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53-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 18 - 70
Jamaica, New York
United States
Last Activity: > 3 months ago

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Capable man seeks capable woman

About myself
Nice, normal, mentally and physically healthy guy with healthy equipment! Fairly good looking (judge me by my photos), but once you hang out with me, you'll grow to like looking at me. Seriously, I've just lost about 110 lbs and more's coming off as well (a lot more). I discovered a bit of muscle and bone under my former fat self! Wow! :)

Married, no sex for over 8 years, and I need to change that. I live in the NYC 5 boro area and will ONLY travel within that area, sorry, can't host.

You should also be aware that I will ABSOLUTELY not answer messages from ANY women in a positive way if you're outside the NYC five borough area claiming that they wanna hook up with me. In fact, if a dating message does come my way and you live outside the NYC five borough area, you will be FLAMED and DISRESPECTED severely. If you just want to talk and it's not dating related, you'll find I'm a very nice guy, and that applies to both guys and girls (don't get me wrong here, I'm a STRAIGHT hard core hetero). But since I can't host, and I can't travel outside NYC, all conversations concerning dating and sex are an absolute waste of both of our time(s). Thank you!



The person I would like to meet
Preferred married and/or separated, or, a woman who doesn't mind fucking a married guy. You need to LIVE IN THE NYC AREA ONLY! All others will be flamed and disrespected.

If you respond honestly, and live in the NYC area, you will get a very pleasant response from me. I'm a nice guy. But I'm a BUSY guy and don't have time to answer foreign jack-wagon messages. Already I've gotten spam from people who live OUTSIDE my hookup zone, which is the 5 boro NYC area! I will respond very negatively to you if you live outside the NYC 5 boro area. I will FLAME YOU, I will CURSE YOU OUT if you live outside of my zone!

OUTSIDE NYC, YOU'VE BEEN WARNED! THANK YOU

About my work
Computer guy, self employed and successfully making a living. Hate NYC weather. I hope on a subway to get to clients' houses to fix their computers and tutor their minds in computerish ways :)

Work is important & I make a living doing what's been a hobby all my life. But even more enjoyable is seeing the pleasure on people's faces when their computers once again, give them the pleasure and performance they're used to having. That's what I live for! I like helping people,. and getting paid for it is pretty cool.

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
First and foremost, computers. After that, hiking/geocaching with a GPS in bear mountain, walking, programming, music, chess, reading sci fi, writing, Sci-Fi and action cable TV, sciencedaily.com every day for a daily dose of science news and breakthroughs, some movies with the old lady, studying programming (specifically C#), and science on the net, LOVE science, HATE religion with a passion, but I didn't say I don't believe in anything, I just said that I hate religion, there's a huge difference.

My idea of a great date
You gotta be healthy, not gigantically obese (sorry big girls, but there's someone for everyone) (chubby with big tits/nice ass and legs is definitely ok though and very sexy!). and not strange, just into meeting a guy who wants to have some one on one fun.

But one thing is AN ABSOLUTE MUST to not get a nasty answer. you NEED TO LIVE IN THE FIVE BOROUGH NYC AREA ONLY. Period. End of discussion concerning location. Thank you!
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.

If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
No sex for 8 yrs and not attracted to her, period. Nothing "happened" per se, it's just something that developed over the years.

What is your fantasy vacation?
A Permanent one, traveling warm states and countries FOREVER!

What is your academic background?
Some college, a lot of certificate courses, tech background.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Extended cruise, yup, loved it!

What do you find attractive in people?
T&A, and some nice legs, topped off with a nice mind, a nice attitude about life, and a willingness to listen deeply and thoughtfully before jumping all over the place with conclusions. A relaxed, conscious, classy demeanor is what I really like.


What do others do that irritate you?
Pushy, aggressive, argumentative, too single-minded, that kind of stuff.

I absoLUTELY HATE it when people cut me off in mid-sentence! I don't do it, neither should you. A kind of sensitivity to the rhythms of conversation is ESSENTIAL to not being rude, which I find, a few people have, and those few people are extremely irksome.

