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Sunshine On Your Shoulders
First and foremost, I LOVE to laugh! I mean, I crack myself up! I'm totally outgoing; a never-know-a-stranger kind of person. I'm always at ease. I make others around me feel comfortable, as well. If you're shy, I'll draw you out. If you're outgoing, I'll have you laughing in no time! I've traveled to a lot of places in the world, so finding myself in different or strange places does not scare me. I speak a second language so I am totally interested in different countries, people and cultures. I hope to visit a lot more places from here on out. Ireland is #1 on my list.
I've worked hard evolving into the woman I am today. I am good at communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings. I won't make guys "read" my mind. If I want something from you, I'll ask. If I need something that you're not providing, I'll tell you. I'm not afraid to make my needs and wants known.
I'm extremely drama-free. I'm honest, and I'll be truthful with you. I'm happy in my life, and don't need to stir things up just to get attention. When I want your attention, you'll know because I will have told you.
I'm intelligent and can hold my own in discussions on just about anything. I have three things I don't normally discuss with other people. 1. Politics 2. Religion 3. Money It's not that I don't like talking about these three topics- it's more that no matter what I say, someone will disagree, forcing his/her opinion down my throat. And that, I cannot stand!
I never play with people's feelings. I suppose some of my past relationship experiences have left me jaded in some ways; but the past is exactly where it belongs- in the past. While I've learned a lot from my relationships up to this point, and I would never judge or compare a potential partner to an old one.
I'm at a point where I'm ready to meet someone new! Is it you?
The person I would like to meet
I am responsible for my own happiness, and don't have to rely on a man to make me feel whole. I would love to find someone who can make me laugh. Intelligence is a big turn on, too! A guy can be as good looking as they come, but if he opens his mouth and sounds like an idiot, well, um. Pass!
I like a partner who brings new things to the relationship; new things for me to learn or to try. I don't think a couple need to have the exact same interests- I believe that's boring!
I just want to be compatible with my partner. I'm not looking for a serious relationship or marriage. But I'm not just going to give it up for just anyone, either! Even in a FWB situation, I need to feel some kind of "connection" to the friend.
About my work
I'm an import buyer for a Japanese company that makes starters/alternators. My job can be really stressful at times, but I love it because I work my best under pressure!
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I love to shoot pool, dance, bowl, do karaoke, go to comedy clubs, watch movies and sports, go to concerts, and take walks.
My idea of a great date
Dinner and good conversation.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Ask me if you want to know.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Someplace tropical. White sand beach and ocean so blue it's almost clear. A room on the beach, where you can practically step out the door into the sand!
What is your academic background?
I am a college grad. I have a BA in Japanese language.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
London, England. Went to meet a guy I met on the net. It didn't work out with the guy, but I fell in love with England! I'd go back in a heartbeat!
What do you find attractive in people?
Smiles and eyes. They tell a lot about a person.
What do others do that irritate you?
LIE I can't stand a liar!
What do you think is your best quality?
My sense of humor! It's very Seinfeldian!
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I would change the fact that I seem to always put others' needs ahead of my own. I need to start paying attention to my own needs!
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
What do you do well sexually?
I do everything well!
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Never have had an STD and don't plan to, either!
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm not looking to get married right now. But I can't stand today's "friend with benefits" mentality, either. I want a companion that I can spend time with, in and out of the bedroom!
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