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Looking for friends with benefits
I am a 51 married male and swinger. Basically, I am a quiet guy at first but I open up once I get to know someone. I enjoy intimate dinners, going out for drinks and just talking to get to know someone! I am friendly, caring, and most of all, honest to a fault. My interests involve around Atlanta Braves baseball, University of Alabama football (ROLL TIDE!), bowling, going out for walks around parks or hiking. Being in the swinger lifestyle, I do also enjoy attending swinger club parties, whether they are for play or just to meet new people. The friends we've met through our swinger club are some of the best friends we've ever had!
The person I would like to meet
I am looking for female friendship whether it is for sex or just friendship. I am not looking for someone to replace my wife or to have an affair, but a friend with benefits. Preferably, my ideal woman here would be available for morning encounters or dates since I work afternoon and evenings. She should be friendly, caring, love to be intimate and cuddle. Weight, race, or age is not an issue, although I would prefer someone younger than 60.
About my work
I am an office manager of a grocery store and I love the work that I do. I love people and love the fact that I can make our customers feel good about shopping with us and if they have a complaint, I love that I usually can make a bad situation better for both of us. Some of the things I dislike is my pay, I used to make more when I was a computer programmer and was accustomed to what my pay in computers offered. Another thing I dislike is having to watch the teenagers that work with us on a constant basis or else they will goof off and not do their work. It seems that our other stores have the same problems and wish the teenagers in general felt the need to work hard like I used to when I was their age. I'm not saying all the teenagers that work with us are that way, actually there are some that is some of our best workers but we have some that all they want is a paycheck and do not want to work for it.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Some of my hobbies is genealogy. I love history and love to learn about our family and what part of our nation's and world history they were part of. Also, I enjoy being with my swinger friends and going to parties.
My idea of a great date
I love comedy and love going to our local comedy club for the stand up comedians. The club offers food and drink and some of my best dates were at this club.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Going on a cruise to some place with beaches, like Jamaica and be waited on and just relaxing.
What is your academic background?
I have always been good at science and mathematics and actually taught high school math when I was a senior in high school. I went to a private high school and one of my friends and I was the substitute math teachers. When the regular math teacher was out sick, we would get out of our other classes to teach which was cool. After high school, I experimented with several courses of study, including math, accounting, and was close to obtaining an Associates in accounting, when the computer bug bit me. I went to a technical college and majored in computer programming and earned an Associates of Science degree with a perfect 4.0 GPA.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
My family and I went up to Ohio from Alabama to visit relatives and along the way, we visited Boonesboro, Abe Lincoln's birthplace, Canada and some other places and we all enjoyed our trip.
What do you find attractive in people?
Their personality. I feel having a great personality means more than looks. Actually I feel that a good personality shows their real beauty.
What do others do that irritate you?
Being pushy, not respecting other people's feelings, rudeness.
What do you think is your best quality?
My honesty and dedication
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Being more outgoing
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Would they be willing to date a married man even though I am in an open marriage or swinging? So many profiles on other sites, women refuse to answer emails or respond to married men. I am not here to cheat, but make friends.
Describe your physique.
I am basically average, but needs to lose some weight. I was very overweight last year but have lost 50 lbs last year and am almost to my ideal weight based on my height.
What do you do well sexually?
My wife says I am great at giving oral sex.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I love being in the 69 position.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
A threesome with two women and myself.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Watching my wife having sex with others
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Looking for long term friendship and hopefully that means playing from time to time.
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