Seeking Women: 18 - 36
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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Lets go ot dancing & see what happens.
Long blonde hair, goatee, broad shouldered, glasses. Smart, funny. Verbose (despite my brevity here). In a long term polyamorous relationship, to which I am very dedicated. Always looking for new experience, but I enjoy knowing people. Anonymity is not my style.
The person I would like to meet
Smart, beautiful, confident, sane. Being open minded is a big plus too, but those 1st 4 are primary. Be respectfull of my life & my time, as I will be for you.
About my work
I teach computers to native american children. Its hard work, with long hours. I have learned alot, had some ideals crushed and some reborn with new vigor. Now I am ready for summer!
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Hobbies... I remember those! Honestly, I am an unrepentant nerd in my free time. I'm always open to something new! The one thing I really love that I don't get enough of is dancing.
My idea of a great date
Some intelligent conversaation, then a hot night dancing at the club, followed by steamy sex back at your house.
What is your fantasy vacation?
I love camping, & my doesn't, so I would love to go cmping with someone up in the mountains - Jemez, Bandelier - somewhere that's cool & moist in the summer.
What is your academic background?
I just finished a Masters in Education. I also have a BS in IT. Looking at going for a Doctorate, or going back & getting Masters in Engineering.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
England. We spent a week in London, spent all our money, & a week out by Cambridge. It was great, but it was too rushed. I will go back & do it right.
What do you find attractive in people?
Intelligence, sanity, emotional & physical wellness, self-respect & respectfulness in general. Be open minded.
What do others do that irritate you?
I tend to be pretty tolerant. Narrow minds annoy me fast. Too much talking, not enough thinking. Its easy to just blather on & on, its harder to just be. Breathe, laugh, pause... repeat.
What do you think is your best quality?
Hmm. My intelligence, probably. I do my share of stupid things, just like anyone.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I have a hard time crossing the line from intellectual to physical conversation. Once I'm there, I do just fine - ahem - but I don't always feel comfortable making the first move.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Well, that would involve getting an email from someone!
Describe your physique.
I do try to stay in shape. I find I don't feel good when I don't exercise. I am tall, wide shoulders, medium build. Long arms & legs.
What do you do well sexually?
I may be the stoic gentleman, even seem tentative, outside the bedroom, but underneath that lurks an intense & playful sexual poet. I don't feel comfortable bragging (its cheesy). If you really want to know, you can ask or just find out.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
My absolute favorite moment in any encounter is my partner's orgasm. I get pleasure from pleasing, even when it hurts a little (or a lot). The moment its not fun, I stop.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
It is true that we all desire to be wanted, & I am. But for some, like me, it is not enough to be loved by one, or a few. Nor do I feel fulfilled loving only one, or a few. Love, if it exists, is quintessential, all-pervasive, ubiquitous. We move through an endless sea of love, and still we desire more. Strange, this function of our collected neurons & synapses. Here we have built this dendritic construct so that we may seek it constantly in eachother. Why? & yet I too am bidden, driven.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
When I am serious, I do not speak. I write. Words are all meaningless lies - innacurate representations, ersatz symbols for the real. We cannot live on words, false speach falters in the face of action, true perception, beauty, ugliness. All things concrete, mere sounds fly before them. Stop speaking. Do.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I'm really open to any of those options. I think "one night stands" can be really beautiful experiences. I would say there's less risk involved than with a long-term relationship, but an LTR can have richer rewards over time.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I have 3 children, who I spend much time with.
My Meyers-Briggs Personality Profile: ENTP: "Progress is the product": When an ENTP is on the job, you never know what to expect next. Every moment is up for grabs when they are around. Characteristics: energetic, dynamic, creative, resilient, argumentative. They are punsters who would rather engage in intellectual banter than complete some meaningless task or be quiet by themselves. The public world is exciting to them; they tend not to be committed to a schedule or project if a more exciting challenge comes along.
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