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Let me please you and tease you...
I'm a single dad who shares responsibility equally. I've been accused of being a really great papa. I have a rescued cat named Ash, whom I found when she was a tiny kitten seven years ago.
A few words that describe me are intelligent, multilayered and unexpectedly complex. Soft-spoken and respectful, but just snarky enough to not be a push-over. At least, that's what I've been told.
I come off as a little rough & tumble sometimes. However, I'm fully in touch with my sensitive side as I tend to "wear my heart upon my sleeve" a bit. Sappy, sentimental or overly dramatic moments in movies often make me cry. But that does not mean I'm a pushover.
Creativity is important to me. I've taken many paths to explore that creativity, from traditional art to the culinary arts. I still exercise these creative leanings with very tiny things.
I will eat ice cream with a fork if necessary.
Most guys you are likely to meet will only give a tiny bit of themselves and let you guess the rest. I'll tell you anything and everything you want to know. I'm sane, I've never been to jail, no warrants, and I don't do drugs. I'm responsible and have my act together. I'm also very liberal and pro-equality.
And the usual applies: I have a job, I own a car, and I own a house.
The person I would like to meet
You are smart, somewhat sarcastic, creative and maybe even a bit quirky. Did you have an awkward phase in high-school (or that you still haven't quite grown out of)? I think that's sexy.
You're looking for a really nice, dedicated and loving guy who'll give you the space you need, when you need it. And who will be present (not just in body) when you need it most.
You like holding hands and, sometimes a random kiss when your guy wraps his arms around you while waiting in line at the movies or a show.
You're looking for a guy who is fully accepting of your kids (if you have any), and who has been accused of being "a really great Papa" to his own kid, but is not looking to make anymore.
You are looking for a guy who isn't selfish or self-absorbed, and who will actually make time for you.
You're looking for a best friend and passionate lover who wants and craves you just as much as you want him.
Also, please be LOCAL. After years of dealing with virtual projects in virtual locations with virtually no human contact, I value real live human beings. This is the same reason I don't spend countless hours playing MMO games on a computer.
About my work
Professionally, I help make very big things for the events and trade show industry. Sometimes it is creative. Usually, it is not. It is a job. It is stable and pays my bills.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I paint, draw, scupt and create miniatures. It is my one true passion.
I also like doing a lot of little things in my life.
I'm trying to explore the city a little more, sometimes by myself but usually with my daughter. Things we like to explore together include walks in parks, hikes around Camp Long, exploring art museums, farmers markets, brunches, dinners, outdoor movies, Shakespeare in the park, live music.
I'm also trying to better myself both physically and intellectually. It's a personal journey more than anything to find a better balance in all aspects of my life. I'm not sure where it will eventually lead, but I like the path it has taken me on so far.
My idea of a great date
A great date is open-ended.
Let's start with meeting for coffee or a cocktail and a little light conversation. If we click, go out for a walk until we find something that smells good for lunch or dinner. This gives either of us an easy way to bow out if things just don't "click" well. Along the way, maybe pop in to an art gallery, museum or funky old book store for random exploration.
Then, are going well, my place or yours?
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I've been divorced since fall 2011.
It's a strange thing waking up one morning, and both of you realizing that you really aren't much more than friends with the co-parent of your child. We decided to end the our marriage before we hated each other. Our kid is much better off having happy parents that are apart than having to live with constant bitter rivalry.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Kissing in Paris under the Eiffel Tower.
What is your academic background?
My academic background is in art & design. Specifically Industrial Design, with an emphasis on product design.
Basically, I'm an art geek.
What do you find attractive in people?
Eyes and neckline. I think a short cropped bob haircut is sexy on a petite lady.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Nope, and I get tested after each relationship that has been intimate.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Ideally I'd like to find a long-term lover, and see where it goes from there.
The thing is, I hate "dating"... Especially online dating. It's like a bad parody of ebay; Make your selection and hope you don't get outbid on desirable attributes. And then, it gets into an endless cycle of 101 bad 1st dates where all you do is try and find common ground for 30 minutes. It's not even a process of trying to get to know someone, because one side or the other just ends up fixating on one bad thing while ignoring all the potential good in the other person.
Then, when you actually *DO* find someone interesting and date for three months, you find out way too late when you're heavily emotionally invested that they are a totally and completely incompatible in bed (or they smell weird, or have bad hygiene).
So, I'm trying something different for a change. Start with sex *AND* dating and see what happens. Because I want someone compatible in all ways, not just in interests and personality.
I want to find *ONE* woman who can keep up with me in bed, isn't totally neurotic, and isn't terrified of the prospect of an actual relationship developing after the initial "fuck like bunnies" stage of the relationship.
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