that we’ve stopped trying to achieve in within ourselves? (OK, I confess!) Back to the second sentence in this rambling. And the third. I tend to be attracted to slender libidinous adventurous co-conspirator types with a sense of ethics and kindness, but not floormats, or is that door mats? We have an inner strength that sustains us and allows us to go it alone until we find that person we will be proud and happy to hold hands with on our eighties. One day long ago, I was at the family cabin, and upon awakening, I realized I was out of coffee (gasp) so I walked up the hill to the neighbors to borrow a few scoops of that life sustaining commodity, and as I crossed into their backyard, I say them sitting on the back porch, a retired couple in their late seventies, yet there they were, she sitting in his lap, each with a cup of coffee in hand, watching the sunrise. Oblivious me, I climbed the steps to the porch, announcing my plight, and Floyd said, use that side door, it’s in the cupboard just above the coffee maker.
The person I would like to meet
I get the coffee, and head back down the hill to get my caffeine fix when my knees went weak with the realization that Floyd and Nelly (yes, their actual names) were making love in that rocking chair, and unapologetically, and I just smiled, envious, and thought to myself, right on!
Anybody know of a good place that sells rocking chairs? Shall we plan that far ahead?
About my work
I’m self-employed and I love my business but I’m not in love with it, it gets the money to do things away from my work, and that’s the way I want it.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
My idea of a great date
instant first attraction, we laugh easily together, finish each other's sentences.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
it ended. best thing that ever happened to me.
Now I can move on into a true relationship. this is a funny site to say that, but, you have the "next profile" button if you dont like what I have to say.
What is your fantasy vacation?
a five day train trip, our own sleeper cabin, make love with the window open, lay together at 65 miles an hour.
What is your academic background?
little bit of college, been self employed most of my life, so, got educated the hard way
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
7 day cruise. Warm water snorkeling, it was a blast.
What do you find attractive in people?
out front honesty, delivered with no "make wrong".
A woman that forgives easily, kisses slowly, loves completely
What do you think is your best quality?
Im picky, not stupid, and I understand that a womans smile, and heart are gifts to be respected, enjoyed, and reciprocated. Early and often!!
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
are you emotionally available as well as physically available to enter into something?
Describe your physique.
6 ft tall, slender, used to be buff, from work, not the gym. At 57 gravity has taken effect
What do you do well sexually?
That's not for me to say, it's for you to decide.
I'm a good student, teach me to please you, and I will.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
we'll talk more when we talk, about this
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
start anywhere in the list, build it from there
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Anything you want.
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