Seeking Women: 20 - 60
Rochester, New York
Last Activity: 3 weeks ago
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We can build a better way of being together
There are no juicy details. I am just good at what I do. Being hot is not measured by one thing, it is measure by your whole being, purpose and actions. If one cannot move you inside, just a physical presence is not good enough. It takes ....Mind, Body, and Spirit (emotions) together. Your hot only if you can make me hot on all levels, and become hot yourself on all levels. Just looking the part or just going through the motions will not suffice.
The person I would like to meet
I like to reside in the D/s realm, and seek a submissive minded woman. That does not mean "door mat" AND Requires mutual respect and sharing. An open mind receptive to learning and assuming a new frame of reference or way of thinking about the interactions of a relationship. Intelligent, creative, sense of humor, honesty, no drama.
About my work
No need to work anymore, very comfortable as is.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
Singing ( for real ) , working with my hands ...a DIY kind of guy. Reading, Writing , Good wines, nice people. My many friends. etc.
My idea of a great date
Closeness and sensuality as in touchy feelly, jovial, sense of humor, no drama, intelligent thinking and conversation. Open to things and doing spur of the moment. No brats, snooty, or princess types. Grounded. Looking ahead to new horizons.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
Been that way for 26 years, nothing really to talk about.
What is your fantasy vacation?
Alone at my private cabin. I will travel sometimes if something inspires me, or business. I like natural phenomena, not glitz and commercialism. The Volcano's in Hawaii were awesome.
What is your academic background?
Graduate Degrees equalivalent to PhD.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
I always like vacation.. what ...did you say you like to travel ?
What do you find attractive in people?
Honesty, intelligence, shyness/humility, sense of humor, no drama, being there without the need to create chaos, drama, or push a ego. Submissiveness based on wanting to please and be comfortable being pleased. i.e. high sensuality. (Women) If your afraid to be touched and cared for ... move on. Common Sense, no fads or insane causes.
What do others do that irritate you?
Paltering, creating drama over nothing, no humor, totally self conscious about appearance and mannerism. Big Ego's. Being hyper.
What do you think is your best quality?
Intelligence, loyalty, honesty, calm, sure of myself, settled. I teach by leading very well.
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Not sure I would want to.
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Are you truly interested or just gathering attraction points. What are you truly here for.... just say it.
Describe your physique.
Tall and symetrical. Easy to look at ( I am told ) a little extra weight, not skinnty or anemic looking. Healthy look. Clean and groomed well. No dirty fingernails. :-)
What do you do well sexually?
Closeness, sensual practices, i.e. Tantric - Kama Sutra and my own "Relational Energy" concept. My mate must be sensual and responsive, or able and open to learn to be that way. Building high energy states. "A slow and steady pace wins the race" as they say. A volcano or earth plates build up energy and pressure before it erupts or quakes !
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Must care about what is going on, learn to be as sensuous and energy building as I do. Just going through the motions is not good enough. This is not about one thing.... it is about the whole picture.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
To be able to continue to teach and lead women to get in touch with Energy Exchange ( building and sharing ) which forever changes their point of view, understanding and fulfillment of her sensual/sexual potential. This is my greatest satisfaction.
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
To many to mention, I am an eclectic man
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No, and no drugs either. We should be our own drugs learning how to tap into the energy that is already there.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Mostly open candid friendships, as we learn from each other. One time if she wants to learn or experience something ( sex or no sex ), playing is acceptable only if by play it is meant we are there to learn. She may want to learn sensuous ways to please, or be pleased, To remove a hibition such as self consciousness about something. Or to experience a kink in a safe discreet environment. It could also be a mutually agreed semi long lasting relationship where we like exploring the sensuous delights. Long term would be best either live-in or mutually exclusive.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
If you have an interest in D/s read my article on Dominant Types and their submissive counterparts. Over ten years old and still kinda viral. Emails with inquiries and comments accepted. Apparently this forum does not allow links. So go to asubmissivesjourney (dot) com, and search for the article on Dominant_types. Or Google "Equalitarian Dominant"
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