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Sparked Interest in the Swinger Lifestyle
I'm fun and very guarded about my life.. except when it comes to blogging- I spill all.
I'm a huge blogger, I maintain one where I talk about my marriage, sex outside of my marriage, and sex toys... lots of sex toys. I love them so much I usually give away freebies from some of the companies I write for or I give away special discounts to readers. I'm just trying to share my obsession.
I am married and I definitely want to keep it that way so whatever possibilities there are on here, we need to come up with the perfect arrangement.
The person I would like to meet
Fun couples that have the ability to be creative.
My husband and I are getting into swinging, we want to meet couples (not singles.. including unicorns) that can help us to learn more about this lifestyle.
Discretion is ideal but if you life an online life where you like to be the center of attention we don't want you to stop being you. If you're a blogger too (I understand, I talk about everything!) we just ask you to respect our privacy and allow us some anonymity by not using our names and instead relying on initials- and any and all pictures from our group activities have our faces blocked out.
About my work
I write about sex. dubba-u dubba-u dubba-u Sleeping Dreamer dot com.
I think it's one of the most amazing things in the world. I express deep, introverted thoughts while also posting naked pictures of myself and my husband, oh, and of course there are all the sex toys! Reviews and lots of give aways!
I live online, I can't even remember I've had a job off of the computer. In the "offline" world I was never happy and I hated having to pursue meaningless jobs with menial pay just to pay the bills. I found my balance and I struck a great rhythm- I write about sex and I get paid for it. It's beautiful.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Drinking, dancing, films.
I especially love movies, if I could have been an actress I would have. I always see the films made today and I think to myself, "I could do that!" The films of yesteryear I just can't compete, women like Ava Gardner and Barbara Stanwyck can't be copied, they're true originals.
My idea of a great date
A fun night out, preferably bowling and martinis.
I try to be classy but I fail miserably, I like to consider myself cultured but I'm not pretentious and I can't debate to save my life- I always thought smart people could debate because they had the bigger brains, I realized that it's not the bigger brain that makes you able to steal the spotlight but rather the bigger mouth that makes you heard.
We'd prefer something extremely low key but very public. First meetings are important, we want to make sure we connect outside of the bedroom before we swap partners inside of it.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Maybe Aspen? See some pure white snow for once? :)
What is your academic background?
I was told once that college is just a place where people read to you because you can't read to yourself.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
We went to the Indy 500- it was a lot of fun, met some really great people.
What do you find attractive in people?
The ability to separate love and sex.
What do others do that irritate you?
Don't disclose specific information (mostly pertaining to their sexual health)..
What do you think is your best quality?
I don't judge, unless a person is really fucking stupid. What qualifies someone as being really fucking stupid? Well, that's for me to figure out.. unfortunately.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I'm a worrier, constantly afraid that what we do in our sex life will creep into our love life.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
If you swing, have you or your partner ever fallen in love with someone that you swung with?
Describe your physique.
I could lose some weight for sure. For the most part I haven't received any complaints and I'm confident enough to post naked pictures all over my blog. That should count for something, right? :P
What do you do well sexually?
Everything. Okay, really, I don't do anything really well at all. I just kind of like to lay there and take it. Not even joking...
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
A girl licking my clit while my husband is fucking me from behind. I love BDSM so a scene that involves a large group of people tying me up and torturing my pure white skin would be amazing.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
I'm going to say YES to keep stupid assholes looking for phone sex or sexy emails from messaging me. If they still do, they must want some AIDS.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Whatever happens, happens.
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