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Seeking female friend with benefits
Everyone needs to feel passion in their lives. After all, "life is what happens while you're waiting for it." Because of things I won't go into here, there is no bedroom passion at home any more, which brings me here. My libido remains strong and, I can't ignore that part of my life. From the mild to the wild, sex has always been an important part of me. You're here for your own reasons ... so, please don't judge mine unless you've walked that proverbial mile in these shoes.
If you're a female in OK or MO, and feel the need for more sex and passion in your own life, let me hear from you. We can begin with e-mail to learn more about each other, then go from there. My job takes me to even the tiniest towns in these states, so location within them isn't an issue.
The person I would like to meet
The woman I seek will be young at heart and in spirit, but mature in mind. She'll know what she wants and needs in her life and be willing to go for it. She's discreet, but not inclined to allow those around her to influence her decision to be here. She's assertive enough to be willing to initiate contact, but prefers a strong man who's not afraid to get involved and, if desired, take over some of the control. She's not afraid to express her desires, and confident enough to let herself fulfill them when the opportunity arises. Importanly, she should want an ongoing, if only occasional relationship. If this sounds like you, let's at least chat & see what develops.
About my work
My work isn't important here. Suffice it to say that I work from home and regularly travel the states of Oklahoma and Missouri.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I have more interests and hobbies than there's room to describe here. From working with wood to landscape gardening, from sports to music, from art to literature, from politics to food, from genealogy to computers, from romance to kink, I'm interested in them. This allows me to be comfortable with a woman, regardless of her interests, and to share some of her non-sexual passions as well as those of the more physical.
My idea of a great date
Enjoying being together ... all else is superfluous. The activities will depend on our mutual interests, the location, the season, the weather and our moods at the time. The evening should end with exhausted, mutual physical satisfaction regardless of the path that brings us there, together.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I've had the opportunity to travel heavily over the years, building up "points" for airlines, hotels, rental cars, etc. I've now tapped them all out with some wonderful vacations including places like Hawaii, Acapulco, Canada, England, Germany, Italy, Austria, Wales and even Egypt. I still have many new places to experience, but not necessarily the funds to chase them.
What is your academic background?
Degreed in business, but later discovered a love of history which I sometimes pursue through television, books or the internet.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Took a patriotic tour including Washington DC,, Virginia, Philadelphia & ground zero in New York. Interesting, but cold & wet ... brrrrrrrrr
What do you find attractive in people?
Positive attitude, open mindedness, organization of their life, couriosity and willingness to experience new things.
What do others do that irritate you?
Tardiness, indecisiveness, close mindedness and an attitude that there's only one way to believe or act about something.
What do you think is your best quality?
My curious nature, my creative mind and my self confidence.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I wouldn't always be so trusting of others.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What do you think you seek?
Describe your physique.
Barrel chested, broad shouldered, with a bit of a paunch ... salt & pepper hair with a Sean Connery style beard ... twinkly eyes with a dimple.
What do you do well sexually?
Try to learn & practice those things that excite & please my partner; listening, touching, tasting, exploring & experimenting.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I don't believe in holding back with communication ... If I'd like to try something, I usually discuss it with my partner, if she's not already mentioned it. I've had a few wonderful lovers who were also creative & curious, so I've tried quite a few things. Got any new ideas? My greatest satisfaction comes from helping HER fulfill her own fantacies, whether they're mine or not.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I don't kiss & tell the world. I'll happily share them with the right individual.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
NO, NO, NO ... and I don't want any either.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Free Space. Say anything you want!
Some of these sites work better than others. Please don't wait for me to contact you .... I can't read your mind and it might take me a while to find you on here. Drop me a quick note and we'll start from there.
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