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NickKaivan
19-year-old Male
Seeking Women: 18 - 25
Stony Brook, New York
United States
Last Activity: > 3 months ago

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About myself
I'm the of person who loves to try new things, I'll do almost anything at twice. The first time to try it, the second to make sure I like it. I love reading and meeting new people, it's amazing how diverse people are and I love that. My favorite kinds of people are the ones I can be real with and the ones I can just listen to music with, I value spending time with people tremendously. It's especially important to me now more than ever since technology is undermining relationships, not to say technology is bad, but people come first.

I'm a bit of a philosopher by nature, I like to understand people and hear their stories. There's always so much to learn from everyone I meet, especially since I'm a younger guy. I really enjoy that fact though, there's just so much to every single person and all their life stories are just as important as mine. That concept never ceases to amaze me.


The person I would like to meet
I love people I can be myself with and people who I can just spend time with. The kind of person who can just spend hours talking to you, who doesn't mind going out for tea or coffee. I'd like to spend time with someone like that, especially so if they're themselves with me. I think honesty is really attractive.

As an artist myself, I've always been attracted to artists, but more than that, to people who love what they're doing. There's nothing more attractive than someone who's happy with what they're doing. It could be pursuing a career, working hard in school, being passionate in their art, even the things that aren't so profound like people who are passionate about their fashion or about their hobby.

About my work
I'm a full time student and a dj on the side. I major in philosophy because I just love to think about all the amazing people and things in the world and I want to enjoy that to the fullest. I feel like philosophy offers a solid approach to doing that, so I think it's a perfect fit.

I dj because I love to see people enjoying themselves. The feeling you get from being able to share what you love with people who enjoy and appreciate it is an amazing one and I love when the crowd has a good time. I got started three years ago when I was dancing at a party and the dj noticed me, he struck up conversation afterwards and recommended I try djing. He was right, I quickly fell in love with my new hobby and I've been djing ever since. It's great to dance in the crowd, but it's a better feeling to play for them.

What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Like I had mentioned, I'm a dj, but that's not the only thing in my life. I thoroughly enjoy reading and spending time with people in general. I like to take long drives, it's fun to go fast but I love to just sit back and enjoy the ride, especially when you're driving through a nice area. I like to visit Jones Beach and Montauk Point, they're beautiful and I like to just spend time there and appreciate the scenery.

My idea of a great date
There are too many amazing ways to spend an evening or afternoon with an amazing woman, surely more than I could say here or even think of on the spot. I'd love to chat over dinner and appreciate spending time with you, I feel like that would set up for an amazing night. I love nice restaurants, but often times it's the little places no one really knows about that have the best food and atmosphere. Asian and Spanish foods are my favorite, especially for dates. Asian restaurants have so much to offer in terms of atmosphere, they're so elegant which makes them great for a romantic evening. Spanish restaurants are lively and fun, especially the ones that have live music. I feel like they really set up for positivity and an upbeat feeling for the rest of the night.

If all goes well, spending the rest of the night together is all the more enjoyable. A good date is an amazing buildup to the rest of the night and I feel like they're both equally important.

What is your fantasy vacation?
I'd like to travel Europe or parts of Asia. They're both so culturally rich and full of interesting foods. I'd love to eat the food in Lyon and see the beautiful white houses in Greece. The fact that all the countries in Europe are so readily accessible from one another provides the opportunity to experience so much in such a short time.

Although Europe is new and unfamiliar, Asia's cultural differences from the West mean so much more to experience. It would be amazing to visit the Angkor Wat in Cambodia, the Buddhist temples in Tibet, China's famous Forbidden City and so much more. Even the landscape is so different from what I've seen. It's just so foreign to me and I love that.

What is your academic background?
I think this is of lesser importance, but I'm a first year college student. I graduated high school with a 3.7 GPA and 43 college credits. By next semester I'll be up to par with juniors in terms of academic standing. My major is philosophy out of love for it. I'm currently on the Provost scholarship at Stony Brook University and I chose this school because I love the scenery. I think it's just a beautiful place to be from the trees to the architecture to the diverse campus.

Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
My last vacation was a cruise to Bermuda on the Norwegian Gem, I had an amazing time. I met a really wonderful girl and we spent a lot of time together. After the cruise we continued a long distance relationship for quite some time. Other than that, I met some really amazing people who I still keep in touch with. I had a lot of fun on that ship, although the island of Bermuda was actually somewhat lackluster, the beaches were fun but it was too tourist oriented for my taste.

What do you find attractive in people?
I love people who are passionate about what they do, it doesn't matter if they're the best at what they do so long as they enjoy it. I like to see other people happy, so I think it's really special when someone shares what they love with me. I think people who hold conversations are more attractive, I like the idea of being able to talk to people easily without working at it. People who are outgoing also catch my eye, I love when people just strike up conversation in the most unexpected places or times.

What do others do that irritate you?
I don't really like people who assume things, but I'm not going out of my way to start an argument with people. I think it's better to just let people be, I'll do my own thing and they can do theirs.

What do you think is your best quality?
I think my empathy is my best quality, I think understanding people well and being able to understand how they feel is important for building lasting bonds with those around me. It allows me to be close with a very diverse set of friends and acquaintances even though their interests and ideas might conflict with mine. I think that's okay though and in fact I think that's a great thing, diversity of wonderful and adds another dimension to life. I wouldn't really like to have everyone agree with me and think the same way, while it's good for some things, I don't think unanimity is great for most situations.

What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
I'd want to be more outgoing, I'm actually pretty shy and I think being outgoing would allow me to make more close friends. It would be amazing to just be able to walk up to someone and start a conversation, I love when people do that with me.

What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
I'm not quite sure what I would ask, maybe if they'd like to talk on the phone or over Skype. I much prefer conversation to email, it's so much more direct. I think it's a lot easier to get to know someone by talking to them, plus email seems a bit too formal for someone I'm interested in seeing. There's no better way to spend time than talking to an interesting stranger. Some of the strongest bonds I've made with people have started like that and I think starting off on the right foot would make things go so much more smoothly.

Describe your physique.
I'm not very tall, 5'6 in fact. I like to exercise and watch what I eat to stay healthy. Because of that I've got a very toned physique and six pack abs. I like to build my appearance in a very specific way, focusing on the shape and tone of my muscles rather than size. I personally think I look pretty good and I'm well endowed.

What do you do well sexually?
My favorite things to do are foreplay and oral. I love being able to get my partner turned on and excited before sex, especially because it makes sex so much more enjoyable. I like to take things slow and really make sure the woman I'm with is enjoying herself. Oral sex is also great for doing that and I think it's an essential part of foreplay. It's great for giving orgasms and sex is much better if you've already had an orgasm before I even go inside.

What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
I actually really like foot jobs, although I wouldn't say I have a foot fetish. They're just something interesting and different, plus I love to watch my partner naked with her legs open. I love when the girl is on top, it makes it easier for her to enjoy herself because she choose how hard or soft and how fast or slow. Seeing her beautiful body moving like that turns me on tremendously, especially if she looks in my eyes. Another favorite for me is when a girl grinds on my penis, I love the feeling of her pussy that way. I also think the whole experience is better with the lights on, for me, a lot of the enjoyment from sex comes from seeing my partner.

What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
I've never tried anal, never had a three way, never tried bondage. I think the most enjoyable for me though is fulfilling my partner's fantasies, being able to give her everything she wants in bed is really enjoyable for me.

What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
I've had some experience with doing things in public, although that was really more for my partner. I can't say I've really done much, but I'm eager to try.

Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
I have never had an STD, nor do I have any currently. Staying safe is important.

Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
All three of those are wonderful, I think a long term relationship would be nice and a one night stand would be really enjoyable, however I'd like someone who I can just play around with. It keeps things interesting and allows for a lot of opportunities to try new things in bed. I'd be happy with a long term relationship with someone I'm really into, but all good things in time.

Free Space. Say anything you want!
Thanks for visiting my profile, I'd love to meet you and hear about you! Bonus points if you actually read everything, I think I was being somewhat verbose.

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