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The two of us, together, satisfying each other!
I'm educated, caring, witty, humorous, well-read, well groomed, musical, spiritual, I've lived all over the world. As a brass and woodwind player I have a very strong agile tongue :). In touch with my emotions and able to connect on many levels. I'm very giving in many ways (emotionally and physically), can be patient to get to a deeper place. I love deep thoughtful communication and there's nothing I enjoy more than growing to know and appreciate another person. Nothing in the world has as much value, mystery, and potential joy as touching another on all available dimensions. I have a strong sex drive and hunger for another that is just as hungry. I don't have to always have my way. I am genuinely not egotistical, but I know I'm a rare individual, and desire to connect with someone similarly precious. I can and must be discrete. If you'd like to make real some of your fantasies, I'd like to be a part of their fulfillment.
The person I would like to meet
I love witty intelligent women. You don't have to dumb down, I'm not threatened ... I can hold my own in a conversation. I love women with important things to do, are daily in stressful situations, and yet yearn to let your hair down with someone who will accept you when you're relaxed ... with messy hair and real weaknesses; no need to pretend or impress me. I can give you a warm gentle massage ... gently kiss your neck and ears, and help the stress drain away. At the same time, I love a generous and attentive lover. When two people love to both give and receive ... the energy can travel back and forth, building into something really enjoyable. I'm absolutely not a christian ... I am moral, spiritual, kind and sensitive ... but honestly, I think as much harm has been brought to the earth by the lords of organized religion than any good they've done. If you still have some loving affiliation with some mainline group ... I'm not your guy. If you feel the same way, and want to break out with new experiences. Enough with the guilt and the fear of damnation. Do you like Smooth Jazz, R&B, Funk, Classical music, Latin, New Age, Bossa Nova? ... a well chosen wine or sake savored slowly? Do you like to cook ... or like a guy that does as well?
About my work
Stressful ... and filled with confusion and change. It gives me plenty of opportunity to be kind and compassionate when we all take turns freaking out. I believe in hard smart work, giving your employer more than they're paying you for ... just so you can sleep at night. I love my coworkers and they make every day valuable ... but opportunistic corporations that suck the life out of people and then discard them will someday be like the dinosaurs. The only part of my life where I "play the game" is at work ... and that is simply adaptation and the survival of the fittest.
Describe your physique.
Strong, fairly tall, a little extra padding covering a lot of lean muscle. Built for snuggling and more serious sensual pursuits.
What do you do well sexually?
I read the signs well. I listen and watch and try, until I find things that really bring you pleasure. Like I mentioned earlier, I have a really talented tongue just made for touching all your favorite parts. Lots of endurance.
What is the favorite thing you like sexually done to you?
Someone who really likes sex ... doesn't feel awkward about it. Doesn't mind the sweat and the smells of two clean, well-groomed people letting down and giving themselves fully to their passions. I love oral sex ... giving and receiving. I love kissing ... lightly, softly, deeply ... wet intense kissing that could ... all by itself bring you near to the point of orgasm without anything else touching. I love water, hot tubs, showers, soap. I love blindfolds and the heightened sensitivity of all the other senses when the one is denied.
Do you have any STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)?
Are you looking for a one night stand, to play for a while, or a long-term Adult relationship?
Maybe start with fun experimentation. It would be better to find someone that is in a similar situation that wants an ongoing discrete ever-deepening sensual encounter ... carrying with it, good discussions, genuine caring ... but understanding the limited nature of the situation. Sex is the desire, but we're whole people and to really enjoy it there needs to be something more than rubbing body parts together, and something less substantially altering the other parts of our lives.
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