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Let my lusts be my ruin, then.
I don't know what "juicy details" to share, here. Basically, I'm a bisexual 23 year old homemaker, living with my boyfriend and taking care of his kids. Things have been sort of... stale here, as of late. He told me in the past he wouldn't mind it if I wanted to see someone on the side, and I wouldn't because I didn't want to be "that kind of girl". But now it's gotten to the point where I don't care so much anymore. I'm a sexual being, and the dry spell's gone on too long.
The person I would like to meet
I am not looking for a mate. I marked that I was looking for a "long term relationship" just because I'm open to the possibility of finding a long term sexual partner. At the end of the day, I'm in love with my boyfriend, and I'd like to find someone who understands that.
I am very much a bisexual... I'm not one of those young women who say that they are because they might make out with a girl if they're trashed, or because they think it'll make them more appealing to guys. I've been in full-fledged relationships with girls, before. I'm "out", and have been for about five years now. So I'm totally open to the possibility of being with a female.
I'm fairly open to a lot of different possibilities. Looks and age don't really matter all that much to me. I'd just like to find someone that has a high sex drive, a desire to experiment, and a genuine attraction to me (who's not afraid to say so). Intelligence is also a huge turn-on for me, and so is a great sense of humor. Just be fun and honest, and let's see where it goes.
About my work
Like I said before, I'm a homemaker. Sometimes I miss working just for the daily interaction with other adults, but I'm fairly content with my situation here.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I like to game quite a bit (World of Warcraft, American McGee's Alice, Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, Silent Hill II), and use the internet (especially for social networking sites). I also love to read; my favorite authors are Thomas Harris, Anne Rice, Stephen King, Victoria Holt, Alice Sebold, J.K. Rowling). I enjoy creative writing, but have a tendency to flit from project to project and not complete things. I love art, but I'm no good at it... the best I can do is color, which I do very often. It's a big stress reliever, as is beading. I love making jewelry.
My idea of a great date
Great conversation! I know I'm here mainly for the "adult" side of things, but if there's no mental connection involved, I can promise you that I probably won't meet you more than once or twice (unless you have legendary skills, haha), at the most. Like I mentioned before, a sense of humor is really important too. Most importantly for this sort of arrangement though is a bit of sophistication. Just coming right out and saying "Want to *expletive*?" might work after we've developed a little rapport, but it'd be a major turn-off for me on the first date.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I got married on a stupid whim at 18, and separated from him that same year. My finances haven't permitted me to divorce him, yet.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I'm torn. Part of me wants to say somewhere beautiful and historic in Europe. I have a deep desire to get as far away from Tennessee as possible, and soak up as much art and culture as I can. To grow and experience as much as I can. The other part of me wants to be wild and crazy, and go somewhere with an amazing night life. To drink too much, to not focus so much on the future and the consequences. Just live every day in the moment.
What is your academic background?
I have about 16 credits, right now. I dropped out of college around the time I got married, because I was stupid and just disillusioned. I'd really like to go back now that I've got some life experience under my belt. I'm not exactly sure what I'd major in, though. I have too many conflicting interests and passions.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Umm... I think my last vacation was going to Florida last Thanksgiving to see my boyfriend's parents. I did like it, yes. They're really nice people. It was a bit boring, though.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence, humor, openness.
What do others do that irritate you?
I dislike judgmental people, and outright mean people. I'm all for being open and real, but sometimes you need to use softer words with people.
What do you think is your best quality?
I'm open, willing, and excited about new experiences. I make it my business to try anything at least once. And I take instruction well; I love learning new things.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I'm not really sure. I've kind of just started the process of learning to accept myself for who I am, so I try not to think about things like that. I mean, if there are some major flaws in me that people pick up on, I encourage them to let me know. I'm all for person growth. But I'm not going to sit here and personally pick myself apart. That's not healthy.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What genuinely sets you apart from others?
Describe your physique.
I'm short and curvy. Really curvy. One positive thing I can say is that I seem to be pretty evenly proportioned. Some plus sized women carry most of their weight in one area or another, but I don't have that problem. So people usually think I weigh less than I actually do.
What do you do well sexually?
I couldn't tell you, for certain. I've never asked anyone for a review, haha. Based on the physical reactions of my past partners though, I'd say oral sex on a male, a handjob on a female, and kissing.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Oral sex, probably. But my mood changes quite a bit in this department. Want I want one night might be totally different from what I want the next night. That's why having a partner who wants to switch things up is important to me. Sometimes slow, romantic sex can drive me wild. Other times, what I'm really after is roughness, with little to no affection involved.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
As corny or lame as it might sound, my ultimate fantasy right now is just being with someone who'd like to have sex more than once in a blue moon. What I'm craving is for someone to want me, and make advances that I don't have to initiate. Show me that you want me, and I'll do whatever you want.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Hmm. I guess the first time I had sex with a girl was a fantasy fulfilled. Besides that, I'm not sure that anything specific has been fulfilled. I'm not sure that I have any that I could actually list. That's one of the many reasons I'm so into experimentation; I want to know what I like, haha.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No. Never have, and never will.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Any, or all of the above. It depends on the person and the connection we have.
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