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f14tomcat
54-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 24 - 58
Shingle Springs, California
United States
Last Activity: > 3 months ago

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Simply Hello and a smile...

About myself
I am corporate webmaster for a technology company and love to spend time in the outdoors whenever I can get away from work. I do love travel and riding chase support for motorcycle groups at my company. Enjoy my 2005 Mustang and am having the time of my life driving my new pony ;>) I do have a good sense of humor and love classic movies like Young Frankenstein, The Holy Grail, etc... Read quite a bit, and also love walking and camping...

What I'm looking for in a woman: Above average, even extraordinary, not motivated by things that are in the physical, but based on a quality of exchange and equality of mind, body, and spirit.

The person I would like to meet
A woman who wants to be held, loves being caressed, enjoys good sex, and finds slow stimulation of mind, spirit, and finally body to be the ultimate ecstasy.

She needs to be forgiving, have a wonderful sense of humor, kinky, and naughty with a streak of nice.

Her style is casual, her look soft but severe, her mind sharp, but emotions soft with a swell...

She needs to be progressive, aggressive, but sensitive and kind. Her life is based on passion, her spirit on grace, and her body a temple of pleasure.

If you are this woman, then I am interested in knowing more about you.

About my work
Research and development scientist for a high-technology company.

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I enjoy being on or near the water. Love reading, writing, travel. Recently took up photography and am having a great time doing nature photography.

I love anything to do with psychic and anything with ghosts! Yes, I get a charge out of metaphysics!

Of course, I like spending time with exceptional women too ;>)

My idea of a great date
Something easygoing where it provides each person with a possible escape route in case things go south in a hurry - LOL - Actually, that isn't a bad option!

In all seriousness, I'd take her to a comedy club and a nice dinner... I'd be a gentleman and put her at ease while letting the chemistry work it's magic. Not every date goes well, but it just makes sense to take things slow and just be yourself. If she likes you, she likes you. If not, well it was a nice time and your journey goes on!

If in the spring, I like getting out and hitting the stores, especially in old towns like Folsom or going out to mountain towns like Placerville where you can find all sorts of interesting things... Picnics rate high too! It just depends on the moment of planning and how both of us click at the time!

If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Divorced - I am way over all that - glad to be who I am now and learned from it and have moved on in grace.

What is your fantasy vacation?
I have no fantasies except that I live them now. Vacations are a product of the mind and intent - can be had anywhere at any time, or can be an amazing event in some cool location and such - what am I saying? That the fantasy is often less than the reality and is a product of imagination and intent <lol>...

What is your academic background?
Bachelor's degree in Information Technology. In two years, I'm going back for a PhD.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
I like ALL vacations and I take them frequently - I enjoyed my 2 day hiking trip recently - loved the panorama of the mountains and sounds of nature around me.

Heading out on our fourth major bike run with me providing chase support in July 2008 for a multi-state Western run. Looking for woman as shotgun rider and perhaps more for the trip ;>)

What do you find attractive in people?
Authenticity and directness of what they want and an inner knowing of where they are going - and not looking to me to decide for them (or others to do that either). I don't take control of other people's realities. I've got my hands full with my own <lol>

On the other hand... I don't mind being a leader... It seems to be one of those things that repeatedly ends up as my responsibility as I go along... I rather do like the responsibility and caring that go with leadership...

What do others do that irritate you?
Place their power in my lap and then blame me for their failures. I dump it right back in their wah and exit after signs of such weakness continue over time...

If the person takes personal responsibility for this sort of thing, then that is a good sign that he/she recognizes she blew it, but if this is something that happens more than once, then it is a sign of deeper issues.

What do you think is your best quality?
Directness, Inner knowing of my wants, desires, and where my power is at any one time.

Also - I'm not judgmental and external trappings are lost on me - so, if you are into "money" or "looks" and expect that to carry you - forget it with me - I'm into quality of spirit, mind, thought, discussion, and authentic living.

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Nothing. Just by saying I'd do that means that for some reason I feel inadequate or somehow inferior... I'm fine as I am - am already a complete human being and to hell with "changing" myself - Such things always end up being a disaster when you, usually ill informed, perform surgery on your personality. Now, if it is based on desire and you want to "learn" a new skill to enhance your world and achieve positive life goals, then that is a different thing and is a laudable and noble pursuit.

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
I can't answer that - how do you capture a "standard" input from potentially many different women who represent a wildly divergent spectrum? I know one thing - I don't want to hear whining or weakness... That sounds very direct, but I find strong women who have thrive on their positive natures and who know that negative events are opportunities for learning, to be extremely alluring and sexy. Blaming life events on other people is bullshit - you are responsible for your reality and your reactions to said events. Anything else is passing the buck.

Describe your physique.
Tall - Salt & Pepper hair.

What do you do well sexually?
Let's find out.

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Let's find out.

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Let's find out.

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Well... Those are private aren't they? :>)

I don't talk about such things - it is poor manners and also preserves the mystique ;>)

Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nope - Clean as a whistle and careful.

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Why cap reality and the future with such limiting questions?

Free Space. Say anything you want!
I am unique, a catch, and a lot of fun to hang out with - Better have a razor sharp mind, because I'll challenge your reality.

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