A lack of an ability to truly listen to others, absorb and process what others are saying, in a thoughtful manner, also irritates me.

Another thing, anti-intellectualism really irks me. Life is intellect and language and understanding and pure thought with emotion, plain and simple! EVERYTHING is inside our heads, and that is why the inner person is the real person. Catch my drift here?

AND DRUG ABUSE! I also hate it when smokers give other people second hand smoke poisoning! Don't you? :) If you don't, well, maybe you should because you're being a slow murderer, no kidding.

What do you think is your best quality?
A real & honest man into truth. I'm NOT into talking about bullshit "bible" truth, I'm not talking about any "labeled" truth of dogmatic human origin, I'm talking about the intrinsic truth of reality, of the latest science (though it be of human origin, obviously) of logic, of beauty and of mind. Fact is stranger than fiction and far more exciting :) I'm honest, relaxed, and a good guy who likes to help people. I'm also easily accessible, communicative, and like to engage in a wide range of intellectual pursuits, and conversation.

Though open minded, I do in fact hate bullshit and disingenuous horse shit, and have a very sensitive bullshit detector with a loud baloney alarm to boot:) I'm a good judge of character, but don't judge people harshly, as I realize I'm just as human and flawed as the next person.

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Tougher internally, that's about all I can say. Which I'm not :)

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Married? How do you feel about sleeping with a married guy, secretly, in the NYC area ONLY?

Describe your physique.
Kind of stocky, I just lost a hell of a lot of weight (110 lbs) and am on a continuing battle of the bulge. I was always slightly muscular with a strong build, nothing too out of the ordinary thought. Being 50 and coming out of a long period of being very overweight has left it's marks but I am definitely improving over time. I don't look too bad physically. I have nice features, a nice back, nice shoulders, decent legs, and very nice equipment :) Now at 209 and change and 5' 10", I'm well on the way to looking like a normal guy. Took 3 years but I'm absolutely, positively getting there.

What do you do well sexually?
I stimulate a woman's clitoris very skillfully (if not, with a little instruction) and stimulate the G-spot simultaneously. I'm also a considerate and giving lover and like to alternate between "giving orally" and fucking from both the front and from behind, while simultaneously reaching for your clit and rubbing it in rhythm with our fucking! Very nice combo I've found, woman have liked that a lot :) Multitasking's the key :) But then again, the best thing I've found, is to ASK and LEARN, there's not set way, because every woman's different, right? :)

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Nothing out of the ordinary, just having an ORGASM is enough for me.

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
It involves multiple women at the same time :)

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Nothing out of the ordinary, HOWEVER, I did LIVE with two bi-sexual women who both liked to get regularly licked! That was when I was about 21. I'm 49 now. We all lived in College Point NY MANY years ago, right off the main College Point strip. I was working as a machinist back then and when I came home, I had the following two kinds of women waiting for me in bed:
The first woman, had a thin waste, 5'5", 125 pounds, and ABSOLUTELY huge tits (all natural), black hair & black eyes. She was a crazy Sephardic Jew, with hints of Latin in her, with a super-shapely T&A setup that was awesome to look at and to squeeze while we got it on with her girl-friend! Very tasty juicy pussy to say the least. Her lover, a VERY skinny gorgeous Jewish blond, had very nice tits, and was a topless dancer for many years! She was so small, I couldn't even fuck her! Ohhh but what a clit she had on her! Pulsating and really sensitive, she just came and came. I liked it! She was just too damned skinny to fuck without hurting here however, so we stopped trying. Both chicks didn't really like cock (can't imagine why, equipment's good!) they only liked to get eaten, but hey, I didn't mind! I did this for 8 WEEKS STRAIGHT before I had to quit my job and move back home with mommy and daddy :) Bummer. Great while it lasted :)

Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nothing at all, perfectly healthy.

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
One night stand AND long term sexual relationship only. Not looking for friends, love, or a relationship, just to FUCK and EAT your juicy down-south, that's about it.

Free Space. Say anything you want!
I'm not looking to get divorced, not looking for a new best friend and not looking to fall in love. I'm only looking for female fuck buddies in the NYC 5 boro area only.

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