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Tooting my own horn is just not me, and seems so much like advertising. Then again, I guess that's what dating and mate seeking is really all about. After all, it is a free market and quite competitive at that. In essence, we're trying to market a brand, a product, a precious commodity... we're selling ourselves. Soooo, having said that, what makes my "brand" so different than any other? Well, to me, it's simple. Although there may be other brands that appear to be equal or even superior in quality and character, they cannot function as I do. It's not in their design. There's only one me. And in me you'll find sincerity, integrity, reliability, romance, honesty, understanding, passion, protection, provision, and an unlimited lifetime warranty on love and affection. I'm intelligent, yet simple; outgoing, yet exclusive. And I am capable of providing "Newport pleasure" without the nicotine (although, I may be just as addictive). Yes, I'm nicotine free (non-smoker), sugar-free (no undercover brother action here!), and drama free (self-explanatory). If these are the qualities you demand in a man, I am the one you've been looking for. DO NOT be lured by knock-offs and bootleg copies. SHOP NOW and SAVE...(on loneliness). Register today for a 60-Day Trial Membership. After 60 days, full activation is required to receive full benefits. May not be combined with other offers and is not redeemable for cash. One Trial Membership per household. Photo identification required when applying. Other restrictions may apply. Subject to Terms and Conditions. Offer good while supplies last. LOL!
The person I would like to meet
I would like for her to be Christian or Spiritual, but not "religious". I'm looking for a woman between 4' 0" and 5' 6" tall. I like a woman who will be there for me when I'm low; a ride or die chick. A woman who truly cares for me, not because of "what" I do for her, but because of "who" I am to her. A woman who respects herself; and therefore, is capable of respecting me. The kind of woman who knows how to "keep her head up, legs closed, and eyes open". A woman so faithful that I could leave her alone in Hell's den and not worry. A woman so loyal that for another man to enter into her "sanctuary", he'd have to take it by force and, even then, not without a struggle. A woman whose home is her pride and she keeps it clean without thought because that's who she is. For me, this is a must, because that's who "I" am. A woman who doesn't mind fixing up a hot plate (and can do so with or without a microwave). One who can take leftovers and work miracles when necessary; a resourceful woman... a real woman. A lady from the inside out. A woman who's not blinded by material ambitions, bling, spinners, 24" rims, ect., ect. Ice is cool and there's nothing wrong with having nice things. But I need.someone who's looking for more, someone who treasures the things that money can't buy. Someone who sees past "the American Dream". A woman who knows that , at the end of the day, the only thing that truly matters is us. A woman who's quiet, soft-spoken, and tactful. A woman that's smart (intelligent, not smart-at-the-mouth) and a woman with heart (someone who won't take no ish, even from me)... a true soldier. As well as one with a bangin' body! (Easy now ladies. Hold up a minute. Let me explain. I know it's the inside that counts and the outside is superficial. I'm not looking for a perfect 10. But the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. And I feel you should upkeep your "temple".)
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Hobbies? Hmmm. Well, as far as hobbies go, I am an avid collector of music. I enjoy creating new playlists and sharing them with friends and family. I currently host over 2,000 titles in my collection of various genres. And it's relatively easy for me to become self-absorbed in the music, whether it be the lyrics or the composition. I've found that music can take you to familiar places as well as to those you've never known. It's the same experience that can be had by getting lost in a good book. After all, what is music if not words matched to a rhythm. Rhythm brings words to life. Every song is an expression of the human experience; it's art for the ears. In addition, I also collect cologne, particularly leathery, oriental variations. These seem to work best with my body's chemistry... or so I've been told. Aside from that, the aromatherapy alone maintains a mellow mood for me. I always surround myself with fragrance: at home, on the road, and at the office.
My idea of a great date
At home listening to slow jams, watching movies or simply talking; a quiet walk in the park; or a day (or night) on the beach.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
Over the years, I've had many weekend excursions. But I have never taken a vacation. Who knows? Maybe oneday in the near future.
What do you find attractive in people?
Honesty and wisdom.
What do others do that irritate you?
I am irritated by people who believe in making things more difficult than they have to be. I also don't do drama queens. Nor do I like being consistently interrupted when I'm speaking. Lastly, I do not like to argue and avoid it at all costs.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
I am open to any form companionship initially. However, I am most certainly open to a long-term relationship if we vibe in that way.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I am a rare individual in the area of goal setting in that my short-term and long-term goals are one in the same. Now, most intellectuals will tell you that this is not a strong point. They argue that any person whose short-term and long-term goals are the same is unfocused, undisciplined, and undeserving; wandering aimlessly. If you subscribe to this theory, then this is where you stop reading. As for me, I don't support that belief. My goal is to live each day to the fullest and to serve as many along the way as I can. I have no desire to possess anything other than my own mind and maybe the heart of another. I've learned that the finer things in life can't be bought and are utterly free and readily available to all who seek them. This includes the Word of God for the spirit (invaluable), air, food and water for the body (essential), and love for the soul (priceless). Now, of course, I have daily to-do lists. But as far as a quarterly projection, my goal is to have gathered and given more wisdom and love at the end of this quarter than when the quarter began. My "5-year" projection is no different. And the numbers are irrelevant. If I am somehow able to make life better for at least one person before my life ends, then my goals will have been met. And, although this may sound very evangelical and noble, this is just who I am and how I see things at this point in my life. I've had "things" and lost "things". I've had money in the bank, and I've been broke. I've lived in nice homes, and I've lived on the street. I've held nice positions within large companies, and I've cut grass with a push mower just to eat. But no matter what state I'm in, my state of mind remains the same; Still laughing, still loving, still living... still me. And always open to share my laughter, my love and my life with someone who can relate. NOTE: The materialistic and shallow need not apply.
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