Seeking Women: 18 - 64
Des Moines, Iowa
Last Activity: > 3 months ago
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Double-Scorpio likes the Occasional Surprises
My work schedule and living situation make it difficult for me to find time ... for ME! I'm a busy Creative Professional and I live with my son who just passed the age of 18. I'm still in the "rebuilding process" after a nasty divorce earlier in the past decade. I was a single Dad who didn't get much financial help from my son's Mom (plus, I had to pay HER back child support racked up when she left me destitute early-on after the divorce was final). Therefore ...
I'm interested in casual no-strings situations as far as dating is concerned. I'm definitely NOT anyone's potential "Sugar Daddy" -- not by a long shot. But, I AM youthful for my age, young at heart, and I can be XXXtremely naughty when it comes to SEX. I became knowledgeable about sexual matters EARLY in my teens, and enjoyed re-connecting with that aspect of myself after my separation and divorce -- being a free man again has been an important ingredient in my "rebuilding effort" to say the VERY least! I'm not interested in hopping from "relationship-to-relationship" in some sad-sack effort to try and "find my true love". I just wanna have FUN! If something emerges from this frame of mind and I find someone exceptional -- it'll surprise the HELL out of me, but I won't rule it OUT-OF-HAND! I'm just not in a position to settle down ... YET! I tried that before, and -- well -- I still have some catching up to do.
The person I would like to meet
With the above clearly in mind, I'm looking for free-spirits, creative types, sexually-confident and adventurous at heart. I find that I get along best with females who are between the ages of 35 and 55 -- women who aren't interested in starting new families again. Since I'm busy, myself, I like females who are also quite busy with their own careers but are looking for that "spice of life" that can be enjoyed when it's time for "US". I don't have time for co-dependency or lying or jealousy or ... what I DO have time for is a devil-may-care attitude, good humor, sexual playfulness, intellectual adventurism, sensual intimacy ... and orgasmic voraciousness!!!
About my work
I have to be at work from 9am - 6pm Monday through Friday. I also work occasional Saturdays from around 11am until 4pm to rack up a few extra hours overtime. (I can USE the overtime, who doesn't appreciate the extra bucks?). I won't have vacation pay available until the beginning of 2013 because I had to cash it in for an unexpectedly QUICK move to a new residence earlier this year, so I don't have much time or financial resources to go on quickie excursions or shopping sprees ... I just have time for GOOD SEX.
What do you like to do for fun/hobbies?
I enjoy writing, creative art, making and listening to music. I'm good at computers so I like helping people with their obstinate computers to make them work right again, I enjoy erotica (porn!) so I am not someone who hangs out well with hung-up prudes. If I had a bicycle, I would like to ride the many trails around the Des Moines Area. I enjoy going for late-night walks and go out to the occasional dive bar for a few drinks now and then.
My idea of a great date
I've been stood up for more than my share of "dates", so why don't we just agree on "getting together" when we can ... and have some Damn Good Sex? The rest will pan out, if it needs to.
If you are divorced/widower, you can talk about how that happened here.
I mentioned enough above to let you know that I was royally screwed over during my divorce. It is in the past, so I would like to just let it BE back there, where it fucking belongs. I cam out OK after all was said and done, but I'm still "rebuilding" my life. It sucked that bad!
What is your fantasy vacation?
Vacation? W-w-w-w-what the HELL is THAT? I have forgotten what that means. Hopefully I won't in the future, but -- right now -- I don't know if I will ever be able to have the kind of vacation that I had when I was younger. Vacations cost $$$$$. $$$$$ that I just don't have right now, if ever.
What is your academic background?
I graduated from Lincoln High School here in Des Moines, and then I attended Grand View College (now University) for one semester and a January Term. I was a Fine Arts major with Art History as my minor. The best advice I got from my instructors was to take my talents and get paid learning the graphic design profession by working for different printing companies and in-house graphics departments within companies. I did that. I am self-taught as a Creative Professional. I ran my own cartography business for about a decade, and it prepared me for a teaching stint at ISU in the College of Design. I taught Graphic Communications in (Urban) Planning for one semester in 1996. No degree. None needed. I knew things that college courses didn't teach.
Where did you last vacation and did you like it?
The last vacation I took was wayyyy back in 1994 when I went to visit a potential customer in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I thoroughly enjoyed visiting that city, and I wish I could visit there again.
What do you find attractive in people?
As I said above, I appreciate naughtiness (devil-may-care attitude, sexual confidence, good humor, intellectual adventurism). Being rebellious is a good thing. I find many things attractive that are unique to each individual.
What do others do that irritate you?
Like I said, I hate liars, cheats, duplicity, materialism. I also don't have time for women who want to try and change me, own me or make me the father of their next kid.
What do you think is your best quality?
What one thing would you change about your personality if you could?
Try and not be such an easy-going type who expects as good as I give. I don't expect to be fucked over, but I have been -- way more than I deserve. Maybe I should be more suspicious of people's motives, but I am not like that. I guess I'll always be ripe for a good fuck-over now and then. But, when that happens ... I become quite irreversibly INVISIBLE. And I'm GOOD at that!
What one question would you want answered in an initial email from another member?
Are you sexually confident?
Describe your physique.
I'm slender but not muscle-bound (except for my long legs which I obtained riding my bike 10,000 miles and running track when I was young). For my age, I am quite limber and resilient and I can still run FAST!!!
What do you do well sexually?
Give ooodles and OOODLES of pleasure to my partner(s). I believe in giving pleasure as the source of my own pleasurable experiences. I love to make females have orgasms ... as many as they can possibly want.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Whatever it takes to make me harder than granite.
What fantasy(s) are you still waiting to experience?
Would you understand if I said that such fantasies I still have would require you to understand where I've been, and where I still want to go, sexually?
What fantasy(s) have you already experienced?
Again, I would prefer to tell you such things when I know that you are ready to hear such from me ... because you know where I'm coming from.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
No. And I want to keep it that way.
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
To some degree, all three have merit. The first two are what I'm looking for RIGHT NOW.
Free Space. Say anything you want!
I've said quite a mouthful ... already. I can definitely say more when you and I are enjoying "pillow talk".
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