Seeking Men: 40 - 50
Wappingers Falls, New York
Last Activity: 3 weeks ago
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Where Are You ???????????
BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME PLEASE READ THIS IN ITS ENTIRETY
NO MARRIED MEN OR ATTACHED ONES EITHER !!! GO AWAY NOW PLEASE !!
ALSO PLEASE BE LOCAL I DO NOT AND I REPEAT I DO NOTTTTTT WANT PHONE SEX OR EROTIC CHAT IM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING LOCAL AND REALLL !! WHY DOESNT ANYBODY READ - IF ALL YOU SEE IF BOOBS DONT BOTHER TO CONTACT ME .. THERE IS MORE TO ME THAN BOOBS TRUST ME !! If you can't stimulate my brain, you won't get anywhere NEAR my boobs.... you can take THAT to the bank !!!
Let's start with I'm NOT looking for a one night stand and I'm NOT bi-sexual, bi-curious or bi-ANYTHING. I'm looking for ONE friend and lover (MALE). Realistically how many friends is one person allowed to have at the same time ?????
I'm NOT into drama or craziness of any kind - I don't like arguments nor petty BS - it's truly not worth my time or energy .. hope you feel the same way. I'm looking to add some excitement to the boredom but on a more often than not basis. I'm also a BBW (big beautiful woman) so if that's a problem for you, let's not waste each other's time - we all have our preferences - I surely do too ! My preference is a guy on the taller side with some meat on his bones !
Also, if you are married, DONT bother either cuz I already don't trust you. Been there .. done that ... not doing it again. It doesn't work for me. Try me at the "Y" - I'm usually there - ask for me by name WintryKiss :) or the little running man WintryNY.
I'm also looking for someone LOCAL to my area. I live in the Hudson Valley, in Dutchess County in Upstate New York. You are just wasting my time and yours if you live a gazillion miles away ! I'm NOT into cybersex or phone sex or camming ... how ridiculous is THAT ????
The person I would like to meet
Are you not into games - real - truthful - honest - non-judgmental - understanding - gentle - kind - caring - compassionate - sensitive yet strong - able to hold an intelligent conversation - outgoing - loves music ... passionate ... these are the traits i admire most in a man especially passionate -- seems impossible to find though - everyone just wants to play games .. I'm really too old to deal with that !
I also prefer someone younger (I'm 56) but that doesn't mean 20 either !!! 45 and up is fine but that doesn't mean I wouldn't consider someone who is older who can "hang". I also prefer a BHM (big handsome male). Not a requirement, just preference. Someone LOCAL works best. I'm not driving 150 miles out of my way. So, its best to keep it local.
Do you exist??? You are REAL man as I am a REAL female and will settle for nothing less. I haven't got time for games. It all comes down to this: A nice man to hang out with and have some fun with. more often than not ........Is that too much to ask for?
I'm VERY selective ... Its not that important to me to be with someone and I'd rather be alone than deal with a JERK and its VERY obvious. I have a sixth sense and can see right through people !!!! So don't waste my time if you are a liar. I can't stand men with hidden agendas. If you can't be honest and upfront, move on to the next ad.
About my work
I was a legal secretary for 25 yrs but im now retired thank GOD
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Computer graphic work, music, internet in general, reading, word games, puzzles, brain games, cooking
My idea of a great date
Somewhere quiet to get to know each other and talk.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I'm widowed and I'm sure its nothing anyone would care to read about.
What do you find attractive in people?
Someone upfront and honest. Everyone says they are, but I have found in my experience that they are NOT. Being upfront means being open and everyone seems to have hidden agendas. Very difficult to find the mix of that "lover" who can also be a "friend," and who TRULY knows what that means !
What do others do that irritate you?
Nail biting and lying !! game players - people with hidden agendas, bullshitters, and people are who too self-involved to care about anything or anyone else besides them self - macho men (boring); should i continue ? If you are a player go play somewhere else . preferably in traffic !!
What do you think is your best quality?
My attitude and my outlook on life. More people should be the way I am - the world would be a better place for sure !
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Nothing, it's fine the way it is.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Do you have "TIME" ? Everyone seems to use the same excuse .. they have no TIME .. They get involved and they make excuses ... Don't waste my time if this is you !! ff its important enough to you, you'd make time.
Describe your physique.
I'm a BBW but that doesn't mean I'm desperate either. In fact far from it - I'm QUITE selective ! Please be a true BBW admirer or else go away !
What do you do well sexually?
EVERYTHING .. I love sex. My theory is that sex gives me pleasure and considering we all know the amount of pain our body can exude, we should enjoy all we can when it comes to the pleasure our bodies can bring us. Also, I'm a "squirter," actually "gusher" would be a better word for it !
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
That's a subject for a later discussion !
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
A MMF threesome. I would NEVER consider being with another woman though. I'm neither bi-sexual nor bicurious and intend to stay that way.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I was married for 22 yrs. I've experienced it all except for what I wrote about about the MMF thing.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
NO !!!! and never have and I'd like to keep it that way !!!
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Long term adult relationship.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
May all your dreams become reality :)
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